View Full Version : What do YOU do


Shannon Marie
11-17-2007, 09:34 PM
...to get things going? There was a thread about what he does, but what are some tactics us girls use to signal we want some action?:sex

brentscrystal
11-17-2007, 09:36 PM
"I'm going to bed... you coming with me?"


That's all it takes!

Shannon Marie
11-17-2007, 09:36 PM
personally i think way too much about it and i'm so afraid he'll be busy doing other things *although he's assured me multiple times that almost ANYTHING can be put on the back burner if i'm wanting some action* but I don't want to take away from what he's doing. Like if he's sleeping, I think "oh he's really tired. I should leave him alone" or some lame excuse.

Help girls!

please share sexy ideas and confidence boosters that you use to make your man follow you into the bedroom.

brentscrystal
11-17-2007, 09:39 PM
Girl, you're a newlywed! Anything you do will turn him on! ;)

Dh told me once that unless he is near death, there is no time that he will refuse :sex He loves to be woken up! Don't worry so much about the "what if's" the worst he can do is say no. Then you can try again next time.

Cassaundra
11-17-2007, 09:43 PM
i usually just do a sexy dance for him or just start rubbing his shoulders and kiss his ears.....but occasionally i just start some fabulous oral out of nowhere....but i do that when I don't want foreplay, just :sex

JavecT
11-17-2007, 09:45 PM
guys are simple...almost anything puts them in the mood!

Surprise him in the shower,
wake him up with a BJ,
go to bed first NAKED...when he comes in the bedroom, tell him to lose the clothes before getting into bed,

....those are some starters for ya! ;) good luck hun...and good luvin'

angel91886
11-17-2007, 10:07 PM
All he has to do is look at me. Nothing special, pj pants and a t-shirt with my hair pulled up in a bun. lol DH isn't to picky.

bellezzagoffa
11-17-2007, 10:11 PM
If we are out...I'll make my way over to where ever he is and whisper in his ear (something as simple as...I'm ready to go...how bout you?) The first time he kinda looked at me a little weird and was like 'But I'm not ready yet'. Now he knows...he'll finish his drink or what ever and be like okay boys...I'M OUT! By the time we make it to the car he is 'ready'

Noel2385
11-17-2007, 10:11 PM
If i'm in the mood and he's on the computer or something I just walk over start undoing his belt buckle and it's on like donkey kong :hump

SAMSET
11-17-2007, 10:29 PM
A simple whisper in the ear ALWAYS does the trick :D

TLH6775
11-17-2007, 11:02 PM
oh he knows. one look and a certain kiss says it all.

if were just relaxing in bed i lean over and start kissing is chest and V muscles, his skin literally jumps. :giggle

this last week when he was on post deployment leave we were with his parents alot, soooo our thing was "were gonna go take a nap" hahaha those were good naps... :sigh

mermom
11-18-2007, 12:34 AM
When we're sleeping I'll wake him up and ask him to hold me. Or just roll over and start snuggling with him.

He loves whenever I start using some of my relaxation techniques on him, a foot or shoulder massage followed by a longe deep kiss has never failed me.