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.x.MiSS.LADi.x.
01-29-2008, 09:14 PM
So as you know me & Dh are TTC....
Im going to his graduation so we're gonna try and do some baby making :D



According to the 'Ovulation predictor' it says Ill ovulate Feb 27th...Which is family day....

Since i ovulate then, when should we try?

I ovulate the 27th and thats the 1st day i get to see him, Do you have to have sex the day before in order to get pregnant or does it just help chances?

Victoria
01-29-2008, 09:14 PM
Good luck!

rcwant2be
01-29-2008, 09:24 PM
i'm not the first person to bring this up...just gonna reiterate. i remember your recent thread about the problem(s) you guys were having & several ladies advised you should put ttc on hold.

have you gotten things worked out?

jsskwill07
01-29-2008, 09:26 PM
I think it helps if you have sex before your day of ovulation but I don't really know. I'm ttc as well. Good Luck

Mommy2Bailey
01-29-2008, 09:27 PM
Good luck!

.x.MiSS.LADi.x.
01-29-2008, 09:32 PM
i'm not the first person to bring this up...just gonna reiterate. i remember your recent thread about the problem(s) you guys were having & several ladies advised you should put ttc on hold.

have you gotten things worked out?

If i remember correctly- Your a woman who is 'in control of ur body' and doesnt want kids to live right? So why are you hanging around the TTC threads?

They may have 'advised' me to put TTC on hold but only I have the right to make that decision, correct?
Obviously we've worked it out if we are still going to TTC....

Dont start trouble in my fucking thread!

rosebud*
01-29-2008, 09:37 PM
I have no advice, I have gotten pregnant by having sex on the day ovulation started, and also the day after. so.. no help but a :goodluck and have fun.. :sex lol

rcwant2be
01-29-2008, 09:37 PM
If i remember correctly- Your a woman who is 'in control of ur body' and doesnt want kids to live right? So why are you hanging around the TTC threads?

They may have 'advised' me to put TTC on hold but only I have the right to make that decision, correct?
Obviously we've worked it out if we are still going to TTC....

Dont start trouble in my fucking thread!

i'm not starting trouble, i was just asking if you'd worked out your issues....& hoping that since the advice came from someone other than me, by chance you listened.

if having a baby is what you want, i hope it works out for you & your marriage holds together.

.x.MiSS.LADi.x.
01-29-2008, 09:39 PM
Lol Thank You Michelle :)

Baby Making is always fun! Lol

Polkadot
01-29-2008, 09:40 PM
i'm not the first person to bring this up...just gonna reiterate. i remember your recent thread about the problem(s) you guys were having & several ladies advised you should put ttc on hold.

have you gotten things worked out?


That is wrong to post that and like she said why are you hanging out in TCC ?

.x.MiSS.LADi.x.
01-29-2008, 09:42 PM
i'm not starting trouble, i was just asking if you'd worked out your issues....& hoping that since the advice came from someone other than me, by chance you listened.

if having a baby is what you want, i hope it works out for you & your marriage holds together.

I took in the advice...But me & my Dh are fine...Thank you for wondering...He made a mistake by acting without speaking to me first..He knows that and is seeking help for his issues.He's only human, Humans make mistakes..Oh but then again, everyone's not perfect like you huh?..I dont feel like I have to answer to you...If you dont have the answer to the question that was in the thread, why reply...I feel like you did it on purpose...so you basically ARE starting touble...If you have any other concerns about my marriage, my husband, or us TTC PM ME PLEASE! Dont thread jack me like you do everyone else..

-Thank You

Jenabugg
01-29-2008, 09:44 PM
Hmm.. I think you should have lots and lots of sex lol.. the day before the day of and the day after.. and everyday before and after that you can lol.. Can u tell I am sexually deprived :)

Casadorra
01-29-2008, 09:44 PM
I have no advice sorry hun. but good luck!!

rcwant2be
01-29-2008, 09:46 PM
That is wrong to post that and like she said why are you hanging out in TCC ?

like i said, i was just reiterating what was recently said by a few other ladies.

i'm not aware of a rule that says only those who are ttc can post in the ttc forum.

