View Full Version : the average military man


crewchiefwife
12-06-2007, 09:36 AM
The average age of the military man is 19 years. He is a short haired, tight-muscled kid who, under normal circumstances is considered by society as half man, half boy. Not yet dry behind the ears, not old enough to buy a beer, but old enough to die for his country. He never really cared much for work and he would rather wax his own car than wash his father's; but he has never collected unemployment either.
He's a recent High School graduate; he was probably an average student, pursued some form of sport activities, drives a ten year old jalopy, and has a steady girlfriend that either broke up with him when he left, or swears to be waiting when he returns from half a world away. He listens to rock and roll or hip-hop or rap or jazz or swing and 155mm howizzitor. He is 10 or 15 pounds lighter now than when he was at home because he is working or fighting from before dawn to well after dusk.
He has trouble spelling, thus letter writing is a pain for him, but he can field strip a rifle in 30 seconds and reassemble it in less time in the dark. He can recite to you the nomenclature of a machine gun or grenade launcher and use either one effectively if he must. He digs foxholes and latrines and can apply first aid like a professional. He can march until he is told to stop or stop until he is told to march.
He obeys orders instantly and without hesitation, but he is not without spirit or individual dignity. He is self-sufficient. He has two sets of fatigues: he washes one and wears the other. He keeps his canteens full and his feet dry. He sometimes forgets to brush his teeth, but never to clean his rifle. He can cook his own meals, mend his own clothes, and fix his own hurts. If you're thirsty, he'll share his water with you; if you are hungry, his food. He'll even split his ammunition with you in the midst of battle when you run low.
He has learned to use his hands like weapons and weapons like they were his hands. He can save your life - or take it, because that is his job. He will often do twice the work of a civilian, draw half the pay and still find ironic humor in it all. He has seen more suffering and death then he should have in his short lifetime.
He has stood atop mountains of dead bodies, and helped to create them. He has wept in public and in private, for friends who have fallen in combat and is unashamed. He feels every note of the National Anthem vibrate through his body while at rigid attention, while tempering the burning desire to 'square-away' those around him who haven't bothered to stand, remove their hat, or even stop talking. In an odd twist, day in and day out, far from home, he defends their right to be disrespectful.
Just as did his Father, Grandfather, and Great-grandfather, he is paying the price for our freedom. Beardless or not, he is not a boy. He is the American Fighting Man that has kept this country free for over 200 years.
He has asked nothing in return, except our friendship and understanding. Remember him, always, for he has earned our respect and admiration with his blood. And now we even have woman over there in danger, doing their part in this tradition of going to War when our nation calls us to do so. As you go to bed tonight, remember this shot.. A short lull, a little shade and a picture of loved ones in their helmets

Miss Lori Pants
12-10-2007, 11:24 PM
this awesome i loved reading it thanks for shareing it
Lori

Loretta
12-10-2007, 11:30 PM
It makes them all out to be simple minded kids...not too keen on that, myself. DH is educated and pretty much a brainy nerd, I'm sure he's not the only one :lol

Cute, though, TFS. :)

mn_princess
12-12-2007, 10:36 PM
That sounds just like my boyfriend :tears

forensicangel
12-12-2007, 10:38 PM
I have read this before, and every time I tear up. Especially now, it reminds me of DB more than I realized

SoldiersWife
12-14-2007, 02:04 PM
I always liked reading that

meg810
01-25-2008, 11:42 AM
aww sounds just like my DB... got choked up :sigh

although, the being bad at spelling thing made me laugh... cuz we were just talking yesterday about how he's having trouble writing a letter to me because he has writers block (?) lol

harrisonsdream
01-25-2008, 11:43 AM
i love reading this everytime

jen1982
01-25-2008, 11:51 AM
It makes them all out to be simple minded kids...not too keen on that, myself. DH is educated and pretty much a brainy nerd, I'm sure he's not the only one :lol

Cute, though, TFS. :)

I have to agree with you. My husband enlisted at the age of 23, after he received his Bachelor's in English.
But, I agree, it is cute. :)

army_girl_20
01-25-2008, 12:33 PM
:tears this is just like my DB :tears except for the spelling/well educated thing... he makes me feel like an idiot sometimes and i'm taking all honors classes :lol

harrisonsdream
01-25-2008, 12:34 PM
my husband is smart but still can't spell for shit lol

*Valarie*
01-26-2008, 12:59 AM
:hugs Thanks for sharing.

mrswhitley07
01-26-2008, 01:05 AM
this soundds like my DH...right down to the very last word! makes me tear up now that hes gone!

SSBSCP
01-26-2008, 01:07 AM
I must be the grandma around here! This reminds me of my SON that just turned 19 a few weeks ago and is about to graduate AIT!

~*~Katie~*~
01-26-2008, 11:37 AM
:wub

CKSimmons
01-26-2008, 11:42 AM
aww i really loved this.