Who do you think cheats on their SO more? The men (or women) while they are deployed...or the women (or men) who are at home? Kind of a weird question...i couldn't think of a better way to word it.

thats tough since there are losers on both side of the fence....Id be curious to hear statistically who does it more often

I don't think cheating has anything to do with the sex of an individual - it has everything to do with the Character of a person....

It depends on the situation and person...
I mean I have heard and seen spouses who are at home cheating on their deployed spouses...but then again I also know soldiers who are downrage who are cheating on their spouses with other soldiers who are over there...It's like they believe that since they are in a different country it's ok for them to cheat..you know..different zip codes different rules....
I know a female soldiers that got pregnant while she was deployed and send back...She was only there for less than 6 months...so some people do it to get out..
So it really depends on the individual....

That's true...i was just talking with one of my friend's whose brother was in the air force and he said that he saw lots of men cheating on their SO back home...and his wife saw lots of other wives cheating on their husbands...so i was just curious what you all thought.

I think it depends on the person and the relationship. I don't think sex, being deployed, or staying being has anythign to do with it. I have known both on each side...

you know i don't know if i have the answer, but my DH has seen a lot of guys messing around on their wives, but also alot of girls on his ship messing around on their hubbies and i have had neighbors in every duty station with the wife cheating on the husband while he was deployed. one right under his nose.

The way I'm reading it, she's not pointing out the sex of the person, but on what side of the relationship they are on.

I personally would also be interested in seeing statistics on that.

I know a wife who I am not close at all that is being cheated on but I can't tell her because DH works with her DH...that's the hard part...when you know and you can't tell....

yeah what sucks more if is your friends with the wife and if the guy is your DH's boss..

exactly..just want to tell her to kick his ass and make sure to get all the money for messing with her...

I know a wife who I am not close at all that is being cheated on but I can't tell her because DH works with her DH...that's the hard part...when you know and you can't tell....

Yeah that would be really hard. I don't know what I would do in that sistuation. She knows that he is cheating on her too!!... SAD!

Yeah that would be really hard. I don't know what I would do in that sistuation. I don't know if I could be her friend.

I am not even her friend but I feel bad for her...he's really screwing her up too...she has no clue that he's cheating on her...she just thinks that he's in one of his phases and doesn't want to be married anymore...

I don't think cheating has anything to do with the sex of an individual - it has everything to do with the Character of a person....

:yes I agree

I think it's about equal...