Ok so my mother is really starting to ride my ass about this and even though I know she's going to change the whole thing once I do it I have to get it done or she's going to get all pissy and throw a fit that she has to do everything... either way that will be the end result and I'll end up getting no credit for doing it because it's not the way she wants....

I need to put together the itinerary for the ceremony with music selections next to corresponding events and such... I just want to make sure I have all the little details covered that I might forget until I talk to the minister... I have the basic few for a simple Christian wedding, but I want to make sure I don't leave anything out....

We didn't have one, so I would have no idea on what to do with this. I don't really think you need to be very detailed with this though. I mean mine would've say
Ceremony
Reception
Honeymoon
:P

i don't know. why don't you call the minister up and ask what you need then take it from there. he'll be glad to help after all it is one part of his job to consult

I'll email my sister and see if she still has the order of service for her ceremony. Can you hang on til tomorrow?