wow what a crazy poll, i just got back from the hospital about an hor ago because i am still having irregular bleeding from my miscarraige in august. i have been complete wreck since it all happened and i pretty much feel like shit all the time. the doc today told me to give it another month, cause it can take up to three months for your bady to get back to somewhat normal. today really sucked because my db is in kentucky, and i just got off the phone with my mother to ask her why she left me all alone in the hospital and she said that, "she had to do everything all on her own, and it made her a a better person, so i need to suck it up and do it on my own too"!!! who says this to her daughter?!!! when your baby dies, you dont suck it up!!! its not a paper cut!!! anyway to say the leasst i am very distraught over what she said to me, feeling very alone and like nobody understands. then i log here and come to find out lots understand. Im not by any means happy that yall understand, in fact my heart grieves for all of your losses. I believe that one day we will all meet our children in heaven. but it does offer me hope that i can get through all of this and that is all i wanted to say. thank you all for sharing because my heart hurts today, and all of your stories brought me hope for a better tomorrow.

(((HUG))) I am so sorry!!

I am here for you. I know exactly how you feel. The night I was admitted during one of my miscarriages, then DH went home! to sleep! When they were putting me on the pitocin drip. I was soo hurt. :(

I'm sorry this happened!!!!

(((HUG))) I am so sorry!!

I am here for you. I know exactly how you feel. The night I was admitted during one of my miscarriages, then DH went home! to sleep! When they were putting me on the pitocin drip. I was soo hurt. :(

I'm sorry this happened!!!!

thank you, i am sorry that you had to be alone. i am starting to feel like people who haven't been through it take the situation too lightly if that makes any sense.

I am soo sorry :( Its a hard thing to have to go through trust me. I agree with you though, I believe that we will meet our little ones in heaven one day. If you ever want to talk feel free to pm me anytime. Im here for you sweetie :hugs

:hugs I am so sorry!!

Agreed, if you haven't been through it. You really don't understand. Especially if you have and your partner hasn't. I feel so bad for people that have lost and really don't have anyone to relate to

Many :hugs... There are def people who understand and you can talk to here (includes me).

IM so sorry that was very insensitive for your mom to say to you. My mom is the same way, she doesnt want to help with certain things because she did not get to do them or have help. It is not the same as what you went through though. :hugs

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I'm sorry your mother handled things so poorly. I'm sure she loves you, she just doesn't know how to deal with the situation.

:hugs I hope you're feeling better soon...

I am sorry for your loss. :hugs A lot of us have lost pregnancys and were all here if you need to talk.

I am sorry for what your mom said. But at the same time I am not surprised. My mom has said some pretty hurtful things to me in the past few months. I know she means well, but she has never lost a child let alone miscarry.

There are plenty of us on the boards that understand. :hugs

I am so sorry that she was rude to you. It makes me mad when parents do that and leave you alone in your toughest moments when you really need someone there to comfort you.

~*~Charity~*~