Cici
04-06-2006, 05:17 PM
Hello ladies. My name is Cayci. I just got married Feb. 11th and my dh left March 1st back overseas. He will be overseas until October and then should be stationed stateside. Hopefully getting orders within the next few weeks. I am so glad I found this board! Seems like it is a great support system to have people going through the same thing as you. And not everyone here at home that tells me, "We'll you knew what you were getting into when you married a military man, " and also telling me, "I dont know how you do it, going on with life w/o him, I could never do it." I am so tired of hearing those things!! Anyways, military is all new to me, so it will be an adjustment. I am considering moving with him in October when he is stateside but still not 100% sure. I live in Phoenix and have a very good paying job, we own a home here, and have a daughter in a private school that we will never be able to get her into again if we leave. He does only have 2 years left and so far is planning on getting out. So do I give up what we have here to go be with him or do we just make it work for the next 2 years? Any advice? FYI.. we have been together for 2 years and he has been overseas stationed for the last year and half, so I do miss him and would love to be with him! I am so confused!!