it's my first time here and reading everyone's posts makes me feel a little better already. i'll go straight to the chase. my baby and i are so in love and trying our best to be so strong especially during hard times like this. i'm not used to this yet because i haven't encountered this before(my bf being deployed). i cry eveyday because i always worry. the lives of our love ones over there are so unsafe. but we promised each other to get through this and be happy for the rest of our lives. but what's making our situation worse, we still argue over phone. regardless of who's right and wrong, should i just say sorry because he needs all the support and encouragement he can get? i want to give him my continuous care but i don't know if i should just swallow my pride and forget about my ego so i wouldn't be adding more to his hardships. advise me pls....

When he's over there, you need to leave your ego at the door. :hugs It's hard, and you're both under stress. But try to stay positive for him and if you really feel the need to chew his butt, write it down in a journal and then stash it somewhere and forget about it. Right before he gets home, read it so you remember how ticked off you are - and when you finally see his face, safe sound and home again - ask yourself if you're really as fired up as you thought.

:hugs

Hang in there. Every day down is another day closer to home.

thanks. that's such a good advice. i guess it's just another rainy day. i need to wait for him though because he's probably so busy. i miss him so badly and i love him unconditionally. thanks again. this is a big help.

Your days don't have to be rainy :) You have SOS!! :lol

Welcome, btw!

you're so right. thanks again. i hope he calls me soon...