Hello everyone. i'm thinking this is the place for this question. My husband just joined the navy back in september he is waiting to go to school in Il. We have two kid's my daughter is 3. and my son is 1. he is wanting to have another kid. which i agree with. But my main concern is, with him being in the navy. and having to leave some times. is there a good way to time it so he's home for the birth or is it just kind of just do it cause you never know?. he is only serving four year's. and he also had suggested waiting till he was out. but i don't want that gap of age difference between the kid's. and also i have said that after i turn 25 i don't want to get preg.