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PattersonGal
02-06-2008, 11:21 AM
So. I am in the forum no-one in here ever wants to have to post in. But here I am. :(
As per DB's request, we are taking a break. I hate that term, I hate that we are doing it, and I hate that it is happening while he is in Iraq. He has been getting more and more distant since he got deployed 5 months ago, and now he is saying he needs to focus on himself for a while. He said we are at different points in our lives - I am still in college, and he is graduated and beginning a career. He also doesn't think he can handle the long-distance thing again, and when he gets back, we wouldn't be living in the same state.
He said he still cares for me...a small comfort I guess.
I fought for us all I could, but in the end, this is what he wants. :gloomy :unlove

If it's ok with all of you, I might stick around for a while - you are all so good to a girl when she is down :sadeyes

Godders_Girl80
02-06-2008, 12:56 PM
I'm sorry hun. I know it's hard but please stay with us and don't give up on him. He's probably just really stressed out. :hugs

baby.blue.eyes
02-06-2008, 12:59 PM
I'm sorry! Hang in there.

BrittanyJo
02-06-2008, 01:00 PM
Do you think there is a possability you two will get back together? I am so sorry. It seems like something is in the air lately with all of these break ups.

HeatherNichole
02-06-2008, 01:01 PM
I am so sorry!! :hugehug

PattersonGal
02-06-2008, 01:50 PM
Do you think there is a possability you two will get back together? I am so sorry. It seems like something is in the air lately with all of these break ups.

I don't know...I hope so, but right now it's pretty bleak :(

Thanks all of you for your thoughts and :hugs

MissAmyB
02-06-2008, 01:51 PM
I'm so sorry.

karababiie
02-06-2008, 01:59 PM
Im sorry.. hope things get better:grphug

mommytobe3421
02-06-2008, 02:21 PM
:glomp:bigsadhugawww hun im sorry i hope u guys can work things out

tinsygrl
02-06-2008, 02:23 PM
:hugs I'm sorry sweetie!

LovingMyMarine22
02-06-2008, 03:32 PM
awww :hug hang in there hun! <3 i know how hard that is...i've had to do it twice...n never knowing if you're gonna be back with that person can tear u to shreds. i fought and fought the first time to get DB to change his mind but in the end thats what he wanted. and i le thim know i still loved him and i was still here to support him n let him have his space n eventually he realized what he wanted.
Just hang in there and be strong. i know this is a hard thing to have to hear n deal with.
PM me if u need nething <3

<333333!

marinegirl85
02-09-2008, 03:57 PM
'm so sorry :hugs

CristinaFaye
02-09-2008, 03:59 PM
I am so sorry. Definitely stay here on the site. You'll need all the support you can get. Also, don't give up hope. Give him the space he needs and hopefully he'll come around. Good luck!

OneRed911
02-09-2008, 04:05 PM
:hugs

I really hope he realizes what a great girl he's giving up and comes back to you! Honey, you can stay here as LONG as you like. Breaking up doesn't mean we don't still care about you!

Mosley04
02-09-2008, 10:58 PM
I am so sorry. I mean you can only do so much and if thats what he really wants then let him have it. You are such a sweet person and if he cant understand that or is not willing too, then he does not deserve you.

PattersonGal
02-10-2008, 02:07 AM
Thanks girls. As always, you all know just the right thing to say. :grouphug

jen-marie
02-10-2008, 02:11 AM
:bigsadhug

missjenn00
02-12-2008, 11:03 PM
im sorry maybe you and him can be friends and hopefully things will work out for you.

shannon86
02-12-2008, 11:05 PM
i'm so sorry

NavyKat
02-12-2008, 11:11 PM
I'm sorry
I wish you all the best
:hugehug