View Full Version : Twins separated at birth unwittingly marry


billysgirl
01-13-2008, 11:40 AM
LONDON - Twins who were separated at birth got married without realizing they were brother and sister, a lawmaker said, urging more information be provided on birth certificates for adopted children. A court annulled the British couple's union after they discovered their true relationship, Lord David Alton said.

"Everyone has a right to knowledge about their lineage, genealogy and identity. And if they don't, then it will lead to cases of incest," Alton told The Associated Press during a telephone interview Friday.

Alton first revealed details of the unusual case last month during a five-hour debate about a bill that would change regulations about human embryology.

"I was recently involved in a conversation with a High Court judge who was telling me of a case he had dealt with," Alton said according to a transcript of the Dec. 10 debate. "It involved the normal birth of twins who were separated at birth and adopted by separate parents.

"They were never told that they were twins. They met later in life and felt an inevitable attraction, and the judge had to deal with the consequences of the marriage that they entered into and all the issues of their separation."

Alton gave no additional details and would not reveal the name of the judge who told him about the case.

The High Court's Family Division declined to discuss or confirm Alton's account about the twins.

Alton, an independent legislator who works at Liverpool's John Moores University, said the siblings' inadvertent marriage raises the wider issue of the importance of strengthening the rights of children to know the identities of their biological parents, including kids who were born through in vitro fertilization.

Under British law, only a mother has to be named on a birth certificate. Such certificates also are not required to identify births that result from IVF or to identify the sperm donor.

In addition, British law does not require parents to ever tell children that they were the result of donated sperm.

Alton believes this should be changed.

Alton said he favors an amendment to the Human Fertility and Embryology bill — which is still being debated in the House of Lords — that would require birth certificates of children born from donated sperm to say that and to identify the genetic father.

Referring to the twins' case, he said: "If you start trying to conceal someone's identity, sooner or later the truth will come out. And if you don't know you are biologically related to someone, you may become attracted to them and tragedies like this may occur."

:eek ewwwwww :puke

Traci
01-13-2008, 12:17 PM
I saw that this AM and was :shocked.

USNIwife
01-13-2008, 12:18 PM
bizzare

I Miss Him:(
01-13-2008, 12:18 PM
sooo weird!

Nakule
01-13-2008, 12:23 PM
I would be so crushed if my husband turned out to be my brother, I can't imagine what they are going through.

Kelleysquared
01-13-2008, 12:34 PM
That would be incredibly awkward...

Rain.
01-13-2008, 12:51 PM
Me & DH joke about this a lot since people say we look alike. I cant imagine the horror if that joke ever came to be reality. Especially after 9 years of being together and 2 kids. *shudders at the thought*

Navywife85
01-13-2008, 12:54 PM
wow! i have seen a show where this had happened and it still makes me sick...

mccutched
01-13-2008, 02:21 PM
it's gross but so heartbreaking for them, i can't imagine finding out that i married my brother... it would hurt....and it would be weird ...i feel bad for them

retrvinfool
01-13-2008, 02:23 PM
OMG....would never look at sex the same way again...that just sucks. Well if they don't have kids do you think they will try to keep up the relationship. Now that calls for some THERAPY!!!!

Bryanna
01-13-2008, 02:27 PM
i cant imagine finding out DH was my brother.. that would be so hard!!

i would be crushed to find out the man i married and i could not legally be together because of our genetic relationship.

its not like i would see him as a brother... i would still see him as my husband.

goldenageskye
01-13-2008, 02:31 PM
that would be so weird. and i'm sure they felt like that twin connection but thought it was love...

pilotgirl
01-13-2008, 04:37 PM
I would be so crushed if my husband turned out to be my brother, I can't imagine what they are going through.

that's a very sensitive approach, i'm glad you posted. I was sitting here laughing for a moment, thank you for the wake up.

Dawnzie
01-13-2008, 04:46 PM
man that sucks, why did they have to tell them? its not like they grew up together...bah

pilotgirl
01-13-2008, 04:53 PM
man that sucks, why did they have to tell them? its not like they grew up together...bah

It wouldn't be fair to their children.. the complications that could happen from having kids.

But if they let them adopt, and go on being happy... that would have been nice.

Dawnzie
01-13-2008, 04:54 PM
It wouldn't be fair to their children.. the complications that could happen from having kids.

But if they let them adopt, and go on being happy... that would have been nice.

here here... that just sucks for them:sigh

Devinn
01-13-2008, 04:54 PM
man that sucks, why did they have to tell them? its not like they grew up together...bah

well because they're siblings...beyond that...TWINS....

and if they had children...the children could and probably would be pretty messed up...PHYSICALLY I mean...

they're genetically too close.

Mindy
01-13-2008, 05:14 PM
I honestly feel horrible for them. Meeting the guy/girl of your dreams, falling in love, getting married and possibly planning a family and then BOOM, finding out your brother and sister? I would honestly be devastated. How would you be able to look at them like a sibling after loving them romantically?

little.lili
01-13-2008, 05:27 PM
its interresting what the article mentions

you know... with all those sperm banks i bet this situation will come up more and more in the coming years...

its only a matter of time that people start to realize they have a bunch of siblings running around because of those "donations"... its only bound to make problems and issues

i cant imagine marrying some one and years later when you're trying to have kids you realize you cant b/c you're related... what a nightmare