View Full Version : We Laughed Until We Cried...


iluv_mysoldier
10-27-2007, 11:38 AM
so everyone on here, well mostly everyone has been reading my posts about my ex and his stupid mother right? so yall all know the story...

i got a phone call last night from Jesse...a sober phone call to be exact...
i kept myself calm and answered the phone, and we did the usual small talk and then i asked him why he lied to his mother about me cheating on him...

he said, "huh? i havent talked to my mom since the night before we broke up."
i said, "she called me monday and was like, "why did you cheat on my son?"
he said, "i would never say anything like that to her, especially if it wasnt true. i dont like bringing my mom into my relationships..."
so i sat there and i was thinking he was lying to me, until he said this..."hold on, i will 3 way call her and ask her myself while your on the phone."

so he gets her on the phone and asks her about it...(she doesnt know i'm on the phone) and she FREAKIN ADMITS TO LYING TO ME ABOUT HIM CALLING!:wowsers:censored:tsktsk

so i'm sitting there, trying my hardest not to say anything while...my sweet...although sometimes stupid soldier defends me and comes unglued on his mom...so he finally says, "i cant believe you would do this to her mom, allison...is there anything you want to add before i end this call..."

his mother goes ballistic...and all i can seem to think of to say is... ":censored you! i can believe you would lie to me just to keep me away from your son...":tsktsk

so right now...me and jesse...we're talking...not in a relationship, we're going to wait till he comes back to the san antonio, and we're going to go on a date and see how that goes face to face first...

so...lol...i'm a not quite, almost, kinda army girlfriend again...i suppose...

oh...and for yall who are wondering about the freak out over the text msgs i sent him, he apologized profusely and said he made a horrible mistake ending it with me over something so small, he's just woried about iraq and his dad whose fighting cancer, and his parents divorce...we'll see...

missk
10-27-2007, 11:44 AM
What a weird mom! Glad you got that part settled. Are you guys going to keep in touch until he gets back?

iluv_mysoldier
10-27-2007, 11:50 AM
yea we are, i'm hoping we'll get together before he leaves, but if we dont, yea, we're going to write and call and send care packages and stuff! like i said, we still love each other...but we're kinda seeing that if it isnt made so absolutely apparent before he leaves, we will wait till he gets back to start anything...

as for his mom...she's a bitch...

missk
10-27-2007, 12:00 PM
that sounds like a plan to me! When does he leave? If I had to bet you will get together before he leaves, because he's probably just freaking out right now with all the pressures he's going to face.

MaggieMae
10-27-2007, 12:00 PM
wow! crazy... glad it got straightened out!

Tara S.
10-27-2007, 12:37 PM
so everyone on here, well mostly everyone has been reading my posts about my ex and his stupid mother right? so yall all know the story...

i got a phone call last night from Jesse...a sober phone call to be exact...
i kept myself calm and answered the phone, and we did the usual small talk and then i asked him why he lied to his mother about me cheating on him...

he said, "huh? i havent talked to my mom since the night before we broke up."
i said, "she called me monday and was like, "why did you cheat on my son?"
he said, "i would never say anything like that to her, especially if it wasnt true. i dont like bringing my mom into my relationships..."
so i sat there and i was thinking he was lying to me, until he said this..."hold on, i will 3 way call her and ask her myself while your on the phone."

so he gets her on the phone and asks her about it...(she doesnt know i'm on the phone) and she FREAKIN ADMITS TO LYING TO ME ABOUT HIM CALLING!:wowsers:censored:tsktsk

so i'm sitting there, trying my hardest not to say anything while...my sweet...although sometimes stupid soldier defends me and comes unglued on his mom...so he finally says, "i cant believe you would do this to her mom, allison...is there anything you want to add before i end this call..."

his mother goes ballistic...and all i can seem to think of to say is... ":censored you! i can believe you would lie to me just to keep me away from your son...":tsktsk

so right now...me and jesse...we're talking...not in a relationship, we're going to wait till he comes back to the san antonio, and we're going to go on a date and see how that goes face to face first...

so...lol...i'm a not quite, almost, kinda army girlfriend again...i suppose...

oh...and for yall who are wondering about the freak out over the text msgs i sent him, he apologized profusely and said he made a horrible mistake ending it with me over something so small, he's just woried about iraq and his dad whose fighting cancer, and his parents divorce...we'll see...

oh girl, i hadnt talked to you in a couple of days..im glad tohear you guys cleared things up...i was pretty confused about it too..good luck

bill-jenny
10-27-2007, 01:02 PM
Well she definitely tops my mother-in-law and there are very few that do. Just remember that if you do decide to stay with him the family is going is going to be a huge deal. BUT if you really love him its worth it. PROMISE


Glad everything worked out!!

MissJasmin25
10-27-2007, 02:09 PM
Well she definitely tops my mother-in-law and there are very few that do. Just remember that if you do decide to stay with him the family is going is going to be a huge deal. BUT if you really love him its worth it. PROMISE


Glad everything worked out!!

i second that!!! I don't really like my MIL at all, but now i feel sort of lucky lol!!! AWWW girl i'm glad that this is sort of working itself out. TALK TO YOU SOOOON!

Godders_Girl80
10-27-2007, 06:35 PM
Wow...his mom sounds like a certified :screwy

I am glad you two got to the bottom of it though and I hope it stays sorted out and you find your way back to each other. :yes

Mosley04
10-27-2007, 07:18 PM
i am glad that both of you got that worked out. i dont know why she would have done that-its sounds so mean.hopefully in time everything will work out for the two of you. thanks for the update

iluv_mysoldier
10-27-2007, 09:59 PM
i am glad that both of you got that worked out. i dont know why she would have done that-its sounds so mean.hopefully in time everything will work out for the two of you. thanks for the update

all week, i've only thought of him, how much i care for him...and how much i hope he will be ok. so i am hoping things will work out...especially for him in iraq...

NavyLove4Ever
10-27-2007, 10:46 PM
I'm glad you guys are starting to work things out!

lennyliliana
10-28-2007, 03:09 AM
what a nightmare is the mom