I cant stop crying right now...idk why I really need to, I have to sleep some....I stayed up to talk to DB on myspaceim before he went into work...my ex called me and for some strange reason i answered the phone. DB and I tell each other EVERYTHING. We are SUPER honest. Well i felt compelled to tell him. It prob. didnt help that DB started telling me about a dream he just had how i wanted to date around, which I DONT! Well I told hm and all he said was, 'I hate deployments' I feel awful, but i did the right thing by telling him. i know that. my ex has been a semi issue, not recently tho, he doesnt understand that ive moved on and that im happy. I was sad and a lil upset with db and i saw his name and i just picked up the phone...idk why..... im an idiot!! I just feel so bad now that DB is worried, or doubting my love...He kept th anking me for telling him and saying that I just need to hang in there and he promises me it will be worth it when he gets back and that it will be over soon and that he loves me and misses me....I just want him home now :tears:depressed

Awww I'm sorry :hugehug Get some sleep tomorrow is a new day!!!

i know hun, if you need to talk pm me i wont be sleeping much.

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Atleast you were honest with him. Don't feel bad, you did nothing wrong.

Sorry you're upset. Get some sleep soon!

:hugs sorry I hope things get better, just tell your ex to fall back and leave you alone.

hon iit will get better. I have a text message for Dh tht says. 'don't cry please it will get better I promise baby"

you guys look good together. well about what happend, just tell him that it won't happen again-you answering your ex's calls. make him feel secured and special. the last thing our men need is to worry about some other guy. i guess that's the best thing to do.
ps. it's okay to cry, i do that often too. just make sure that after crying, you come back to the right track and become strong again.

awww well its good that you were honest though. how he reacted would definitely upset me as well. its like him being sad is MUCH more hurtful them him being pissed. hang in there! =

I think it was good to be honest. If something was going on with you & your ex, why would you tell your man about it? You'd be trying to keep it underwraps. Hopefully your SO will look at it the same way :)

:hugs good for you for being honest!

I'm sorry hun!! But, it's good that you both communicate so well and are keeping those lines of communication open. How much longer is he gone for?

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I'm sorry hun!! But, it's good that you both communicate so well and are keeping those lines of communication open. How much longer is he gone for?

approx. 3 months :tears We put a very high value on honesty and trust in our relationship...It has made a world of difference...I was wondering if I shouldn't have told him until he came home, because I didn't want it distracting him from his job and being worried....but he says I did the right thing by telling him now.

you guys look good together. well about what happend, just tell him that it won't happen again-you answering your ex's calls. make him feel secured and special. the last thing our men need is to worry about some other guy. i guess that's the best thing to do.
ps. it's okay to cry, i do that often too. just make sure that after crying, you come back to the right track and become strong again.

Thank you, I think we look good together too! We always say we think we 'fit' well together. I have assured him it will not be an issue, he just feels bad saying he knows I am lonely and he really wishes he could just be here for me so I don't need anyone else, and I told him I DONT NEED ANYONE ELSE! Thank you for your kind words!

awww well its good that you were honest though. how he reacted would definitely upset me as well. its like him being sad is MUCH more hurtful them him being pissed. hang in there! =

I totally agree! Luckily he has called me twice today, and he has gotten to a good place on it. He says he trusts me fully, he just worries about my ex, because he does live like 5 minutes from me, and we were together like 3 years and he broke up with me then i met DB a year or so later but i was still kinda messing with my ex. Its a long messy story, but in the end, I am SO GLAD with the choice I made to stay with DB and how HAPPY I am with him...I was never this happy with anyone else...DB knows I have a huge heart and my ex is very sick, he has krohns disease, and a lot of muscle related issues right now, but my DB is the most important person to me no matter what! Thank you for ur kind words also! Thank you everyone for being so supportive and understanding!!!!

:hugs Practically the same exact thing just happened to me the other day. Actually in the past month or so, I have been contacted by 2 ex's, and both times I didn't say anything to DB. Well I was on the phone with him the other night while I was checking email, and I mentioned that ex-bf emailed me (because it was in front of me on the screen I blurted it out). And then I told him about the other one that messaged me a little while ago. I told him that I hadn't told him about it b/c it wasn't really necessary, and nothing came of anything... I could tell that his feelings were hurt and that he was worried... It was uncomfortable. I reassured him as much as I could but you know it's hard when you're so far apart for so long. So I feel you hun. You guys will be just fine. Just keep telling him every time you talk how much you love him and can't wait to see him again :)

:hugs Practically the same exact thing just happened to me the other day. Actually in the past month or so, I have been contacted by 2 ex's, and both times I didn't say anything to DB. Well I was on the phone with him the other night while I was checking email, and I mentioned that ex-bf emailed me (because it was in front of me on the screen I blurted it out). And then I told him about the other one that messaged me a little while ago. I told him that I hadn't told him about it b/c it wasn't really necessary, and nothing came of anything... I could tell that his feelings were hurt and that he was worried... It was uncomfortable. I reassured him as much as I could but you know it's hard when you're so far apart for so long. So I feel you hun. You guys will be just fine. Just keep telling him every time you talk how much you love him and can't wait to see him again :)

I will, thank you dear! Its so good to see a post from you again :cp That makes my day....that and just talking to DB on webcam for an hour!! missed ya girlie!

oooo!! i am sooo flattered to be ranked up there with your man :yahoo