i just found out that i am a carrer of a genetic mutation gean and that the baby i am carrying might or might not have a birth defect because of the gean i carry i have to go to a specalist and see i also have a blood clotting disorder that could be potentaly harm full to me and the baby durning delevery i am so worried and they said not to stress but how can one not knowing that something could be wrong with there unborn baby and this is not a small thing its missing arms legs body parts that it should have i just dont know what to do my husband left for a short deploment and i have to tell him in an email what could be wrong with our child its so hard any advise would be helpful about this if u can give any.but thanks for taking the time to read this to those of u who will.

Prayers sent your way...is the deployment short enough where you can wait till he is home to tell him?

:hugehug What's the disorder? Your child IS for sure missing body parts, or there is a possibility of it developing without them?

its a 9 to 10 day thing so yes but he is the kind of man who dosent like surpises

Dont stress. I know its easier said than done, but you are just a carrier as of right now. Doenst mean that it is definate. (((HUGS))) I hope everything works out.

they wont tell me anything untill i go to the specailst to find out its so hard they just wont tell me

:hugs no advice but :goodvibes

Im so sorry you and your Dh are in my prayers- as well as your unborn child :sad

:hugehug you will be in my prayers!!!

Im praying for you and your family. Call me any time day or night. Luv ya

:hugs

:hugs I am praying that it all turns out pleasant for you. :pray

:pray and :goodvibes

That was really hard to read with the run-on sentences.

hang in there! :hugs Everything could turn out to be perfectly fine.

:hugs:pray:goodvibes

If you could tell me what the disease is I might be able to give you some info on it...if you want to you can PM. The fact is that if the gene is on a recessive gene then your hubby would have to have it too for the child to have it. If it is dominant gene then your child could get it from you, but since I dont know what the disease is its hard to comment. Your child could just be a carrier for it too, like u are. It is awful to think what if by yourself of your unborn child i know, but try to be calm bc if your body is too stressed out then you could make yourself sick and that baby inside you needs your love and attention, you are the only one who can do that right now. Order your favorite food tonight and call your best friend, mom, or whomever and vent it out. Try to get someone to come over and distract you if possible and I would say you might want to wait on telling your dh much more than you have to get some tests done and that you'll talk to him about it when hes home. This way he knows about it but you can truelly tell him about it when he is home. If it was a long deployment i would say just tell him but i mean its only a week and a half. If you feel like you need to tell him then do its your choice and neither is wrong. Rent or pull out your favorite movie and watch it tonight with your feet up and try to be calm and treat yourself. I hope this helps, when are you getting your tests done? PM me if you wanna talk more I'm here for you.
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