ok so I usually hear from him every day even if it's just a text. I did get home and there were chocolates and flowers waiting for me which was very awesome, however I have a job interview tomorrow and the thing is I am not really nervous because I am not sure I even want the job and he is not around :irked. DB and I have so much planned for when he comes (i.e merging our lives selling his home and my condo, buying a new hom, a trip to Greece, etc.) that I am not sure if it is the best time to change companies (obviously they offer me enough chaching :D I will make the move) anyway I just needed to talk all this out with him and he has gone MIA....UGH this is one of those moments when deployment sucks, he is kinda the only one I can talk it tthrough with since the decision I make will effect our lives.
frikin frakin !@$%!@%# :hairpull

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sorry honey

hope he calls or gets ahold of you soon :D

Hope he calls soon!

I hope he calls you soon!

i hope you talk to him soon.. it can't be fun at all. I'm sorry you're dealing with that :(

i hope you hear from him soon..and gl with job interview.

ok so I usually hear from him every day even if it's just a text. I did get home and there were chocolates and flowers waiting for me which was very awesome, however I have a job interview tomorrow and the thing is I am not really nervous because I am not sure I even want the job and he is not around :irked. DB and I have so much planned for when he comes (i.e merging our lives selling his home and my condo, buying a new hom, a trip to Greece, etc.) that I am not sure if it is the best time to change companies (obviously they offer me enough chaching :D I will make the move) anyway I just needed to talk all this out with him and he has gone MIA....UGH this is one of those moments when deployment sucks, he is kinda the only one I can talk it tthrough with since the decision I make will effect our lives.
frikin frakin !@$%!@%# :hairpull

I know exactly how you feel this seems to happen to me alot lol I live in Ohio and DB is stationed in NC when he is in the states, and we want to move in together But thats a big move on my part. I will have to quit my job and move down there which is fine but its hard when they arent available to talk to about these big important moments that in all reality are right around the corner. So hang in there and I hope everything works out for you! And that he calls soon! :hugehug

ughhhh that must SUCK...the best advice i could give you is go to the job interview do your best and wait it out...they should give you time to think about whether or not you want to take the job before you have to make a decision...so rock the job interview and then hopefully you will get a hold of him to be able to get some of his advice...hopefully you hear from him soon...and good luck at your interview!!

they should give you time to think about whether or not you want to take the job before you have to make a decision

this is true. thank you all for your kind words. now I am annoyed :mumble I mean he knows I had it lined up for today ya think he woulda sent a text message an email or something he didn't even wish me good luck on the card for the flowers I got yesterday :dunno and yes I know it is probably for a god reason but that sill don't make me feel any better LOL

ok well I am off for coffee and a bite to eat before I go to the interview. hmm maybe I should skip the coffee or at least make sure I have my tide stick :thumbsup

Hope you hear from him soon!:hugehug

:goodluck with whatever you decide sweety:hugs

thanks guys, well i think i totally rocked the interview, but totally not sure i want the job, sounds like there design department is well working allot of OT and some weekends so even if they offer what I want I am not sure it is worth it, I mean I didn't become a designer for the money and for me work is not my life it is something I do to fund my life so free time to me is important, but we shall see. they say it'll be 2 weeks before I hear back....and still nothing from DB I am still annoyed but I am sure it's because of movement or something and I am not gonna bitch at him about it because I know him and he will feel bad enough without me saying anything.

again thank you all for your words it really helped me go in there with confidence :)

Agree with Blondie give it your best shot...if they offer you the job then you can talk to DB about it. GOOD LUCK SWEETIE!!!!!!

aww i hope u hear from him