all I could do was cry! I never cry when on the phone with him, I stay strong and talk about stuff that has been going on with him and with my boring life... but this morning I just couldn't stop. I feel like an idiot. Finally I said, "this isn't doing anyone any good, so I am going to let you go now". He said he'd call back in a few hours... I hope he does and I hope I can keep it together!

Does this happen to you guys? I feel so stupid, but yesterday was our two weeks since he left and I was just feeling down all day, and I guess I woke up feeling the same way today. I HATE being like this! I want to be happy and loving when he calls!!

AAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!! :vent :angry :depressed

yeah it happen to me but all he can do is feel bad and get stressed and he told me he was sorry that this was happening.. u have to be strong for him and he knows it hurts hang in there and think of the good times

I know, I usually don't do this that's why I feel so weird and so bad about it! I guess I am just extra emotional right now.

OH! I bet that would explain it! I betcha I'm gonna start my period today or tomorrow!

Well, that'll be easy enough to tell him when he calls back. He's understanding with that stuff!

Your human! It's okay to cry! Your going through a deployment; he JUST left! Don't beat yourself up over it! I've cried on the phone many times with DF during this deployment, so has he! As long as someone is strong on the phone it doesn't matter! Take turns!!

Thanks for the support! Now that I started crying... I can't seem to stop, either.

This sucks!

Also, this is the first time I have gone through this, and he has been to Korea, Iraq and now is in Kuwait... so I think he forgets that I am not used to this cause he is totally used to it. God, I just want this to be over!!

i cried on the phone last night with db...he was kinda shocked because I never cry!! and here i was sobbing with him...it was horrible...but if you have those emotions sometimes they just come out and we can't pick or choose when they decide to rear their ugly head!

try to smile all day today even through your tears...do something crazy...dance naked to some music...thats seriously what i do when im sad...and then go get dairy queen...hope you feel better

We all cry on the phone sometimes! It happens and it's normal! I tend not to cry on the phone, but i do admit it has happened on a few occasions, sometimes it feels like everything is so overwhelming! We're all entitled to having bad days, but i always make sure that i tell myself 'okay, you had a bad day today, tomorrow will be a good day!', i believe a lot of it is a mental thing..

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I hope he calls back!!

yea I lost it once and then for the most part I keep it to myself. It makes him feel like crap and he can't do anything to fix it. I bet it is Auntie Flow that is making you wacky, that's when I am at my emotional lowest for sure.

Stay strong for him but especially for you because if you can't make yourself happy you wont be able to make anyone else happy with you. Sometimes I put on big buts and do the cameron diaz but dance in the mirror it always makes me end up laughing at myself because I look like such a freaking dork and my dog is usually looking at me and confirming it LMFAO

here is a snip but the movie version is waaay better
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qJYw2qCrFnE

I hope he calls you and you can start feeling better.

then go get dairy queen...

How did you know MY trick???

Dairy Queen has been my best friend during this deployment! We get along very well! :wacko

Well, I went back to bed, felt sorry for myself for a while, and now I am going out to go buy some presents for a care package. Thanks for all the words of support, ladies! I don't know what I would do without them!!


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How did you know MY trick???

Dairy Queen has been my best friend during this deployment! We get along very well! :wacko

why did you have to mention........ ice cream?! ...:yum:gimme