.x.MiSS.LADi.x.
01-29-2008, 09:50 PM
like i said, i was just reiterating what was recently said by a few other ladies.

i'm not aware of a rule that says only those who are ttc can post in the ttc forum.

Point being- You didnt have the answer to wtf i asked...So why put ur little smart comment out there? Thats me & my Dh's business...Victoria is one of the ladies who told me maybe i should wait, but you see what she wrote right? "Good Luck"...

lovingamarine07
01-29-2008, 09:51 PM
i'm not the first person to bring this up...just gonna reiterate. i remember your recent thread about the problem(s) you guys were having & several ladies advised you should put ttc on hold.

have you gotten things worked out?

ok by no means do i like this chick BUT this time i think she honestly ust had a question. i think it was an honest question not tryin to start trouble for once... im not ttc but i do look in the threads just to see how its going. maybe she was doing the same.. :dunno


im tryin to stay away from the having a kid thing but i have heard have lots of sex around the time you ovulate and something is bound to happen. i wish you the BEST of luck. i hope you get your little miracle! :D

Victoria
01-29-2008, 09:52 PM
like i said, i was just reiterating what was recently said by a few other ladies.

i'm not aware of a rule that says only those who are ttc can post in the ttc forum.

You just need to cool it and let people be happy, regardless of prior circumstances. Yes, people may be curious, but if you're REALLY that damn curious, use your freakin PM button!!!! :wink :wink :wink

Victoria
01-29-2008, 09:53 PM
ok by no means do i like this chick BUT this time i think she honestly ust had a question. i think it was an honest question not tryin to start trouble for once... im not ttc but i do look in the threads just to see how its going. maybe she was doing the same.. :dunno


im tryin to stay away from the having a kid thing but i have heard have lots of sex around the time you ovulate and something is bound to happen. i wish you the BEST of luck. i hope you get your little miracle! :D

You may be right, but common sense will tell rcwant2be to research past threads of MissAsadi's!

JadedPrincess
01-29-2008, 09:55 PM
Hmm.. I think you should have lots and lots of sex lol.. the day before the day of and the day after.. and everyday before and after that you can lol.. Can u tell I am sexually deprived :)

:blush That's all the advice I have too....:D

rcwant2be
01-29-2008, 09:55 PM
Point being- You didnt have the answer to wtf i asked...So why put ur little smart comment out there? Thats me & my Dh's business...Victoria is one of the ladies who told me maybe i should wait, but you see what she wrote right? "Good Luck"...

who says my comment was "smart". that's how you interpreted it. maybe i just wanted to know what was up w/ your marriage since the last i knew, you were "gonna die."

if you wanna bring a baby into a brand new marriage, w/ a dh who is just starting a military career, & "seeking help for his issues", it's up to you.

.x.MiSS.LADi.x.
01-29-2008, 10:01 PM
who says my comment was "smart". that's how you interpreted it. maybe i just wanted to know what was up w/ your marriage since the last i knew, you were "gonna die."

if you wanna bring a baby into a brand new marriage, w/ a dh who is just starting a military career, & "seeking help for his issues", it's up to you.

If thats the last YOU knew then thats on you, Ive posted about the situation since we talked... He's seeking help for his TRUST issues...Its not like he's crazy or abusive...I know that the decision is up to ME! totally, so why are you so worried! The ONLY threads i ever see you get all bitchy in are Baby related!

rcwant2be
01-29-2008, 10:04 PM
If thats the last YOU knew then thats on you

& that's why i asked. i don't live on SOS, so i don't see EVERY thread that gets posted. all you needed to do was answer the question...not get your panties all in a bunch.

JadedPrincess
01-29-2008, 10:05 PM
:fetti :fetti :fetti

That is happy fetti....when it touches you, you are happy and you smile.


It has now touched all yall.

.x.MiSS.LADi.x.
01-29-2008, 10:07 PM
ok by no means do i like this chick BUT this time i think she honestly ust had a question. i think it was an honest question not tryin to start trouble for once... im not ttc but i do look in the threads just to see how its going. maybe she was doing the same.. :dunno


im tryin to stay away from the having a kid thing but i have heard have lots of sex around the time you ovulate and something is bound to happen. i wish you the BEST of luck. i hope you get your little miracle! :D

I understand that...But why bring up me & my Dh's fall out and tell me i should be TTC in a thread im talking about TTC...?

