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thats scary im sorry. i hope things get better!!!

That sucks... but it will get better!

Wow....I hope you guys work something out soon. Good Luck. :hugs

that is scary. at least he was ok when you moved him off.

Maybe, before you move to separate beds, try building a "wall" out of extra pillows between you two. That way you are both still there, but it is a bit of a barrier between you two until he can get through that aspect of being home

:agree with what your saying.It's possible it could have been a nightmare.Im sure he just didnt realize that he was on top of you.

My db has PTSD.And if he is having a hard time.He likes to be held.So maybe thats what yours wanted.

until he can get through that aspect of being home

He has been home for 2 1/2 years, been hospitalized once for suicidal ideation, once in a PTSD treatment program and is about to be hospitalized again in a different program (at the end of this month). I think we're way past that point and just trying to deal with things as they come.

Gosh, I think about your situation a lot. I feel so awful for the both of you.

I'm really sorry. I truely hope it gets better.

:( thats pretty scary. Even though it may have scared you, I think it might be scarier and possibly more traumatic for him to be away from you though? My grandparents have slept in separate beds for about 15 years b/c of my grandpa's snoring and they have a wonderful marriage otherwise. So, it's not the end of the world if you have to (L)

Wow-I really hope things start getting better for him. I really feel for you guys.

I can't imagine how tough this is for you. For someone who dealt with PTSD myself (not DH) I know I had the weirdest swings. Sometimes I couldn't be apart from DH and needed him close, other times I wanted to be as far away from him as possible. I hope that the program your DH goes into helps. Have you tried EMDR treatment? That helped me, but again, it was a totally different cause so I don't know if it is appropriate. On another note, my parents have slept in separate rooms my whole life (27 years and counting) and they have a great marriage. So it truely isn't the end of the world if you do need to do it. It's not like you're doing it because you don't want to sleep next to each other. I hope it does get better for you though!

Hugs to you. I'm so sorry that you are going through this. I know we are all so excitted for our guys to come home & I can't imagine going through this too. after all you've been through & he made it home & now you're all going through a different battle. My prayers are with you & him & the rest of the family.