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I talk about it more than he does.

He really, truly, does not look at other women. He may be "strange" for a guy in that regard, but he just thinks it's nasty to "check out" other girls other than me.

If he notices something "gross" or "weird" about someone else he'll point it out, but never "Oh she's hott" or anything.

DF doesnt 'check out' other women... but if there is a notable feature on her... or men... he will comment... that is sometimes boobs.

i do the same... possibly more but i didnt vote for the 'i do it more' category.

we talk together if we notice something. we simply like to people watch... and appreciate nice bodies (or laugh at funny ones... we arent mean people though! i SWEAR!)

and sometimes to tease me, he PRETENDS to check out other girls and be totally turned on... it just makes me laugh

He only agrees with me if I say "she's got big who-whos" or "she's got a nice rack" or something to that effect. Not sure if he's not looking or he's just slick about it so I don't get upset (which I don't since I comment too)

My husband doesnt check out other women when we are together. He thinks it is disrespectful to me, and so do I. Who knows if he looks at other women when I am not around, I will never really know since I am not there. If he did it in front of me though, and especially if he were commenting on another womens breats in a sexual way, I think that would be extremely disrespectful.

I am sure some people will disagree, but I find it very rude and disrespectful to be checking out other people when you are married or in a serious relationship...ESPECIALLY if you are doing it in front of your SO. It's very inconsiderate.

My husband doesnt check out other women when we are together. He thinks it is disrespectful to me, and so do I. Who knows if he looks at other women when I am not around, I will never really know since I am not there. If he did it in front of me though, and especially if he were commenting on another womens breats in a sexual way, I think that would be extremely disrespectful.

I am sure some people will disagree, but I find it very rude and disrespectful to be checking out other people when you are married or in a serious relationship...ESPECIALLY if you are doing it in front of your SO. It's very inconsiderate.

i agree to a point.
i dont think there is ANYTHING wrong with appreciating a good body... i think human beings are a piece of art
but i DO think that 'checking someone out' or 'appreciating a nice body' CAN go too far.
i mean.. you NOTICE people... thats a fact... but when you are spending all your time looking at OTHER people.. or are too distracted by those boobs over there to listen to your SO... THAT is too much and not acceptable.

My husband doesnt check out other women when we are together. He thinks it is disrespectful to me, and so do I. Who knows if he looks at other women when I am not around, I will never really know since I am not there. If he did it in front of me though, and especially if he were commenting on another womens breats in a sexual way, I think that would be extremely disrespectful.

I am sure some people will disagree, but I find it very rude and disrespectful to be checking out other people when you are married or in a serious relationship...ESPECIALLY if you are doing it in front of your SO. It's very inconsiderate.

ITA!

My DB doesn't really comment on other women when we are together. He thinks it is disrespectful to me. I always tell he is allowed to look but not touch. I know he is committed to me and our relationship.

Ive always said Just because Im on a diet doesnt mean I cant look at the menu. It is nice to see Gods handy work all around.

i voted "i talk aboiut it more than he does" cause he knows not to comment unless i've already admitted another woman is attractive. but i've never seen him check out another woman. discussion is different than checking out.

Hehe - we both look and talk (me more than him)
But it's never anything nice.

we don't check out other people in general. If he were to check someone out. I personally wouldn't care and I don't think he would either within reason if I did it. There's no need or purpose to do it, we're married. So I put "I don't care/other" b/c this never gets brought up for us.

I talk about it more than he does. I'll be the one to say "wow she's so pretty!" and he'll just nod or say something like "not as pretty as you" :bs but he's sweet for trying

Ive always said Just because Im on a diet doesnt mean I cant look at the menu. It is nice to see Gods handy work all around.

hah I've never heard that before! I love it though :rofl

I don't really care. Normally, if I'm there he'll even ask me if I saw the girl and if not point her out to me. The only way I'd have a problem would be if he was just going gaga over her, especially with me standing right there. But he has never done this. He'll make his comment and then he is done; on to the next subject.

I don't go out really looking to find a hot guy but darn it if I see one I'm looking. John also asks if I find different guys attractive. So I don't see him caring either. I mean we're just looking, not touching.

I said "I don't care" cause I don't really mind if dh tells me someone is good looking or something but he just never does. He thinks is disrespectful.

It doesn't bother me, cause I'm the one he's with, and so forth.

Hell I talk more about women then he does..lol

if i read your poll right i'm choice number 3. i make more comments than he does about other people's appearances, not just women. i'll be like oh that woman is pretty or that guy has a really nice shirt on, etc.

i would say that.. i comment on women more than him.. and he'll chime in on his opinion.. but he'll never be like "omg shes so hot".. that'd be messed up and i'd probably hit him in the back of the head lol..