View Full Version : Where is he???


MattysGurl
11-26-2007, 01:17 PM
Hey guys I really have not gone more then a couple of days with out talking to matt. well he told me he was getting moved to another spot for like 45 days and didnt know if they had phone or interlnet there I was like ok ::tear:: i know it come with the job but yeah so like a couple of days ago we were talking on thanksgiving and he had to go said he would call later and hasent... he might of go tmoved early bu tim not sure and now im super worried!! lol well let me know what you think i should do...

Do you think i will hear from him?

Traci
11-26-2007, 01:18 PM
When he can I am sure he will call. This is the life of being with a military man.:hugs

TallBlondie82
11-26-2007, 01:20 PM
When he can I am sure he will call. This is the life of being with a military man.:hugs

I agree...im sure when he has the oppurtunity he will call you...it sucks waiting...i hate it...its like this pit in your stomach that doesn't go away until you hear his voice...I feel for ya girl...theres not much that you can do other than play the dreaded waiting game...hope you hear from him soon

AshleyJ
11-26-2007, 01:22 PM
I'm sure he'll call when he can. Sometimes they get busy or things are working like crap (usu... lol) and he may not be able to get to a phone/comp to contact you. Just hang in there! :hugs

*MarineBug420*
11-26-2007, 01:23 PM
I think you should do nothing. Except carry on with every day life. It comes with the job. I talked to my husband friday and have not since and I usually do every day. He said he was moving as well and might be MIA for a while so I take it as that. He is either traveling or just busy.

Kelsey
11-26-2007, 01:26 PM
That happens a lot with deployments. Never EVER count on phone calls, even if they say they will call. They get busy, they get tired, they get sent on a mission, the phones go down, etc. There are so many possibilities, just don't worry about it..try to keep yourself occupied with other things and don't dwell on waiting for the phone to ring...though I know that is hard to do the longer the wait gets. :goodvibes

JavecT
11-26-2007, 01:39 PM
of course he will call! I'm sure as bummed out as you are that you haven't spoken in a while, but duty calls...he's probably just extremely busy.

:hugs cheer up sweetie, you'll hear from him soon!!

missk
11-26-2007, 03:52 PM
hold tight...he'll call eventually!

MattysGurl
11-26-2007, 05:12 PM
Thanks guys I hope he does call soon Im still new to all this and still learning so thanks again sooo Hopefully everything is ok and your right he might of just got sent early.

Ok THANKS GIRL!

Mae

68W-LVR
11-26-2007, 06:01 PM
I'm right there with you. I'm not sure if DH is still in Kuwait or if he went on. I hate worrying. I guess that's why I hop on here every time I'm flipping out. (Right after I check my email and myspace for any possible messages, then I hop on here)

ArmyGirl
11-26-2007, 06:04 PM
Just remember to not expect anything, so when you do hear from him, its a nice suprise

CristinaFaye
11-26-2007, 06:06 PM
Just try to think positive thoughts and stay BUSY. Easier said than done I know. I check Justin's Myspace constantly and then breathe a sigh of relief when I see he has signed in. (He's not speaking to me). :( He hasn't been on since the 17th and I worry but they are so busy out there and probably just don't have the time like we do to sit in front of a computer. :) Stay hopeful and I'm sure you will hear from him soon.

bran07
11-26-2007, 06:20 PM
I agree with everyone else. Hang in there. Waiting to hear from them is the worst part. :hugs

FlyboysGirl
11-26-2007, 07:32 PM
That happens a lot with deployments. Never EVER count on phone calls, even if they say they will call. They get busy, they get tired, they get sent on a mission, the phones go down, etc. There are so many possibilities, just don't worry about it..try to keep yourself occupied with other things and don't dwell on waiting for the phone to ring...though I know that is hard to do the longer the wait gets. :goodvibes

:yes EXACTLY

Hang in there, he'll call when he can! Remember, as cliche as it sounds: no news is good news.

carlyd89
11-26-2007, 07:34 PM
Everything will be fine! Sometimes no news is good news. So keep your chin up.

retrvinfool
11-26-2007, 07:58 PM
I have learned to live with two mottos in the past year since I have been with DB first during deployment "No new is good news" no matter how crazy it makes us!!

and "Its the Army (fill in the service of your choice) ALL things are subject to change."

It helps me laugh a little and keep me from going crazy. He'll call as soon as he can!!

MattysGurl
11-26-2007, 09:40 PM
I read your profile and I just want to let you know that I am here for you as im sure alot of the other girls are. That is alot to go through all at once your a amazing person for staying so strong and i hope that it all works out for the best. you just like wow STRONG! I really amire people like that and I can relate. Hope that your man sees what a amzing girl you are and stops all this foolishness! lol
Hang in there girl!

MattysGurl
11-26-2007, 09:42 PM
The other thing I worry about is it I would find out if something happend to him I mean Im not married to him and I just basicly know his brother Im meeting the rest of the family when he gets back... I always worry that something could happen to him and I would never know...
I hate thinking like that but Sometimes i worry....