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Debra
11-05-2007, 06:52 PM
I want to get a Deployment Sisters going. Instead of being a "secret" sister, we will know who our Sisters are. These are supposed to be more like Pen Pals than temporary Sisters.

Therefore it will be a long running Pen Pal. We'll start it in about a week & go through the end of May or as long as you want to corespond with your pen pal. Of course, if you guys think this will be too long, we can always do it for a month at a time & then extend it for those interested! Let me know what you guys think!!

Because it is so long running, you have to be very serious about this!

Hopefully these rules will answer any questions! If not, please don't hesitate to post in this thread or PM me! :)


The Rules are as follows:

1. You may only participate in the Deployment Sisters if you have atleast 500 posts. The only exception to this rule is if you are new to the group but have a reputable member who knows you IN REAL LIFE that can vouch for you!

2. You must have a SO who is currently deployed, in boot camp or school or will be leaving to one of the above by January 1st.

3. If you plan to participate but will be offline or out of town for a bit, please let your sister know!

4. You are responsible for contacting your sister and to send email, snail mail etc. It doesn't have to be anything big. So don't worry if you feel that you can't participate due to money. Being a sis means making the other person feel special and to pay attention to them. However you are more than welcome to send her gifts, cards, etc if you can! Receiving mail (even just a post card) during a deployment is sometimes enough to brighten someone's day!

5. While you are not required to send your Sis gifts on a regular basis, please do try to send her a small something around her Homecoming date! This is merely a suggestion!

6. You may NOT participate in this if you have any negative feedback such as not fullfilling your obligations in other Secret Sister swaps.

7. If you for one reason or another you cannot continue during this round let me know so that I can reassign your sister to someone else. Life happens, and everyone understands that.

8. Send a form of contact (email, e-card, pm, etc..) at least three times a week and let me and/or your sister know if you can't do this for some reason. Not once a week, or once every other week! THREE TIMES A WEEK!

9. Acknowledge whoever is sending you things. It is just as frustrating to send out emails etc and not to receive a reply back in return.

10. You are more than welcome to join even if your deployment, tour, etc end during the alloted time! However you must continue to corespond with your Sister through the remainder of her seperation or until the end of May.

11. Please do not fill out the questionaire & mail it to me! When I get the list completed & everyone matched up, I will post who everyone's Sisters are. It is then your responsibility to PM the questionaire to your Sister!
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The Questionnaire


Contact Info:
1. SOS Username:
2. Name:
3. Email:
4. Aim sn:
5. Yahoo sn:
6. MSN sn:
7. Address(for snail mail):
8. Myspace addy:


Fun Facts:
1. Your Birthday:
2. Your Age:
3. Your SO's name/job/your anniversary:
4. Children's name(s):
5. Favorite color(s):
6. Pets? If so, what kind and what are their name(s)?:
7. Allergies?
8. Are you into sporting events...if so which sports?:
9. Do you have pierced ears?
10. Do you like jewelry? If so, what kind/type?
11. Do you own an iPod/Zune/MP3 player? If so, which one?
12. What ship, unit, etc is your SO attached to?
13. What size shirt do you wear?
14. Do you have any idea what month your SO will return? If so, which one?
15. What color/theme is your:
A. kitchen
B. bedroom
C. living room
D. bathroom
16. Do you like to cook/bake?
17. Are you a SAHM, student, work outside the home?

Name your favorite...
1. Bath gel/body wash scent(s):
2. Perfume scent(s):
3. Nail polish color(s):
4. Restaurant(s):
5. Store(s) to shop in:
6. Magazine(s):
7. Drink (alcoholic or otherwise?):
8. Online place to shop:
9. Flower(s):
10. Candy/snack:
11. TV show(s):
12. Actor/Actress:
13. Movie(s):
14. Singer/Band/Group:
15. Author(s):
16. Cooks/Chefs (ie. Emeril, Paula Deen):
17. Things you collect:

Special holiday Questions
17. What holidays do you celebrate between November & May?
18. What is/are your favorite holiday scent(s)?
19. What's your favorite kind of pie?
20. Do you like a special blend of coffee/tea around this time of year? What about cocoa?

