I got a letter in the mail today (:grin:) and im reading and i get to the 2nd to last paragraph and here is what it says (well i'm paraphrasing...and keep in mind, as you probably know from previous posts, he has not dropped the L bomb yet)
"since we're doing so good with honest with communication i think i should tell you something. I have a lot of time to think over here and i have to admit thinking about our relationship lately has made me nervous. But i think its normal. See, its been a long time since i've liked someone this much before or have had a relationship this serious. A lot of my thoughts/feelings are being experienced for the first time, so i think some nervousness is natural. I just want you to know that i think you're wonderful and great and i think about you all the time."

And then he wrote some other stuff and closed the letter. :confused it makes him "nervous"?? Is that a bad nervous or good nervous? I need outside opinions to de-code this, i'm not sure what he's getting at!:arg

sounds like a good nervous!

I think it's a potentially good nervous... just a "new" nervous... like when you are about to step on stage opening night... or about to jump out of the plane while skydiving... you know... that kind of thing. :wub

oh my god...no question...its a GOOD NERVOUS!!! he is so happy that you both are working out so well! he is "nervous" because you are making him fall in love with you!!!! you should be very happy

Sounds like a good nervous to me. When DH and I got together he was a bit nervous about it all due to things that had happened in his past, it all turned out wonderfully! :)

i agree, it's new and good nervousness!

I think it sounds like a good nervous. Alot of men are comittment-phobic so when they start to get strong feelings for a woman they don't really know how to react. But I think that it's good. :thumbsup

It sounds like a good nervous to me

definitely a new/good nervous! hes making an effort to tell you how much he does care about you even though he doesnt say the big "L" word. and thats good! =)

good nervous!

Thats a "you make my get butterflies in my tummy" nervous which is DEFINITELY :tu good!

NEW NERVOUS!
when me & DH started dating he was scared and nervous about everything b/c i was his first real relationship...