he FINALLY texted. i sent one saying we need to talk, and another one say please at least let me know you're okay. he just responded saying he just got home and is getting settled. WTF? he landed 6 hours ago! and the airports about 15 minutes from where he lives.

so i guess i need to call him now with the infamous "dear john" call. :( :hide

I'm sorry he's being such a jerk. I hope he answers his phone so that you can say what you want...and get it over with. I know the wait is a killer. I'll keep you in my thoughts!!!

well, he texted again and is "too tired" to talk tonight. i texted back it's much better for him if we talk tonight. so he claims he's going to call when he goes to bed.

awww, i'm sorry. i hope you figure everything out but be prepared to get more confused and annoyed....

thanks for the warning / reminder :) ack:hosed

I am sorry that you are having to deal with this. And, I hope he calls you. He is probably pretty sure he knows what is coming. I had a BF who refused to take my calls or see me because he knew I was going to end things, dweeb.

Good luck when he does call, and stay strong!

Wow. He's acting a lot like Mikey. Men can be such jerks!

That margarita sure looks good!

oh, yes, he knows it's coming!

Wait a minute! Your ending things? What the hell happened? Is it from him being such a prick the last couple days?? Im so lost here. He sounds like Lonny, fucking prick.

i've posted quite a bit yesterday and today. i'll try to find the link and send it to you :)

here are some links:

http://forum.militarysos.com/showthread.php?t=117771

http://forum.militarysos.com/showthread.php?t=117782

http://forum.militarysos.com/showthread.php?t=117819

http://forum.militarysos.com/showthread.php?t=117860

http://forum.militarysos.com/showthread.php?t=117750

Im going to look :( Im so sorry!

I read those, so your ending it with him? I can't say I blame you. But, look where it got me, single and lonely :( I miss XF SOOO much, but I definitely didn't deserve to be treated like that, and neither do you.

I hope he realizes what hes doing before its too late.

I remember reading something about him being crazy about the camera in the mall. I'm not sure what's bothering him. But I feel bad for you! :hugs. Hang in there and do what you think is best. :grouphugs

so he just called, and ended up hanging up on me. i asked if he would apologize for acting the way he did, he said i'm the one who should apologize for what i said! yet he still can't tell me what i said, just that i made comments that pissed him off. i was like, hell no, i won't apologize for an unknown offense!

i said we both need space and time, and i'm really frustrated at him right now, and then he got really mad started yelling a bit, and hung up:gaah

you don't need that.


Been there, done that, got the T-shirt and the coffee mug.



If he truely wanted it to work himself then he'd put forth more effort into ya'lls relationship.

You can do better than that. :yes

Sounds like hes being a baby about everything :yes

so totally! i told him i wouldn't deal with that drama, and he proceeds to tell me I'M creating the drama! if i just say sorry, it's all good! WTH! I STILL DON'T KNOW WHAT I SAID! :censored GROW UP!!!!

I love how men are soooo good at pointing out our offenses but can never seem to see the wrong that they do themselves! GRRR. I'm sorry girl!

sounds to me like there is alot more going on...maybe you will never get to it but I dont know its like some part of the puzzle is missin. way to stand up for yourself though

sounds to me like there is alot more going on...maybe you will never get to it but I dont know its like some part of the puzzle is missin. way to stand up for yourself though

thank you! yeah, i know something's missing, and that's one of the biggest frustrations!

i think he does know its coming

i dont believe he put you through all this but i think it is definatly better for you to be out from this whole situation