Is there anything else you'd like to share?

Traci
11-05-2007, 07:28 PM
That's a great idea!

breakaley
11-05-2007, 07:39 PM
Count me in!:)

mossey2000
11-05-2007, 07:42 PM
DH misses the cutoff by little more than a month . Have fun though girls.

JavecT
11-05-2007, 07:44 PM
oh man...i would LOVE to do this :sigh hopefully i can reach 500 posts ASAP :postwhore

navyaowife2005
11-05-2007, 07:44 PM
That is great. I would love to do it, but my dh comes home next month and so I am not sure if I count.

Debra
11-05-2007, 07:47 PM
That is great. I would love to do it, but my dh comes home next month and so I am not sure if I count.

Of course you can! :hugs

navyaowife2005
11-05-2007, 07:48 PM
Of course you can! :hugs

thanks. :D I think it's a great idea, and I would love to do it. I love sending and getting mail.

USMCSGTsGirl1239
11-05-2007, 07:50 PM
Cool, I want to play. I like making friends... :yahoo

Debra
11-05-2007, 07:55 PM
oh man...i would LOVE to do this :sigh hopefully i can reach 500 posts ASAP :postwhore

You can do it! You can do it! Post whore away! :yes :hugs

JavecT
11-05-2007, 07:59 PM
You can do it! You can do it! Post whore away! :yes :hugs

:postcount Just kidding.... or am I?!?! :neener
thanks debra, i'm determined!!!

Amanda011784
11-05-2007, 07:59 PM
sure why not?
I do everything else. I'm such a pushover.

*Crystal*
11-05-2007, 08:00 PM
I would love to do it, but my DH doesnt leave till May

Debra
11-05-2007, 08:05 PM
I would love to do it, but my DH doesnt leave till May

I am sure we will start another one in April or so! :hugs

ohmylis
11-05-2007, 08:12 PM
This sounds great! I'd like to do it. :)

Erika
11-05-2007, 08:17 PM
I'll join in.. :)

RockstarMom
11-05-2007, 08:20 PM
Damnit. C doesn't leave until the end of Jan. :(

mrskmw
11-05-2007, 08:32 PM
Can't, David is a vertran so not deployments here.

USNIwife
11-05-2007, 09:56 PM
Great idea when they are deployed!!!

Amber V
11-05-2007, 10:09 PM
Will we be able to join in the Spring? That is an estimated deployment time at this point.

Shaky
11-05-2007, 11:24 PM
What a wonderful idea Debra! I only have till next month though and I know once he's home we will be traveling around.

rosebud*
11-05-2007, 11:26 PM
:sadeyes that sucks dh won't deploy for three years. ( well sucks I can't participate not that he won't deploy)

RockstarMom
11-05-2007, 11:33 PM
Can I join this round? Because if you do a new one starting in April, C comes home in May so joining that one would be pointless also. :(

aelsass
11-05-2007, 11:38 PM
Count me in DH is leaving soon

cangelicious
11-06-2007, 02:30 AM
I would join but my DH doesnt leave for deployment 6 months or so......... even though the ship is hardly here right now due to all there lovely underways

Astra
11-06-2007, 02:38 AM
i think its a great idea :)
i wanna do it

Debra
11-06-2007, 07:19 AM
Can I join this round? Because if you do a new one starting in April, C comes home in May so joining that one would be pointless also. :(

Go right ahead & join! :wub :hugs

Czechvero
11-06-2007, 09:10 AM
i would love to do it but i dont think that i have more that 500 posts yet, since i only joined in september. but im on the computer a lot so could i try? :)

RockstarMom
11-06-2007, 12:42 PM
:woot Then sign me up. :D

JustBreathe
11-06-2007, 01:49 PM
I would really like to do this also, I am working on my post count now!

navyaowife2005
11-06-2007, 03:08 PM
I would really like to do this also, I am working on my post count now!

your almost there, keep on posting :tu

tinsygrl
11-06-2007, 03:54 PM
I want to get in on this to db's deployment just started so it will be nice to have someone to go through it with!

