Do you know any helpful links for frgs and in general for families? like militaryonesource.com and others?

you must call lifelines (NAVY/MARINES)--they were really helpful..just ask them what you wanna know or just tell them your new..

http://www.lifelines.navy.mil

lifelines has a whole packet on starting up an FRG and what not.
http://lifelines.navy.mil/FamilyLine/GetOurPublications/index.htm
you can order for free. :yes