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AG2Wife
09-30-2007, 01:02 PM
Do you dress modest.... or .. not so modest? ... Do you show alot of cleavage?

For those who are in long term relationships/ married, etc.... Has your way of dressing changed since you got in that relationship?

I hope this makes sense!!

princessgwynn
09-30-2007, 01:04 PM
I don't have any cleavage to show! :lmao

rcwant2be
09-30-2007, 01:06 PM
i used to show alot of belly button, but then i got an overbearing job that felt the need to dictate my private life too, so i stopped doing that & i'm not so comfortable with it.

i don't really have any cleavage to show.

pretty much, i'm a jeans & t shirt girl.

Kelsey
09-30-2007, 01:07 PM
I don't have any cleavage to show! :lmao

:lmao Ditto!

I dress very modestly.

As for my way of dress from before/after I got married....it's pretty much stayed the same. My style has shifted somewhat from being punk-ish to being more sophisticated, but I still have that free-spirited side to me.

USCGBoxerMom
09-30-2007, 01:10 PM
I unfortunately have clevage and it shows in a V-neck T-shirt not a lot, but it does. I am mostly a jeans and T-shirt girl myself and longerish shorts so I dress pretty modest. But I loves some sexy high heels and sexy boots under my jeans. It's kinda my "bad side" LOL

JudyB
09-30-2007, 01:22 PM
Jeans and t-shirt kinda gal, but I really do like the scoop neck t's...yea it shows a little bit of cleavage, but not a lot.
I love high heeled boots too...but then again I am a shorty so any show with a heel is good for me.
Other than that I think I am pretty modest......but I wouldn't say that it's because of a long term relationship....I pretty much always have been

Purplekittie
09-30-2007, 01:23 PM
i dress seductively when im going out to bars or clubs, but thats about it. i do show cleavage in normal everyday tops though....not too much though.

Kiser'sBabe
09-30-2007, 01:24 PM
I'm more of a jeans and t-shirt kinda girl too. When I was in college I dressed more racey but now that I have kids and a DH I dress real modest.

Rach
09-30-2007, 01:28 PM
If I had a good body, I like to wear the shirts that hug you right and show just enough cleavage but not too much (although I wouldn't wear those all the time, just for when going out). I also would wear cute skirts/shorts w/ the proper heels to show off the legs if I had them :lol

Right now I dress modestly b/c I'm pregnant and after the pregnancy, I'll still dress that way till I lose weight.

I say if you have the body- show it off.

When I was single, my style was mainly from The Limited, so it was classy. That's what I like.

proudofmysailor
09-30-2007, 01:31 PM
I have to dress moderately at work, and at home I am mostly in jeans and t's or comfortable shirts. I don't have much cleavage to speak :no

Becca
09-30-2007, 01:32 PM
When I'm in shape, I dress sexy. Not like, mid-drift showing teeny bopper sexy, but snug jeans and form fitting tops, etc. A little cleavage when appropriate (date night, etc). When I'm not in shape, I feel like crap about myself and wear what is comfortable.

I wish I could feel great about myself regardless of how I look. I just don't - and it sucks. I don't want Paige to grow up judging herself based on her appearance (even though she's GORGEOUS!!). I don't know how it happened to me, so how the heck am I supposed to keep it from happening to her? :( :sigh

tifflovezyou
09-30-2007, 01:48 PM
:teehee I dress a lil sexy... I wear low cut tops, mini skirts, and high boots when im in the appropriate place. I dont do it when it isnt the "right" time.

breechum
09-30-2007, 02:28 PM
I'm pretty modest. Matter of fact, I wore a low-cut dress for the ball last night and I spent most of the night pulling it up, :lol.

LaneyBug
09-30-2007, 02:55 PM
Well, I try to be modest, but it seems that all of my shirts are low cut, either that or my hooties are just too big and they can't help but pop out the top.:giggle J/K. I don't think about it too much. If I'm not comfortable, then I don't wear it. My DH tells me what he thinks, but he's never said I look too skanky, so guess I'm okay.:lmao

MontanaSweetie
09-30-2007, 03:24 PM
I used to dress like a trampy slut, to be honest...

After I got married, my way of dressing completely changed. I don't mind showing a little bit of cleavage every now and then, but I'm more of a jeans & t-shirt kind of girl now. I like to dress sexy when DH and I are going out though.

Jennifer
09-30-2007, 03:28 PM
I've had the same style for years, marriage did not change it. I hate showing skin at the waist, and I don't like showing a lot of cleavage but I don't have a choice since I have tiggo bitties and I don't like high neck shirts(they make me look stupid).

Ellen
09-30-2007, 03:30 PM
I dress pretty modest..

dotb182
09-30-2007, 03:34 PM
I dunno what i'd call it.. I'm not modest.. but I'm careful about what and when I show stuff. I have a large chest.. so even in a tshirt there is no way to hid that lol. So it all depends.. when I'm going out, I'm normally jeans and a cute top ( low but not too low) everyday stuff its jeans and a t.

Del
09-30-2007, 04:11 PM
I'm anything but modest, unless I'm 1) really tired 2) really sick or 3) cleaning. In that case, I usually wear a baggy T.

I try to show less cleavage than I used to, not because I'm in a long term relationship, but because I have bigger boobs now and I don't wanna over-step my limits. I keep my tummy mostly covered, and there aren't boobs flying out, so I'm good with that. I do love short skirts though. :shrug

LittleMsSunshine
09-30-2007, 04:14 PM
I used to be WAY insecure about my body (ok I still am)... but during highschool, I wore baggy sweatshirts & jeans to hide what my momma gave me :giggle

It wasn't till I was out of highschool that I started wearing more "age appropriate" clothing. I'll show a little cleavage every now and then, depending on the situation. Never anything tacky though :P

farmerchyk
09-30-2007, 04:26 PM
BC (before children) I was more inclined to show a bit more cleavage.. but since I have had two kidlets my body had definitely changed so I tend to cover up alot more...

