im not saying mine is but i always wondered i mean when there away

of course some do, but it's not a staple.

what do u mean ? i dont think thats fair cuz we wait for them and they do that

Of course, but not all do! Same goes for women....

yeah i know .. thats true but some guys tell me b/f that if they wives dont know it wont hurt them

some guys will cheat overseas, just like some guys will cheat who aren't in the military. it doesnt mean every deployed military man will cheat.

It happens all the time. I wouldnt say its the "norm"....but it happens quite a bit unfortunately.

some guys will cheat overseas, just like some guys will cheat who aren't in the military. it doesnt mean every deployed military man will cheat.

yeah i know that for sure but i wanted to know why would a guy want a girl to wait for them and then do that u know

if a guy is going to cheat while he's gone with the military then he will cheat even if he's not in the military. it happens on both ends, the wives cheat while the husbands are gone and the husbands cheat while they are gone, however if you trust your spouse/girlfriend/boyfriend/fiancee then there isn't anything to worry about in my opinion

yeah i know that for sure but i wanted to know why would a guy want a girl to wait for them and then do that u know

because some guys are STUPID!!!!

They are like every other guy and girl in the world... some will cheat and some wont. Some of them cheat when they are away and some of them are cheated on.

yeah true !!! thanks you i just always wondered not saying that my b/f would do it cuz i know he loves me to much to hurt me and lose me but i cant believe some guys would do that u know

Of course, but not all do! Same goes for women....

I agree

I agree

I Do Too

yes some people do :no it's a shame. But I don't think that it's any different than if someone husband/wife worked at a business...if someone is going to cheat it's going to happen regardless of where they are. To me it's a mental thing..and a choice they make.

yes some people do :no it's a shame. But I don't think that it's any different than if someone husband/wife worked at a business...if someone is going to cheat it's going to happen regardless of where they are. To me it's a mental thing..and a choice they make.
I think military has a reputation of they cheat while they are gone. The wives party/cheat while they are gone.

I'm at home :sadeyes, just wanting him to come home. :sigh

most guys cheat because they dont think and they are also stupid and think that their wives wont find out if they are overseas and do it but it will come back around to bite them in the butt and same goes for the wives who cheat while their husbands are gone. They may not get caught right away but they will eventually get caught.

There is no excuse for cheating period.

if a guy is going to cheat while he's gone with the military then he will cheat even if he's not in the military. it happens on both ends, the wives cheat while the husbands are gone and the husbands cheat while they are gone, however if you trust your spouse/girlfriend/boyfriend/fiancee then there isn't anything to worry about in my opinion

because some guys are STUPID!!!!

:agree

YEAH TRUE

people cheat because its an adrealine rush. they think they got away with something like sneaking a cookie out of the cookie jar. then its becomes way more complicated and quickly. some people don't see anything wrong with just sex as being just sex. i on the other hand feel that sex is an emotional connection everytime. then there is the whole i was drunk excuse nothing pisses me more than that one. we have friends who used that one and i was like drunk or not you control yourself if you can't control yourself when your drinking then you shouldn't drink period. i think that cheaters and liars come in all shapes and sizes, not more prone to the military than to a traveling salesman or any other career, you just hear about it more in the military because they can lose their jobs for it. granted you need some rock solid prove but regardless they are suppose to be held to a higher standard and have that whole commitment thing down. i also think for some people its an ego trip as well they feel important to someone when they aren't feeling important to their SO there are lots of reasons people cheat, its just a matter of if you can overcome it and truely forgive them. its a path i have never walked with my DH and hopefully never will i would love to say he'd be gone but who knows how i would feel at the time. if he came home tomorrow and said hey 9 years ago i slept with someone else, what would i do? i have NO idea. i think that those people that can overcome an affair are amazing men and women though it takes a lot of guts to say ok. well you screwed up big time, trust is gone but what can we do to move past this and through it?

People cheat whether they are in the military or not, or deployed or not. Its not an across the board thing. Some do, most don't.

I'm sure they do. I had a guy friend of mine who admitted he cheated on his wife with just a "friend" while he was in iraq.

if a guy is going to cheat while he's gone with the military then he will cheat even if he's not in the military. it happens on both ends, the wives cheat while the husbands are gone and the husbands cheat while they are gone, however if you trust your spouse/girlfriend/boyfriend/fiancee then there isn't anything to worry about in my opinion

I couldn't agree more. Very good point... a cheater is a cheater... being in the military does not make it more likely for someone to cheat IMO.

guys cheat for the same reason girls cheat b/c they get lonely or scared. and you have to decide to either trust him or not. DH is the 1st man I've trusted in many, many years & just b/c I trust him doesn't mean he won't cheat. it just means that I'm choosing not to let it run my life worrying about it. But honestly, I have more chance to cheat on him being here, then he does on me being in Iraq. And he could cheat anywhere he is, not just away. Like my hubby always says when his friends wives bitch about them going to a strip club for a bachelor party. A guy is more likely to get lucky at a bar then a strip club.

I think they cheat as much as a non-military man does..but it just seems that you hear about it more.

I think a guy in the military is more likely to cheat while over seas...I think its easier for them to get away with it and they dont have to confront their spouse or SO about it...same goes for woman