...........or are the weekends just really hard sometimes? I'll be fine during the week. Busy with work and such. And although I have things planned for the weekend, i just can't help thinking that if he were here we'd be lazy and warm under the covers together. :sigh Nothing compares to that. :depressed

I am feeling like that right now, through the week yes it does seem a little easier, because of work and school, but weekends sometimes make me depressed.

I've felt that way just about every weekend since he's left, whether I have something to do or not, when he was here we spent every single weekend 2gether just layin around:cloud9

Nope, not just you. The weekends are very hard for me as well. :hugs

I've felt that way just about every weekend since he's left, whether I have something to do or not, when he was here we spent every single weekend 2gether just layin around:cloud9

And for some reason I feel guilty if I do go out and have fun. :sigh
But if I sit at home alone then I get really depressed. :no

....I just can't win.

i'm with you there! weekends are the hardest part

I have a love/hate relationship with weekends. Sometimes it is nice because I don't have to force myself to function and can sit there and read letters he has written or whatever, but then I hate it because that is when we would spend all of our time together.

And for some reason I feel guilty if I do go out and have fun. :sigh
But if I sit at home alone then I get really depressed. :no

....I just can't win.


:hugs I know exactly how your feeling, for the first few months I had no desire to do anything, I would sit in the house every weekend being sad, my friends had to drag me out the house, and I would feel guilty too, as weird as it may feel to go out and fun without him, I believe he would honestly want that for you, I know, sitting at home being depressed will drive you :screwy:vent

Nope, not just you. I'm okay until the kids go to bed and then i just sit here and start getting sad.

I feel that way now too. I have plans but I am not motivated to part take, it sucks bc he is all I can think of so when I am with others it takes a while before I can let go for a bit and have fun. Work is different bc you were use to that before he left. I know there are a lot of lonely hearts out there tonight but take hold ladies bc we have each other and knowing that we can have that again keeps the nights a turning!!
Eating and watching a movie....see you on the couch...
K

I feel that way now too. I have plans but I am not motivated to part take, it sucks bc he is all I can think of so when I am with others it takes a while before I can let go for a bit and have fun. Work is different bc you were use to that before he left. I know there are a lot of lonely hearts out there tonight but take hold ladies bc we have each other and knowing that we can have that again keeps the nights a turning!!
Eating and watching a movie....see you on the couch...
K

I don't know if i'm being overly emotional but that was beautiful! :D

Lonely hearts club does weekends!

I feel exactly the same way...especially when i see or hear about my friends or others getting to go out with their SO's...=(

I feel exactly the same way...especially when i see or hear about my friends or others getting to go out with their SO's...=(

too bad we couldn't all get together and have a giant movie party together. It is one thing to talk about it over the internet but another to talk face to face.

Not that this isn't my life support while he's gone. It is! I don't know what i'd do without my SOS family! ;)

Yep right there with ya ladies! I was getting dd ready for bed tonight and was thinking about not having to go to bed early and what we would be doing if he was here. I miss him so much!

I miss my lazy weekends with him too! I actually dread the weekends now that he is gone. At least throughout the week I have work and school.

I am very busy on weekends so it doesn't bother me...they are over too fast! We'll all be alright ladies...just eat some icecream and get a pedi. You'll feel better :yes

I have been feeling like that lately. Just little things will remind me of him and man I miss sleeping next to him...So I am in your boat girlie!!! I hope it gets better for you!

I have been feeling like that lately. Just little things will remind me of him and man I miss sleeping next to him...So I am in your boat girlie!!! I hope it gets better for you!

I know! I miss sleeping next to him so much. More than anything. Just knowing that he is right there. That and his smell. I could cry just thinking about it....it is just so.....so him. If that makes sense. :dunno

...........or are the weekends just really hard sometimes? I'll be fine during the week. Busy with work and such. And although I have things planned for the weekend, i just can't help thinking that if he were here we'd be lazy and warm under the covers together. :sigh Nothing compares to that. :depressed

I think this is the hardest part of not having him here! I was so sad on Thursday, and usually it's my best day because I know that I will see him soon. I don't even care that the weekend is here.

I def feel that way...especially being in a new city and not having many people I can just call to hang out with...but the night even during the week are hard...i got so used to him being there when I fell asleep and when I woke up that everything just seems empty kinda around my place...

I feel that way now too. I have plans but I am not motivated to part take, it sucks bc he is all I can think of so when I am with others it takes a while before I can let go for a bit and have fun.
K

I feel the exact same way. I want to have fun...it's just so hard sometimes because I keep thinking about him and I'm not living in the present.

I agree... weekends are very hard. Especially because it's a 3-day weekend for me (MLK Day) and all of my friends are going away for the long weekend with their SO... I'm so jealous.

My first weekend was the hardest!!! I just about went nuts! The week is busy with work and helping the kids with homework. But I so miss waking up next to him on a lazy Sat/Sun morning.

Last night was the first real conversation we've been able to have since he's left. He encouraged me to stay busy and to get out of the house. It felt good for him to tell me to do that, otherwise I think I'd feel guilty being out without him. Of course, he did suggest I go to a gay bar......you think he doesn't trust me???? :rofl:rofl

Of course, he did suggest I go to a gay bar......you think he doesn't trust me???? :rofl:rofl

That is hiliarious!!! :rofl:lmao My boyfriend wouldn't even want me to go to a gay bar. He would think that I would turn. :lmao