Mike and I have decided that we are going to wait to get married. For a bunch of reasons. We are just both so stressed adjusting to this upcoming deployment, getting married may add more stress on our already difficult adjustment. He comes home in Febuary/March for 10 days from training then deploys. So if we change our minds, we can get married during those 10 days. We are proud of our decision. :)

Good job. It's a brave thing to do to go ahead and take a little bit more time. I'm glad yall are both being smart about this.

You have to do what is right for you sweety-If your gut feelings say to wait, then you should:yes:hugehug

thats great you have the foresight to know whats best for both of you, rather than rushing into things. :)

Good for you guys! Waiting until things settle seems to be what is best for you. And while I know just how hard it is, we waited, and it made it so much better when we did actually tie the knot. :)

If you guys need to wait, then so be it. :hugs

I think it's good that you two decided to do what's best for you. It's always better to be sure about the decision you're making as you're making because marriage is supposed to be for life!