Bryanna
09-30-2007, 04:27 PM
i wouldnt really say i am modest
but i wouldnt say im NOT modest.
i wear whatever is comfortable and fits the situation
sometimes i show off mah boobies (i have them, might as well!)
but sometimes i like to keep myself wrapped up.
i guess its all based on my mood :)

carmel11725
09-30-2007, 04:30 PM
i wouldnt really say i am modest
but i wouldnt say im NOT modest.
i wear whatever is comfortable and fits the situation
sometimes i show off mah boobies (i have them, might as well!)
but sometimes i like to keep myself wrapped up.
i guess its all based on my mood :)

same here!

harrisonsdream
09-30-2007, 04:47 PM
i think i dress mostly modestly sometimes i show off my cleavage, hell i love my breasts but it's not tacky. no more than 1 inch of cleavage

Shaky
09-30-2007, 05:01 PM
I'm pretty modest. I've always been. Now if I'm dressing up for a ball or party I dress sexier but still not showing much. I'm all for comfy and to me there is nothing comfy about wearing something that I have to be pulling up or down all night lol

inlovewithjon
09-30-2007, 05:33 PM
I dress pretty modestly...i don't mind showing some leg....i don't have much clevage...but i like showing off my back too. I think it's more fun to dress sexy without showing off a lot of skin...like a cute pencil skirt and sweet heels and a cute form fitting top.

*Sarah*
09-30-2007, 05:56 PM
I dress a little of both. In the summer time I am usually in spegetti straps and shorts, in the winter I like to wear figure fitting tops that are semi low cut. Dh is always picking on me telling me to "put them away" (my girls:giggle) but I dont usually wear anything skanky or slutty. I love to look cute though:)

harrisonsdream
09-30-2007, 05:58 PM
I dress a little of both. In the summer time I am usually in spegetti straps and shorts, in the winter I like to wear figure fitting tops that are semi low cut. Dh is always picking on me telling me to "put them away" (my girls:giggle) but I dont usually wear anything skanky or slutty. I love to look cute though:)

:agree

Astra
09-30-2007, 06:01 PM
i have to much clevage to show >_< however i make a point not to show it.

i dress modest...yet strange :lol
it hasnt changed any since i got married.

Traci
09-30-2007, 06:01 PM
I dress pretty modest..

:agree
That's me. Now if I were in better shape, I would wear half shirts and a two piece bathing suit. maybe alittle more sexy when I go out.:giggle

Miss B Hav'n
09-30-2007, 06:36 PM
I am pretty modest and always have been. I did tend to show a *bit* more skin - it wasn't marriage that changed that but rather the weight I have gained in the last few years.

Cherrish
09-30-2007, 08:59 PM
It doesn't matter if I want cleavage or not...unless I wear a dang shirt buttoned all the way up to my neck, my breasts drag it down and create their own cleavage. :giggle

I don't even OWN a push-up bra (not that I need one), and my breasts always look like they're about to pop out like toast.

I dress normal, I guess. Not too much, not too little.

The Megster
09-30-2007, 09:03 PM
I can say without a doubt that after I had DS, I started dressing differently. Getting a little older, my style has changed too. Luckily I'm one of those girls that can just rock all different syles.

bellezzagoffa
09-30-2007, 09:13 PM
Unless it is a turtle neck the girls try to peak out of anything I wear...and usually succeed. I guess that is the curse of big boobs. Most of my closet (the non-work stuff) is jeans, cute t-shirts from American Eagle or Old Navy (so not too racey) and v-necks. The bar hopping/night out stuff is a little on the flirty side but nothing too racey.

Kara
09-30-2007, 09:41 PM
I dress very modestly, I don't have anyone to impress! :rofl

harrisonsdream
09-30-2007, 09:45 PM
It doesn't matter if I want cleavage or not...unless I wear a dang shirt buttoned all the way up to my neck, my breasts drag it down and create their own cleavage. :giggle

I don't even OWN a push-up bra (not that I need one), and my breasts always look like they're about to pop out like toast.

I dress normal, I guess. Not too much, not too little.

:rofl that's funny but i know how you feel

Brandi
09-30-2007, 09:49 PM
very modestly, IMO. I'm taken, so no point in trying to draw the attention of every other man out there. I am a jeans and tshirt kind of gal :yes

Saigon
09-30-2007, 11:16 PM
I have no cleavage. Like none! I dress pretty conservatively. I wear jeans a t-shirts. But they usually seem a bit snug fitting. I try to keep in good shape.

sunshyne
09-30-2007, 11:21 PM
I would say modest. Really It's more sloppy then anything. All I own are a few pair of jeans and some old baggy t-shirts. I am a big girl so I like to be all covered up. I hate shopping for clothes.

Pebbles
10-01-2007, 12:21 AM
I dress modestly.

My style hasn't changed because of marriage.

NavyChiefs_Wife
10-01-2007, 12:40 AM
i dress moderate. i've never been into the real short skirts and short shorts. i like to wear jeans and tops that hug my curves and i like to show some cleavage but my boobs aren't hanging out everywhere. i like to play up what i've got without having it all hang out.

Felicia
10-01-2007, 07:34 AM
I'm pretty modest, I have some low cut shirts, but I usually wear a cami under them, lol. If we're going out at night sometimes I'll show a little more than usual. Since I'm a teacher I have to dress pretty conservatively which I usually do anyways.