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View Full Version : new to this but he isn't wileywj 11-15-2007, 11:57 AM my husband and i have been married 1 year he has been in the navy for 6 years, we just got transfered to the state of washington. For my first anniversary i found out he had an affair while we were visiting family on the move out here. How do you trust again? getting ready to do a big deployment soon. need some advice on what to do. i love him alot and heart broken! he means everything to me he is my world.HELP ryansgirl96 11-15-2007, 12:23 PM Sorry to hear that sweetie, :glomptrust is huge in a marriage. Make him talk to you and ask him why he did it,then just go from there and be honest with each other. If he won't talk maybe go to counseling. Any kids? Or if face to face is hard write each other a letter. I've done that before it helps. Sorry I couldn't be more help:hugs judith 11-15-2007, 12:27 PM welcome! Germanchick 11-15-2007, 12:38 PM I am sorry you have to deal with those things. Welcome to SOS! ML 11-15-2007, 01:47 PM :welflash I hope you both can work things out and he won't ever be so irresponsible again. :hugs and :bouquet just for you :) bubbleheadwife 11-15-2007, 04:29 PM First off a big welcome to you! We are excited to have you here. I think if your love is strong, you will be able to make it work. Good luck with the upcoming deployment, and if you need any help... let us know. :) :hugs 360Sweetie 11-15-2007, 04:35 PM Go to counseling..and that worries me that you say that he is your world.No one should be that to you.I could never trust him again but if you think you can it will take time and I think counseling is a really good idea. gss1981 11-15-2007, 05:12 PM Welcome to SOS! I'm sorry that you are going through this right now. I hope that you can talk things out and work through it all. farmerschyk 11-15-2007, 05:41 PM First off WELCOME to SOS!! and also to the state of Washington.. there are quite a few of us here :) Secondly.. I am SO sorry about what he has put you through in your short time being married... I would definitely seek some sort of counseling and communication between you both is key.. I hope that you both can work through all of this.. If you need ANYTHING we are here for you sailorswife01 11-16-2007, 12:29 AM first of all welcome to sos and secondly try and talk to him and try to get counseling. hope everything works out for u guys Cheeky Monkey 11-16-2007, 12:38 AM Welcome to SOS, there are some great women on here and I know you'll be very happy on here. Pebbles 11-16-2007, 12:38 PM :hithere navy2mom 11-24-2007, 06:05 PM Welcome to you and i'm sorry you are going though this. Hope everything works out between you and your husband Jodi 11-24-2007, 06:06 PM Welcome! Julianne 11-25-2007, 07:22 AM :hi :welcome I hope you are able to repair your relationship. The desire to do so is the first step to getting there :yes |