Its just wrong! If she wanted to know- I posted a Thread earlier about how i was on "Cloud 9" b/c of Dh...She coulda read it or PM'd me...She didnt have to TRY and make me feel bad..She's like the fuckin grim reaper- always tryina bring darkness on everyone's sunshine!

Jenabugg
01-29-2008, 10:07 PM
I like the happy fetti lol.. :)

ash
01-29-2008, 10:08 PM
Good Luck!

I am sure you and your DH have discussed the trust issues and life is back on track. But you are so young, with one child already, make sure you aren't going into this whole thing blind. I'd hate to see you so upset again a year from now, but with 2 babies rather than one. I think everyone, RC included, is really just looking out for you, girl. :hugs

:goodvibes for your TTC!

lovingamarine07
01-29-2008, 10:09 PM
You may be right, but common sense will tell rcwant2be to research past threads of MissAsadi's!

i totally agree. and as we have all agreed maybe she is a bit tactless and doesnt know the time or place to bring stuff up. i guess i have learned to expect stuff out of her like this so it doesnt come as a shocker.

honestly i wondered the same thing BUT i kept my mouth shut.. it is not my business... its a sign if you are ttc with someone things are obviously going well....


so again keke best of luck to you.

have LOTS and LOTS of sex!!!!!!!! :)

.x.MiSS.LADi.x.
01-29-2008, 10:09 PM
& that's why i asked. i don't live on SOS, so i don't see EVERY thread that gets posted. all you needed to do was answer the question...not get your panties all in a bunch.

You could have asked me in a more respectable manner...& the only person who can 'get my panties in a bunch' are my Dh :peace

Bex
01-29-2008, 10:09 PM
i wouldn't go by the "ovulation predictor" - i'd use an "ovulation predictor kid" because not every woman goes by a set schedule. try buying an OPK at a drug store. they are usually in the same aisle as preggo tests and condoms and what not :)

rcwant2be
01-29-2008, 10:10 PM
Good Luck!

I am sure you and your DH have discussed the trust issues and life is back on track. But you are so young, with one child already, make sure you aren't going into this whole thing blind. I'd hate to see you so upset again a year from now, but with 2 babies rather than one. I think everyone, RC included, is really just looking out for you, girl. :hugs

:goodvibes for your TTC!

DING DING DING!

we have a winner!

lovingamarine07
01-29-2008, 10:10 PM
I understand that...But why bring up me & my Dh's fall out and tell me i should be TTC in a thread im talking about TTC...?

Its just wrong! If she wanted to know- I posted a Thread earlier about how i was on "Cloud 9" b/c of Dh...She coulda read it or PM'd me...She didnt have to TRY and make me feel bad..She's like the fuckin grim reaper- always tryina bring darkness on everyone's sunshine!

i know babe.. just smile and be happy and ignore others ignorance in this world.. thats how i have become a happier person is by ignoring stupid people! :)

rcwant2be
01-29-2008, 10:13 PM
You could have asked me in a more respectable manner

???

what was soooooooooooo disrespectful about the way i asked? you put it out there that you & your dh had a problem in a previous thread & someone suggested you put ttc on hold & others agreed with them...so i asked if you had gotten things sorted out & reminded you what was said in your previous thread. i didn't see your "cloud 9" thread...shoot me.

.x.MiSS.LADi.x.
01-29-2008, 10:13 PM
I understand everyone's concern, And appreciate it a GREAT DEAL! But Im fine...Im Happy...All I ask is to please be happy for me :) If Im not worried, Dont be ;) Cuz Ima worry bug, & if there was the slightest thing to worry about, Id be worrying about it! I have Love & trust in Dh...The mistake he made, I am CONFIDENT it will never happen again...I could bet my life on it! We are past it, so please pleaseeee just support me !

rosebud*
01-29-2008, 10:14 PM
DING DING DING!

we have a winner!

the difference is in the delivery. and was that comment really necessary? :no

.x.MiSS.LADi.x.
01-29-2008, 10:15 PM
???

what was soooooooooooo disrespectful about the way i asked? you put it out there that you & your dh had a problem in a previous thread & someone suggested you put ttc on hold & others agreed with them...so i asked if you had gotten things sorted out & reminded you what was said in your previous thread. i didn't see your "cloud 9" thread...shoot me.

