We broke up almost a month ago.After dating for almost three months,I get a call from one of his buddies letting me know he hooked up with a random girl at the club.The next day he broke up with me and started dating her.It was the hardest break up I've ever dealt with,probably because it was the most intense relationship I've ever been in. Well 2 weeks ago he texts me and tells me he broke up with the girl since she cheated on him. He proceeds to tell me that he still has feelings for her,but he still loves me.Ever since then,we text-but it's this awkward mixture of good friends,lovers,and me still being hurt.I don't know what to do.I still love him,but I don't even think he knows what he wants.And it's driving me crazy.

I'm sorry hun..hope things start to get better :hugs

I'm sorry you are stuck in this situation right now! I hope you are able to working it out & deside if you can trust your ex as a boyfriend again or if you need to completely move on! :xfingers

I wish I had some advice! :hugs

I'm sorry you're dealing with this. I would say don't stay in contact with him. I know you still love him and it hurts, but don't get back together with an ex. I'm telling you this from experience. Someone else on here recently wrote that there's a reason they're your ex, and that reason still exists.

Karma got him..Dont even waste your time with him.He isnt worth it!

Karma got him..Dont even waste your time with him.He isnt worth it!

I completely agree. :) Good luck to you. I know it's a difficult situation when your heart is involved. Just take care of yourself.

im sorry he did that to you but i have to agree with a couple of the other girls leave him alone..it seems he got dumped and feels he can go back to you now and pick up the pieces..love hurts but dont play his games ..move on to better guys out there.

I sooo understand how hard this must be for you because you still have feelings for him. But don't waste your time hun, if it was so easy for him to hurt you for some tramp, it will be easier for him to do it again because he'll know that you'll take him back. You deserve so much better than to go through that :yes Good luck hun, I hope things get better for you :glomp

My best advice would be to walk away from this all. It kinda sounds like he got hurt and needs someone to boost his ego and be there and you are kinda that girl. Karma really did get him and he doesnt deserve you in any way.

When the heart is involved it sucks!! IMO this guy isn't worth your time. He is claiming he loves you becuase the other girl is gone. Are you willing to waiting around for the next girl he becomes interested in?? I think you are better than that!