View Full Version : Just doesn't feel like home..


crumper07
12-13-2007, 11:25 PM
It's like no matter where I go..if I'm with all my friends..even now that I'm back "home" with my parents and friends while DH is gone..it's just not the same. I think I realize that home is wherever my husband is..and until he gets back I wont feel complete. It sucks this feeling...maybe I am too reliant on him? But he is a part of me and it's painful he is so far away...you guys feel the same way too? I just miss that "home" feeling :depressed

kbmarie
12-13-2007, 11:26 PM
:bigsadhug

TLP06
12-13-2007, 11:32 PM
:bigsadhug

bingette
12-13-2007, 11:37 PM
Home is definitely where your hubby is! That doesn't mean you're too reliant on him!! (at least I hope not anyway..cuz I feel the same way!)

crumper07
12-13-2007, 11:38 PM
Haha ok good!

bingette
12-13-2007, 11:39 PM
They say it gets easier.....although I'm just not seeing that happen! "They" are not working for me yet!

crumper07
12-13-2007, 11:42 PM
Haha I know! Some days are better than others tho...but it's no piece of cake!

bingette
12-13-2007, 11:45 PM
Not at all!!!

mandyb
12-13-2007, 11:46 PM
I do feel it, I am "at our house" but it does not feel like home with him gone. I am hoping that maybe when we head to tampa (HOME) for the holidays that it will pull me out of my funk and take my mind of all my troubles... I am missing him terribly every minute ofeveryday and I do not feel "safe " being in a new place with him gone.. I can not let the kids sense that though cause they are already scared since he left.:( sorry I got off sub a bit) but yes I am feeling the same way....

crumper07
12-13-2007, 11:49 PM
Aww :bigsadhug I hope going HOME helps!

68W-LVR
12-13-2007, 11:56 PM
I totally know how you feel. Our house doesn't feel like a home anymore. I felt more at home in our hotel room we had before he deployed. He has been in Washington and me in Ohio before he deployed. I hate having a big house to myself and I didn't feel that way when he was home. I feel for ya :grphug

Bryanna
12-13-2007, 11:57 PM
aww, i know how that goes :(
i dont feel like i have a home because DF isnt here... it sucks :(

Julianne
12-14-2007, 08:50 AM
:yes I feel the same way. :hugehug

Budreckisgrl0026
12-14-2007, 10:22 AM
Deff doesnt feel at home when dh is gone. Even with all our families around. I never realized how much he completed me and how much he made me smile through the day. I really miss the morning kisses and him cooking breakfeast and him say I love you. Some days are deff alot better than others.