Okay...:whatever Im done arguing w/ you...Your a waste of time...

.x.MiSS.LADi.x.
01-29-2008, 10:17 PM
the difference is in the delivery. and was that comment really necessary? :no

DING DING DING
we have a winner!!!!

rosebud*
01-29-2008, 10:17 PM
DING DING DING
we have a winner!!!!
:giggle

.x.MiSS.LADi.x.
01-29-2008, 10:18 PM
She did it NICELY! (something you know nothing about)
You were doing it bitchy
The way you said it, i took it as
"oh arent you and Dh having problems, do you really wanna do that, havent they already told you not to"

JadedPrincess
01-29-2008, 10:19 PM
You could have asked me in a more respectable manner...& the only person who can 'get my panties in a bunch' are my Dh :peace

I don't know about YOUR DH, but MY DB UNBUNCHES my panties...hell he takes 'em clean off! :giggle


I know I know, I couldn't help myself :D

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I sprinkled happy fetti damn it.....BE HAPPY.

.x.MiSS.LADi.x.
01-29-2008, 10:19 PM
:giggle

Lol- I still have a sense of humor when im mad as hell :D

rcwant2be
01-29-2008, 10:20 PM
She did it NICELY! (something you know nothing about)
You were doing it bitchy
The way you said it, i took it as
"oh arent you and Dh having problems, do you really wanna do that, havent they already told you not to"

well, you took it wrong.

.x.MiSS.LADi.x.
01-29-2008, 10:20 PM
I don't know about YOUR DH, but MY DB UNBUNCHES my panties...hell he takes 'em clean off! :giggle


I know I know, I couldn't help myself :D

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I sprinkled happy fetti damn it.....BE HAPPY.

Hahahah true, very true!

Im happyyyyyyyy see--> :cp

rosebud*
01-29-2008, 10:21 PM
I don't know about YOUR DH, but MY DB UNBUNCHES my panties...hell he takes 'em clean off! :giggle


I know I know, I couldn't help myself :D

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I sprinkled happy fetti damn it.....BE HAPPY.
damn ok :whoopdedoo there I'm happy spreading it around. :rofl

.x.MiSS.LADi.x.
01-29-2008, 10:22 PM
Im VERY happy!

Im gonna be havin LOTS and LOTS of sex TTC'ing in 28 freakin days :D

.x.MiSS.LADi.x.
01-29-2008, 10:22 PM
damn ok :whoopdedoo there I'm happy spreading it around. :rofl

:lmao

rosebud*
01-29-2008, 10:22 PM
well, you took it wrong.

well then I guess I took it wrong too, because that is how I read it.

.x.MiSS.LADi.x.
01-29-2008, 10:23 PM
well then I guess I took it wrong too, because that is how I read it.

That is CORRECT...

What do we have for her johnny? :heehee

.x.MiSS.LADi.x.
01-29-2008, 10:25 PM
Michelle You have won a all expense paid cruise to Jamaica, 5 days 5 night!!!

JadedPrincess
01-29-2008, 10:25 PM
:rofl

.x.MiSS.LADi.x.
01-29-2008, 10:25 PM
:lmao :ROFL :hehe ;) :ninja

.x.MiSS.LADi.x.
01-29-2008, 10:26 PM
Im in such a good mood tonight :D Its amazing, I have no clue why-- b/c i have every reason to be :depressed But Nope!

Carlye<3Sailor
01-29-2008, 10:28 PM
KeKe stop defending yourself and your relationship.. You dont need to justify that your ready to TTC.. if you know your ready, thats enough

and we're here to support you !!

So good luck !!!

JadedPrincess
01-29-2008, 10:30 PM
Im in such a good mood tonight :D Its amazing, I have no clue why-- b/c i have every reason to be :depressed But Nope!

Cause you're gonna get laid soon....That makes EVERYONE happy.

Anne24
01-29-2008, 10:31 PM
:bbdust Good luck!!! When in doubt "Just do it", lol. :pray :goodvibes that Noel will be a big brother soon!!!

