So, I didn't think he would respond to my email, much to my surprise... I recieved an email back last night. Since you have all been with me basically through my entire relationship, im going to share what it said...

This was the email..

yeah i do know were the fuck i am happy, AND THAT IS BACK IN FUCKING IRAQ.

and my friendsship with M**** and E**, we are just friends and nothing more.
when i went out i just went out to have a good time and nothing more, you already had the thoughts that i cheated on you and that would have never changed. everyday every break you had to check on me it was like i had to check in with a parole officer daily because i could not be trusted.

Im kind of at a loss for words anymore.

sounds like he's having some issues from being in iraq. i'm sorry hun that doesn't excuse him being a prick though which sounds like what he is being

yeah I really don't know what to say myself.


I can say this though,

Its a good thing he isn't in WA cause my foot would meet with his body cause I would beat his ass

:hugs I'm sorry sweetie. Just be glad that you now know how he really is and aren't with him anymore. :hugs

I'm sorry hun I'm kinda speechless too, but I hope things get better for you :glomp

wow :hugs im so sorry sounds like hes got some major issues going on:S

WOW Dude is pissed the F off at te world I think

That makes me want to be violent and drive to Mass to hurt him badly. FUCK HIM! What a jackass. He is just trying to make it your fault to make himself feel less like the asshole he is.



Have you heard from the other dude?

:(

WOW!

That makes me want to be violent and drive to Mass to hurt him badly. FUCK HIM! What a jackass. He is just trying to make it your fault to make himself feel less like the asshole he is.



Have you heard from the other dude?

Yes...everything she said!! I totally agree.

OMG! You wrote that heartfelt letter to him....and he didn't respond for so long. And he finally responds with THAT?!?!?! WTF?!

I'm so sorry! What an ass! It sounds like he's pissed off at the whole world. He definitely has some major issues.

Wow. I have no clue what to say....I wish I could beat him with a "brain" stick though! 'Cause that boy ain't right in the head!!!!

:no totally trying to turn it into your fault. When I finish reading the last part my thoughts were like "WHATEVER :rolleyes "

Real mature dude, to place the blame elsewhere.

Like Shaky, the last sentence made me :rolleyes.

What a dickface. I think it's time to just walk away and forget about him! Nothing good is gonna come from talking to him. Just more heartache for you. I'm sorry he ended up being suck a asshat!

:hugehug im so sorry.. he's a jerk off..

You know how I feel... I hope one way or the other you get clarity and he responds to your response. :hugehug

OMG :rolleyes Can I please have his email so I can tell him what an f*cking little prick he is! :vent :club

:hugs

Hey I'm in Mass...want me to go hurt him?

I definetly think he's having some major adjustment issues. I'm so sorry hun :hugs

WOW :(

Wow I am so sorry he needs a major attitude adjustment!!!

tiff- i am so sorry he is being like that.:hugehug:hugehug i agree with what the other letters have said.

Uhhhh.... :boxing

What a :loser I am sorry Tiff!

Hey I'm in Mass...want me to go hurt him?

I definetly think he's having some major adjustment issues. I'm so sorry hun :hugs

Go kick his ass girl! :club

wow thatst to bad you will be better off

Wow. I haven't been posting in a while but I've kept up with the stuff going on with you guys and it sounds like he might be having some issues from being in Iraq but I'd say given his attitude you're so better off without him. You and your daughter deserve someone who will treat you right! I'm sorry things have turned out this way for you guys, but what doesn't kill us does sure make us stronger, and I have a feeling there are good things to come for you. :goodvibes

That makes me want to be violent and drive to Mass to hurt him badly. FUCK HIM! What a jackass. He is just trying to make it your fault to make himself feel less like the asshole he is.



Have you heard from the other dude?

I think lots of ladies on sos want to kick his ass. Lets all form and line and take turns. :lol

ooo ooo! it's the kick-ass game! :grphug

I think it's pretty clear that he has other issues than you and what the two of you were going through. That does not give him an excuse to act the way he did/does. I am glad to hear that even though it was not a nice message, that he dod not act like a child and completley ignore you. You deserved more than what he was giving you.

wow :hugs im so sorry sounds like hes got some major issues going on:S

:agree I hope things work out the way you want them to

:hugs I'm sorry Tiff. :(

:hugehugs Thanks everyone. I just don't know what to say, or even how to feel anymore. As much as I try to just forget him, I can't and it hurts like a knife wound. :(

Im usually so damn tough, sometimes im referred to as the "Ice Queen" because I can hide my feeling so well. But, not this time :no HE, the ASS that he is, can affect me so much.

I really need to cut all communications and move the hell on with my life and instead all I do is think about the way things "could have been" :sigh

What happened to that iron strong, tough, take no shit, chew em' up and spit em' out, badasssss Tiff I know so well? Have you seen her? If you do, tell her to come home-- The Whinny, soft-as-clay, teary eyed, dramatic, pushover is in desperate need of some emotional ass kicking.

:hugehug i'm so sorry sweetie. what a jerkoff. i'm so glad you know now tho instead of marrying him and finding out later

Sounds like some symptoms of PTSD or just straight assholism.

Notice the pulling away, from those close to him.

The irritability. Poss. drinking more.

:hugehug

forget about him hes a jerk...and besides a certain person is supposed to be emailing you *wink*

Sorry tiff that sucks...

I've only been catching bits and pieces over the week about what's happening. But personally I don't think that there is ever any cause to use to f-word, especially when addressing someone under these circumstances. Personally when someone reacts so violently like that, there is guilt or something driving it.

Ew. Sounds like some PTSD or just plain issues...I'm sorry girl!!! :hugs
But...you know, you'll *move on* ;)