:banghead Ok girls, I need your help in a bad way. I HATE MYSPACE. jus thot I'd start with that. I haven't heard from my guy in a few days. The last time we did talk, he told me (as you know) that he really wasn't comfortable with me waiting for him, that this doesn't count as a relationship because he's in Iraq for a year and we didn't date very long before he left, but he's interested in seeing where things go when he gets back. None of this makes me feel very secure, but I was jus rolling with it. Well today I get on myspace and noticed that he changed his profile pic, so I went in to look at all his pics again and reminisce and smile. Hmmm. So the pic that he changed for his profile pic, there's a comment by a girl in BAGHDAD where he's at who also happens to be at the same base saying this is her favorite pic of him. Another comment by her on a pic of him when he's all dressed up saying your shirt matches your eyes, nice, and last BUT NOT LEAST, a comment on a picture that I took of him when we were climbing a mountain together that said "something some people will only ever dream of doing...I cant wait". He and I were making plans on climbing mountains together when he gets home jus like a few weeks ago, is he talking to her now about the same thing??? Her profile is set to private so I can't check it out, but it's not like she's ugly or anything. I want to be able to trust him, but now I'm wondering if he didn't want me to wait, not cuz he thot he was wasting my time, but cuz of this girl! Do you all think I'm reading too much into this??? It doesn't make me feel good at all. I know that stuff isn't supposed to happen over there, but I know it does. I hope this isn't true! We are supposed to go to Greece together in Feb for his R&R! I want to be able to trust him....help! :confused

Just ask him. Any answers we may give would be assumptions.

Honestly just ask him, you can read into anything if you want it to be bad. You either trust him or you don't. :shrug I trust my dh, yea he has funky comments from other people on his page but I know that he comes home to me and I am his world. If in doubt ask your db.

I say ask him. :yes

See what he has to say about it.

:yes i agree, ask him. if you gives you a shady response, then you can worry, but as of right now don't jump to any conclusions. maybe she just has a crush on him. :hugs

Sounds fishy to me. I agree with everyone else that you should just ask him.

First off I just want to say...myspace gets a lot of people in trouble (trust me)

Anyways, you should just ask him about it and see what he says, try not and think too into cause it just could be nothing but if you dont ask him, this will just keep eating you up and it will just get much worse. Good luck!!! :hugs

Theres only one thing to do as of right now ... just ask. All men at one time or another seem shady.. its just in their nature.. but it doesnt always mean they are up to something bad. And girls.. well we all know how some girls can be. If they have a crush on a guy they will do what they can to flirt with them and what not.. even if the guy is taken.. ( I for one dont like those kinds of girls) so sometimes as a girlfirend, Fiance or wife you just have to brush it off as a rude girl.. and have faith in your DB that he isnt doing anything wrong.

Hang in there.. things that are ment to be always finds ways of working out! :hug

Theres only one thing to do as of right now ... just ask. All men at one time or another seem shady.. its just in their nature.. but it doesnt always mean they are up to something bad. And girls.. well we all know how some girls can be. If they have a crush on a guy they will do what they can to flirt with them and what not.. even if the guy is taken.. ( I for one dont like those kinds of girls) so sometimes as a girlfirend, Fiance or wife you just have to brush it off as a rude girl.. and have faith in your DB that he isnt doing anything wrong.

Hang in there.. things that are ment to be always finds ways of working out! :hug

:agree

Theres only one thing to do as of right now ... just ask. All men at one time or another seem shady.. its just in their nature.. but it doesnt always mean they are up to something bad. And girls.. well we all know how some girls can be. If they have a crush on a guy they will do what they can to flirt with them and what not.. even if the guy is taken.. ( I for one dont like those kinds of girls) so sometimes as a girlfirend, Fiance or wife you just have to brush it off as a rude girl.. and have faith in your DB that he isnt doing anything wrong.

Hang in there.. things that are ment to be always finds ways of working out! :hug

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I would ask him. It's a tricky situation because technically he's not doing anything wrong because you aren't official...but i KNOWWW WHERE YOU'RE COMING FROM. I would be like ....wtf....what do i do??


it's hard.

'i cant wait' could mean that SHE plans on mountain climbing at some point but NOT necessarily with him.

it COULD mean that he is going climbing with her

im gonna be a broken record and say 'JUST ASK HIM'
but be nice about it. dont attack him. keep it simple... if you attack him about it, he will get defensive and that could lead to bad things

'i cant wait' could mean that SHE plans on mountain climbing at some point but NOT necessarily with him.

it COULD mean that he is going climbing with her

im gonna be a broken record and say 'JUST ASK HIM'
but be nice about it. dont attack him. keep it simple... if you attack him about it, he will get defensive and that could lead to bad things


alssoo it could make you sound needy???

guys love low maintenance girls... just thought i'd throw that in there.

:reallymad I totally understand you and I would be mad too. But I think the best is to ask him.

i agree with the ladies i would just ask because you just never know whats going on