so we have been married for almost 4 yrs alreay and not once have we ever used protection of any kind and do it like bunnies. we never really tried or planned on having kids but i kinda figured it would just happen. everyt time i went to the gyno they would say everything looks find and blah blah blah. should i be worried.................. me and the hubby talked about it and now we are ready to have some babies. any advice?

try charting your temp to see if you actually ovulate. If you are concerned, have your doctor run some tests to see if your hormone levels are alright.

You can be having sex on all the days but your fertile ones and that could be why you haven't got pregnant yet. I agree with giving temping and charting a whirl to pin point when you ovulate and hit the days leading up and on! Good luck Sweetie. :hugs

No bc or anything?

I would definitely suggest charting your temperature, and taking note of your cervical fluid. Look for an egg-white consistency which generally signifies ovulation. If it seems like you're not ovulating, I would definitely look into fertility testing. It could be that your gynocologist never mentioned anything about it because you never expressed a desire to be pregnant/have babies? It could be a hormonal problem which would have nothing to do with the physical stuff that they notice during exams. Good luck!!

I would use an ovulation kit!

I think that it just might have been off times when you were having sex. Plus they say if you are TTC don't do it everyday give him sperm time to build back up. Your gyno probably didn't say anything because he just did a regular exam. It might be something more in dept or it could be he has a low sperm count. Good luck

It could also be something with his little swimmers. Has he seen a dr.?

I would also suggest him seeing a doctor to make sure everything is flowing down there :D

I agree, start charting. Read "Taking Charge of Your Fertility" by Toni Weschler, and join a site like www.fertilityfriend.com that can help you figure out your charts. If you time intercourse well according to your charts and aren't preggo in 6 months, your doc will know what to do next. And your charts will be a big clue as to what might be wrong with you, if there is even anything wrong, so try to be accurate. Good luck!

i told him to see a doc last yr but i think hes scared to find out that its him. and no we have never used any kind of protection. i thought about the chart thing but im not good at keeping track of stuff like that. ill try though thanks!

My Dh is scared to see if its him too :hehe
He said if im not preg by April that he wants me to see a Dr, but when i suggested him go to, :no

i know same here. i told him to go buthe never did!!! ugh!!! we're gonna try for awhile longer adnsee what happens. hopefully he'll go soon!