I didn't want you to think that you were being picked on. You are in a hard spot and are asking for advice. Didn't want you to think I was being a jerk.... I'm just trying to help....maybe give you a look at things from a different view. KWIM?? :hugs

I no I totally understand!! I put myself out there for advice and help, and I appreciate it! I know that it is hard though when you dont SEE how things are or arent experiencing it, so some advice may work, some wont kwim? But I totally appreciate it!!