.x.MiSS.LADi.x.
01-29-2008, 10:31 PM
KeKe stop defending yourself and your relationship.. You dont need to justify that your ready to TTC.. if you know your ready, thats enough

and we're here to support you !!

So good luck !!!

I know...Thanks!

I (L) You!

USMCSGTsGirl1239
01-29-2008, 10:32 PM
That is CORRECT...

What do we have for her johnny? :heehee

:rofl

.x.MiSS.LADi.x.
01-29-2008, 10:33 PM
Cause you're gonna get laid soon....That makes EVERYONE happy.

Hahah Your so funny! But right on the money!

Larissa
01-29-2008, 10:33 PM
KeKe stop defending yourself and your relationship.. You dont need to justify that your ready to TTC.. if you know your ready, thats enough

and we're here to support you !!

So good luck !!!

What she said :)!I hope you have lots of fun TTC and you get your miracle :).

.x.MiSS.LADi.x.
01-29-2008, 10:34 PM
:bbdust Good luck!!! When in doubt "Just do it", lol. :pray :goodvibes that Noel will be a big brother soon!!!

Ha, Thanks! Noel cant WAIT! Him & Anth want a new baby i think more then i do!

lovingamarine07
01-29-2008, 10:49 PM
WOOHOO for babies.... keep them away from me! but i hope you get your bun in the oven soon... im happy everyone is happy.. its making this kinda sucky night happy for me! :)

.x.MiSS.LADi.x.
01-29-2008, 10:50 PM
Good! Dont worry, Be happy!

.x.MiSS.LADi.x.
01-29-2008, 10:51 PM
Oh & Thank you! My Dh cant wait for me to be fat & pregnant :hehe

Misssimms07
01-30-2008, 12:07 AM
Ok .. so after reading six pages of that Jerry Springer episode...lol I had a good laugh.. I'm so happy for u!!! I'm glad u worked things out! YAHHH!!!! I can't wait to see pics from the grad!!!! But thats all the pics I wanna see..not the TTC part HAHA!! YAH!!!

JadedPrincess
01-30-2008, 12:55 AM
:rofl
:lmao

Godders_Girl80
01-30-2008, 01:48 AM
Michelle You have won a all expense paid cruise to Jamaica, 5 days 5 night!!!

Welcome to Jamaica man...

Everyting Irie...no problem :P


NOBODY speaks like that here. :teehee

:goodluck TTC hun!

sandykay
01-30-2008, 02:08 AM
I would just like to say, have lots of sex around the time you are dure to ovulate and GOOD LUCK.

Shanoony
01-30-2008, 02:19 AM
I know absolutely nothing about ovulating and all that good stuff but I wanna wish ya good luck!! Have lots of sex!!!

.x.MiSS.LADi.x.
01-30-2008, 07:05 AM
Hahaha Thanks Ladies :wub

Mommy2Bailey
01-30-2008, 08:40 AM
:rolleyes

If YOU are ready to TTC ignore all the rude comments. Not like they are gonna be the ones raising the baby.

Dawnzie
01-30-2008, 08:45 AM
yay for babies.... good luck :crossfingers

marinewife_sd
01-30-2008, 08:50 AM
Have lots of sex, different positions and places :giggle

Please ignore other people.

Good luck!

rosebud*
01-30-2008, 10:04 AM
Michelle You have won a all expense paid cruise to Jamaica, 5 days 5 night!!!

:woot :bliss I'm going to Jamaica!!!!!! :teehee

Caimbrie
01-30-2008, 10:10 AM
Having sex the day you ovulate is great.

I don't understand why RC even comes in here either... only to find sensitive shit to say something offensive about I'm sure.

Brittany Rashel
01-30-2008, 11:18 AM
If i remember correctly- Your a woman who is 'in control of ur body' and doesnt want kids to live right? So why are you hanging around the TTC threads?

They may have 'advised' me to put TTC on hold but only I have the right to make that decision, correct?
Obviously we've worked it out if we are still going to TTC....

Dont start trouble in my ####### thread!

oh don't listen to her honey! If you two think you're ready for a baby then go for it!! Best wishes :hugs :goodluck

.x.MiSS.LADi.x.
01-30-2008, 11:21 AM
Thanks Ladies :)
You guys really make me feel supported