i`m going on 4 months and it still sucks. i have no one that understands.

we do :hugs

its been 4 months and i feel even worse.

Well, just keep reminding yourself that you love each other, and he WILL come home. He will be alright, and this experience will make you and your relationship stronger. Try to think positive...You can do this. Hang in there :hugs
(and spend lots of time on here! :P)

i`m going on 4 months and it still sucks. i have no one that understands.

i know the feeling its been almost 2 month for me and my DB and its getting harder by the day, our love is the only thing keeping me going..i guess sometimes thats all i need. Keep you rhead up sweetie...talk to him if you need to...honesty and willingness to open up your feelings is always good in any realtionship, but this kind its pretty much a MUST!!! hope you start feeling better!!! im on here often, so ill be here anytime if u feel the need to vent!!

Stay on here and chat away. DH has been over there almost a month now. I won't lie and tell you I don't crack but this site and all the amazing people have been life savers. Everyone here knows Exactly what your going through and they are seriously here to help.

it's been almost 9 months, and i don't think i've gotten a handle on it still.....

Yeah, I'm still at the "I miss you come home NOW" stage. LOL. But after a few more months I'll move onto the "Am I really Married?" stage. It's crazy, and often times too hard to express with words, but it's all worth it when they hold you again.

yea, i've gone through the am i really married stage.... LOL i mean even though we were married for like a year and like 3 or 4 months before he left.... LOL but it's like geez... am i really married??? lol but i think the day he first left.... i told him i was ready for homecoming.... LOL

aww I'm sorry you're having a tough time hun. But we're all here for you when you need it. We all know what you're going through =]
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Yeah, I'm still at the "I miss you come home NOW" stage. LOL. But after a few more months I'll move onto the "Am I really Married?" stage. It's crazy, and often times too hard to express with words, but it's all worth it when they hold you again.

Yea, I'm in the "I miss you, come home NOW!" stage too. It doesn't really feel like it's getting any easier. I still cry every time he has to go when he calls. I can't sleep cuz he's not here. :depressed