Anyone NOT hear from their SO in over 30 days??? I can't take it anymore. Everyone else seems to hear from their SO almost daily. I haven't heard anything from mine since mid December....no email, no letters and no calls. What the $?&%!!!!????

:( i dont know what branch your SO is in, but mine is and army boy and i havent gone longer than about 5-7 days,and he emailed me telling me things were going to be hectic and not to worry!

im sorry that your going through this, but im sure he is fine...maybe just extremly busy?:dunno. how long has he been deployed? Before this has he had consistant contact with you?
:bigsadhug

Air force and it's been since November....

sorry...forgot to answer that we had constant contact up until mid-December then nothing. I'm really worried.

wow, you are definitely in my prayers. hang in there, you are strong

Mine is Navy, but he's in Iraq. I usually hear from him every couple of days, but the longest has been about 2 weeks.
Are you married? If you're married they would probably have told you by now if something had happened, right?
I'm sure he's fine and he's just really busy or they don't have access to communication right now. I hope you hear from him soon. You are both in my thoughts. :pray :goodvibes
Hang in there :hugs :hugs

mine is navy and he always says no news is good news so i dont know..

HOPE YOU HEAR SOMTHING SOON.

Do you have a family group you can call or a contact. Someone out there knows where he is and can give you an answer ...Good Luck

The longest I have gone is almost 36 days but he finally called yesterday... he said he has been really busy ... he's with the marines I'm sure your man is fine... and that you will hear from him soon! but until then :hugs don't stress too much!

bless your heart!! You hang in there! You just have to have faith that everything has got to be okay. easier said than done :) i've heard of people going longer.....keep your head up!

sorry...forgot to answer that we had constant contact up until mid-December then nothing. I'm really worried.

Don't be worried. No news is good news. He's obviously fine, just probably busy or under commo blackout.

"no news is good news" ?? im so so so so so sorry you havent heard from him in so long..


that must be terrible :bigsadhug


<3 Kathy

Awww honey I am sure he is okay :hugehug I hope he calls you soon! If not Ill go :spank beat him for you LOL make him call you! :hugs

I'm so sorry you're having to wait! I'm sure he's just busy and can't get communicate but that he's fine. You would have heard something if he wasn't okay. Hang in there! You're in my prayers.

"no news is good news" ?? im so so so so so sorry you havent heard from him in so long..


that must be terrible :bigsadhug


<3 Kathy


What I meant is - if something had happened to him, she'd have been notified immediately. So there's no need to be worried about his safety.

Of course I don't think its good that she hasn't heard from him, and I hope he's able to get in touch soon.

But I didn't want her sitting her thinking the worst.

Sheesh! :duh

I am so sorry that you are having to go this long without hearing from him I would be a wreck! I think you are able to contact the red cross and they will get in contact with the command and have him contact you but I could be wrong GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I wouldn't use the Red Cross just to check on him. I'd first go to the Rear D and see if they have any news or if the Chaplain can talk him into giving you a call or email.

ok, it's been 47 days!!!!!! Seriously, wth??? I'm pulling my hair out here. I remember complaining when I hadn't gotten a call after 6 days. I never thought I'd have to go this long...and still be waiting. I can't imagine a blackout lasting this long. UGH!

Thanks, Ladies. I really appreciate your support.

I'm sorry about what you are going through, i know your hair must be almost completely gray by now I can't tell you not to worry because i do a lot of that myself but i can be here for you when needed

the best comfort is by the ones that know what you're going through because they understand :hugs

ok, it's been 47 days!!!!!! Seriously, wth??? I'm pulling my hair out here. I remember complaining when I hadn't gotten a call after 6 days. I never thought I'd have to go this long...and still be waiting. I can't imagine a blackout lasting this long. UGH!

Thanks, Ladies. I really appreciate your support.
What about the other wives in your DH's unit? Have they heard? Have you talked to Rear D and shared your concerns?

If you think your DH is just not contacting you, talk to the Rear D and they will get the chaplain involved.