Debra
11-06-2007, 04:52 PM
i would love to do it but i dont think that i have more that 500 posts yet, since i only joined in september. but im on the computer a lot so could i try? :)

Definately! Keep on trying! :thumbsup

I would really like to do this also, I am working on my post count now!

Just a few more to go!

RockstarMom
11-06-2007, 05:05 PM
BTW- Debra.... did you know the questionnaire has "what are your favorite flowers?" in there 2 times? Once in favorites and again above it at the end of that section. :giggle

MaggieMae
11-06-2007, 05:14 PM
GREAT! I just wish Comcast would fix my dang internet so I can get my post count up!!!

Debra
11-06-2007, 05:17 PM
BTW- Debra.... did you know the questionnaire has "what are your favorite flowers?" in there 2 times? Once in favorites and again above it at the end of that section. :giggle

Thank you! Nope! I didn't realize that when I was copying & typing all at the smae time! :oops

bubbleheadwife
11-07-2007, 12:19 PM
Just sent you mine! This is such a great idea :)

tinsygrl
11-07-2007, 12:19 PM
Debra~~ When are you going to start this? And are you going to try to keep people with the same length of deployment time together? and are you pairing same branches together? sorry had a lot of questions... LOL This is a great idea!! I can have some one to cry and complain with, or to share good news!!!

ohmylis
11-07-2007, 12:22 PM
Debra~~ When are you going to start this? And are you going to try to keep people with the same length of deployment time together? and are you pairing same branches together? sorry had a lot of questions... LOL This is a great idea!! I can have some one to cry and complain with, or to share good news!!!

I was wondering about that too. How are you going to pair people up?

RockstarMom
11-07-2007, 12:24 PM
I was wondering about that too. How are you going to pair people up?

I believe it's random. :)

Debra- (more Q's)
When do we email you our questionnaires? In the OP it said to not email them to you.

Mandi
11-07-2007, 03:59 PM
Count me in :tu

Debra
11-08-2007, 05:29 PM
Bumping it up for anyone else!

ashley5
11-08-2007, 05:33 PM
mmm... i want to do this!

Debra
11-09-2007, 10:30 PM
Sign-ups end on Monday! :thumbsup

Krisha
11-09-2007, 10:38 PM
I would like to be involved in this one. Who do we send our info to again?

navyaowife2005
11-09-2007, 10:42 PM
I know I already posted in here to see if I could do it, but just want to make sure you count me in. :D

Debra
11-10-2007, 09:29 AM
I would like to be involved in this one. Who do we send our info to again?

No one, yet! As soon as I close sign-ups on Monday, I will match everyone up. And then I will post everyones names! You will then send your Sister your questionaire!

Debra
11-10-2007, 09:29 AM
I know I already posted in here to see if I could do it, but just want to make sure you count me in. :D

Of course! I couldn't forget you! :hugs

navyaowife2005
11-10-2007, 09:30 AM
Of course! I couldn't forget you! :hugs

aww, thanks :D

TallBlondie82
11-10-2007, 10:06 AM
i REALLY really want to do this...closes monday when? i have to get to 500 posts... im gonna try soooooo hard

JavecT
11-10-2007, 11:32 AM
DEBRA-- I DID IT!!!! i hit 500!! so please include me :D

i REALLY really want to do this...closes monday when? i have to get to 500 posts... im gonna try soooooo hard

hey if i could do 130 posts in 5 days, you can do it!!!!!!!!!! :postwhore get crackin chica!!

angel91886
11-10-2007, 12:04 PM
Awww :( I want to do this, maybe I can boost my post count fast.

