So, my dh will be home soon and I have been getting more and more anxious about his homecoming. I'm TOTALLY freaking out scared for him to see me this pregnant, since when he left 3 months ago I wasn't huge yet. I know I'm being stupid, but I'm nervous he won't feel attracted to me and you know he's going to wanna :sex, but what if he's disgusted or just weirded out? I don't know...I just wish I wasn't so nervous to see him.

he is going to find you beautiful and glowing!!! maybe go buy yourself some pretty underwear or a pretty nightgown so you can feel confident and that will create the mood/aura you want

he is going to find you beautiful and glowing!!! maybe go buy yourself some pretty underwear or a pretty nightgown so you can feel confident and that will create the mood/aura you want

That's good advice. I think it really is me not feeling attractive that is getting me so freaked out. Maybe I'll give that a try. I keep thinking, once he gets here and I see him and he gets all excited about the baby, it will be fine.

good luck hun :)

Its only natural to feel that way. I have my whole pregnancy and I see my DH every day. He is going to think your ONE HOTTT MAMA !!!! Have fun and enjoy his homecoming.

you know what...I have that EXACT same worry...

I will be literally ready to give birth when DF comes home for r&r....

Although we feel that way, I think its unfounded fear...we (being the pregnant ones) think we're HUGE and bloated and just generally feel awful (therefore THINK we LOOK awful)....they dont SEE how we FEEL...they just see their beautiful, glowing other half...giving their child life :)

you know what...I have that EXACT same worry...

I will be literally ready to give birth when DF comes home for r&r....

Although we feel that way, I think its unfounded fear...we (being the pregnant ones) think we're HUGE and bloated and just generally feel awful (therefore THINK we LOOK awful)....they dont SEE how we FEEL...they just see their beautiful, glowing other half...giving their child life :)

Ahh, that was sweet. I hope so. I got an email today and he said "don't worry about the bowling ball in your belly, you are my wife and you're beautiful." I think that it is more in my head than anything. Thanks for your words of wisdom.

He is going to be tickled to death to see you and your belly. Thats ya'lls baby in there!

he is going to be absolutely amazed by your body.