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illbewaiting
12-20-2007, 12:41 PM
well db ended ti thismorning. hthe dog got sick this morning n was pissed so i texted him sayin i was sorry, and he reasponed that he doesnt want the dog destroyin his stuff, and to make a long storry sort told me it wasnt my fault but he thought i should move out (so now im homless) then when asked if we were over he said he has been havin doubts about us and doesnt know how to make it better. i asked him what he wanted to be better and he just responded i dont know can we talk about this later. so now im sittin at work cryin my eyes out cuz i love him so muc h n he could care less about me, and to top it off im now homless. i feel like im havin a horrible nightmare. we were sapossed to leave to visit his family tomarrow and now im not going im spendin x mas homless and all by myself. guess this is why he was buggin me to open his x mas gift last night. i have to go to the apartment when he leaves this weekend get all my stuff out, and leave the key..........i feel like i want to die right now.:unlove

mrskmw
12-20-2007, 12:43 PM
Wow...I'm so sorry hun! :hugs

RunAwayLove
12-20-2007, 12:43 PM
:hugs im SO sorry

dannysgirl004
12-20-2007, 12:44 PM
:hugs

ilovehimx3
12-20-2007, 12:45 PM
Im sorry :grphug:hugehug:bigsadhug

carlyd89
12-20-2007, 12:47 PM
wow...I'm so sorry hunny. That's gotta suck =[
Where are you at?

*MarineBug420*
12-20-2007, 12:57 PM
I think before you are homeless he owes it to you to sit down and talk. Does he pay for the whole place and all the bills? It seems so dramatic for this all to happen so quickly...sorry...you must feel terrible )-8

*Erica*
12-20-2007, 01:05 PM
I think before you are homeless he owes it to you to sit down and talk. Does he pay for the whole place and all the bills? It seems so dramatic for this all to happen so quickly...sorry...you must feel terrible )-8


I agree with this. Do you have anyfriend you can crash with until you get your feet back on the ground? I'm sorry about this.

kiwijus
12-20-2007, 01:07 PM
If your name is on any part of the rent or bills he can't just kick you out. What a dousche though, I'm sorry!

cheerkelly
12-20-2007, 01:16 PM
I think you guys need to sit down and really talk about this. It's not fair for him to just kick you out and leave you homeless. It almost sounds as if he said this in haste...because he was angry. Wait it out and see what he says after he's calmed down.

define
12-20-2007, 01:18 PM
:hugs I agree with the other ladies.

CoffeeGirl
12-20-2007, 01:25 PM
I'm deeply sorry:hugs

aj07
12-20-2007, 02:27 PM
Oh wow hun I'm so sorry :hugs But he should at least let you stay there until you find a decent place to go, he can't expect you to go on the streets. It's x-mas time, he shouldn't be such a scrooge!

tazthis
12-20-2007, 02:28 PM
I'm sorry hun!!

Dani17
12-20-2007, 02:31 PM
I'm so sorry hun. :hugs

Berkley
12-20-2007, 02:32 PM
I am so sorry :hugs

whydidhehavetogo
12-20-2007, 02:35 PM
i am so sorry he ended it like that. if you need to talk i am here i know you do not know me but i am a great listener.

Tara S.
12-20-2007, 02:46 PM
I think before you are homeless he owes it to you to sit down and talk. Does he pay for the whole place and all the bills? It seems so dramatic for this all to happen so quickly...sorry...you must feel terrible )-8

i totally agree with this...seems kind of sudden dostn it?

carlyd89
12-20-2007, 02:47 PM
it does seem sudden, but i hope you find a place to stay..it's no fun being alone with no one around

Godders_Girl80
12-20-2007, 03:53 PM
I'm so sorry this is happening to you. :hugs

~April~
12-21-2007, 02:47 AM
I am soooo sorry!! :bigsadhug

MIKOSWIFEY
12-21-2007, 03:04 AM
I'm sorry :bigsadhug

He can't kick you out like that, you have all your things there so he has to evict you technically, since you had a verbal agreement that you would live there. You should have at least 30 days depending on your state to move out.

jen-marie
12-21-2007, 03:42 AM
:bigsadhug I'm sorry!

CristinaFaye
12-21-2007, 05:54 AM
Oh girl, I am so sorry. He should definitely allow you time to find another place. I hope you are ok. We are all here for you. :(