Debra
11-10-2007, 12:34 PM
i REALLY really want to do this...closes monday when? i have to get to 500 posts... im gonna try soooooo hard

Sometime Monday evening after I get home from work! You can do it!

JustBreathe
11-10-2007, 12:34 PM
Did you get my pm? If not then can I please be on the list!!

Debra
11-10-2007, 12:34 PM
DEBRA-- I DID IT!!!! i hit 500!! so please include me :D

Yeahhhhhhhhhhhhhh! I am proud of you! :thumbsup

Debra
11-10-2007, 12:34 PM
Did you get my pm? If not then can I please be on the list!!

Yes you can!

tinsygrl
11-10-2007, 01:38 PM
Yeah!!! I'm kinda excited!

Lefty80
11-10-2007, 01:44 PM
I think it's a good idea also! I better get posting!

his_little_spoon
11-10-2007, 04:48 PM
if he is in school is that okay? nuke school to be exact

*Crystal*
11-10-2007, 04:53 PM
Can I join?? My husband doesnt deploy till May but is doing work ups like crazy and its like hes gone anyways....or do you want me to wait until the deployment?

USNIwife
11-10-2007, 09:00 PM
me too please!

swrlygrl
11-11-2007, 11:38 PM
I am totally new to the military world and this is my first deployment and I have only just recently found this website (which has seriously saved my mental stability) so I only have 17 posts and don't think i will be making 500 anytime soon. I would love to be a part of this if you would be willing to accept an extreme newbie if not (which I totally understand) maybe you senior members would be interested in doing it where you pair up a newbie with a senior member, I personally wouldn't mind celebrating, commiserating and stuff with someone who has already been there and can offer up some good advice etc.

ok well I look forward to getting to know all of you better over the duration of this deployment and hope to get a chance to do a penpal thing with one of you.

Bye for now
W:cp

Lefty80
11-11-2007, 11:40 PM
When is the deadline I want in but I don't have 500 posts yet! I'm trying!

his_little_spoon
11-12-2007, 11:51 AM
count me in!!!

Dani17
11-12-2007, 11:55 AM
Time for me to post whore it up now apparently :hehe

AshleyReida
11-12-2007, 02:07 PM
I would LOVE to ! YAY!!!

Debra
11-12-2007, 03:04 PM
Can I join?? My husband doesnt deploy till May but is doing work ups like crazy and its like hes gone anyways....or do you want me to wait until the deployment?

I would just go ahead & wait until the deployment starts since we should be starting another one in the Spring. :)

Debra
11-12-2007, 03:06 PM
I will start matching everyone up shortly & get the list up ASAP!

*Crystal*
11-12-2007, 04:34 PM
I would just go ahead & wait until the deployment starts since we should be starting another one in the Spring. :)

ok

Debra
11-13-2007, 07:04 AM
Debra~~ When are you going to start this? And are you going to try to keep people with the same length of deployment time together? and are you pairing same branches together?

I am so sorry! I didn't see these questions earlier! :oops

We are going to start it as soon as the list goes up! I was just planning on matching everyone up at random. If you guys want me to match you up with someone with the same length of deployment or branch, I can do that! Let me start a new thread to ask everyone to they'll see it!

RaMi
11-13-2007, 12:49 PM
aw i dont have enough posts :sigh i really would like to do this though!

SIMMYBABEZ
11-13-2007, 12:50 PM
Are the lines still open?

OMG it's Andrea!
11-13-2007, 12:56 PM
i so hope you do another round! db deploys march.

his_little_spoon
11-14-2007, 03:18 AM
has anyone gotten their sister's name? just makin sure I stay in the loop :D

Debra
11-14-2007, 06:50 AM
No. No one has gotten them! I was waiting to here from one person but I just got her PM. So I will match everyone up today! There will be a post with everyone's matches!