68W-LVR
12-12-2007, 07:28 PM
OK, I have gloating happy news. I got to talk to DH online today for over 6 hours. I didn't even know we could chat that long. Yesterday it was probably 3 hours. He has been getting midnight shifts and been getting his days tottally free so instead of sleeping he gets online and talks to me all day. I am so not getting anything done at work or sleeping worth a darn but I couldn't be happier. He has turned into the most unbelievable loving man I have ever known since he deployed. His entire outlook on life has changed so much in the last three weeks it is amazing. He says and does the sweetest things. You can see the change in absolutely everything he does and says. I think, actually I know, that he has totally given up bachelor life now 100% finally. I had totally given it up awhile ago but he has now. All he wants is his home, me, and to raise a family. That's all the matters to him now. Why it took being sent 8 time zones away for it to totally kick in is beyond me but it is amazing.
He is so sorry for his past behavior. He keeps apologizing for not getting the POA done before he left. He is actually trying to get that done and a Will and finally taking his mother off the Life Insurance and putting me on. He feels horrible for all the unfinished business he left. He now want's to be a doctor instead of a nurse when he gets done with the service. He tells me he loves me over and over and over again. He even started referring to me as hubby and spouse again in our messages and on the phone. Hopefully this isn't TMI but he is totally sexual again to. Actually more than ever. I offered a few, um, pics when he was still in Washington before he deployed and he pretty much said sure whatever. I felt crushed. Last night, he asked for special pictures. I told him I didn't have any new ones. He said he could wait and why don't I take some right then and send them. I told him I would after we were done chatting but he wanted them NOW, pretty please and everything. I think his message back early this morning probably belonged in Pillow Talk as a thread. It was hot and made me feel like the most gorgeous person in the world.
The very best thing has happened. He is in total daddy mode. We got a name picked for a boy and a girl and he is ready to start trying to adopt for when he gets home incase it takes a couple of years. It's something that I have really wanted and he wanted someday. I don't know what's in the water over there but he wants not 1, but 2 kids now just like me. And someday turned into plan on as soon as he is done with his military service. We decided on Trevor Ronald Kreais and Cadence Mabel Kreais. He is also actually helping plan on "renewing our vows" in July and trying to think of things and people to invite. We never really had a ceremony so this is our chance. It started with a suggestion from me a couple months ago and he finally turned excited and wants it to.
Sorry this post is so long but I just had to share. I'm over bubbling with happiness right now. Oh yeah, and he ended our last message with See ya hubby daddy and then he wrote Trevor Ronanld Kreais and said how much he loved the son we are going to have. I started crying and smiling at the same time :hystericlaugh so hard I couldn't see the screen.
I got my old Josh back X 10. Why he went through his phase before he deployed I may never know, but he has turned into twice the man he was before hand. And I'm finally going to be a daddy :D :bliss :yahoo
He is so sorry for his past behavior. He keeps apologizing for not getting the POA done before he left. He is actually trying to get that done and a Will and finally taking his mother off the Life Insurance and putting me on. He feels horrible for all the unfinished business he left. He now want's to be a doctor instead of a nurse when he gets done with the service. He tells me he loves me over and over and over again. He even started referring to me as hubby and spouse again in our messages and on the phone. Hopefully this isn't TMI but he is totally sexual again to. Actually more than ever. I offered a few, um, pics when he was still in Washington before he deployed and he pretty much said sure whatever. I felt crushed. Last night, he asked for special pictures. I told him I didn't have any new ones. He said he could wait and why don't I take some right then and send them. I told him I would after we were done chatting but he wanted them NOW, pretty please and everything. I think his message back early this morning probably belonged in Pillow Talk as a thread. It was hot and made me feel like the most gorgeous person in the world.
The very best thing has happened. He is in total daddy mode. We got a name picked for a boy and a girl and he is ready to start trying to adopt for when he gets home incase it takes a couple of years. It's something that I have really wanted and he wanted someday. I don't know what's in the water over there but he wants not 1, but 2 kids now just like me. And someday turned into plan on as soon as he is done with his military service. We decided on Trevor Ronald Kreais and Cadence Mabel Kreais. He is also actually helping plan on "renewing our vows" in July and trying to think of things and people to invite. We never really had a ceremony so this is our chance. It started with a suggestion from me a couple months ago and he finally turned excited and wants it to.
Sorry this post is so long but I just had to share. I'm over bubbling with happiness right now. Oh yeah, and he ended our last message with See ya hubby daddy and then he wrote Trevor Ronanld Kreais and said how much he loved the son we are going to have. I started crying and smiling at the same time :hystericlaugh so hard I couldn't see the screen.
I got my old Josh back X 10. Why he went through his phase before he deployed I may never know, but he has turned into twice the man he was before hand. And I'm finally going to be a daddy :D :bliss :yahoo