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When you and your so cant agree on something and it pisses you off to no end. What do you do? Why?

If we just can NOT make any headway on the issue at that time it is tabled for discussion at a later date. If it is a decision that MUST be made immediately we work until we DO come to a decision.

Most things, we just agree to disagree and drop it. But when it is important things, we sit and talk it out. I voted agree to disagree, only because we agree on most things that are of mucho importance in our house.

well for Dh and I, Well it depends on the issue. We find ourselves to agree to disagree alot but if things get heated I will walk away and deal with it later when we both calm down. Then if its a issue that is VERY important we will try to talk it out.

We yell and scream and then talk it out. :lol

Sorry in advance, we found it works, so i think he does it on purpose....we are weird...

A BJ followed by :sex and discuss it again, we seem to come to an agreement.
LMAO! Sorry but its true, now he is away, we write it down and we will get to it later.
If in need of immidiate attention, he leaves it up to me (if i need to resolve the issue or him if he needs too) we have to trust eachother to make the best possible choice for our fam.

We talk it out and if we still don't get things worked out then he usually changes the subject, but that makes me mad so I bring it back up again a little later and then usually talk it out again.

Sorry in advance, we found it works, so i think he does it on purpose....we are weird...

A BJ followed by :sex and discuss it again, we seem to come to an agreement.


:rofl whatever works!

Usually DH is the one that gets emotional, so if it's anyone who's getting pissy it's him :teehee

Usually we just talk it out. We've kinda grown up from the yelling thing a long time ago. Although sometimes we do the walk away, agree to disagree, so it really depends on the subject.

that is one thing that I love about Db is that we can have adult conversations and talk through our problems... I have always been one to just walk away or get off the phone relax and get over it...but he doesn't let me do that he says that we need to talk about it to fix it...or it will just build up

Sorry in advance, we found it works, so i think he does it on purpose....we are weird...

A BJ followed by :sex and discuss it again, we seem to come to an agreement.
LMAO! Sorry but its true, now he is away, we write it down and we will get to it later.
If in need of immidiate attention, he leaves it up to me (if i need to resolve the issue or him if he needs too) we have to trust eachother to make the best possible choice for our fam.

:lmao if we have a huge fight...sex afterwards is a must.

I chose walk away but I usually walk away to calm down then go back to talk it out. :)

Sorry in advance, we found it works, so i think he does it on purpose....we are weird...

A BJ followed by :sex and discuss it again, we seem to come to an agreement.
LMAO! Sorry but its true, now he is away, we write it down and we will get to it later.
If in need of immidiate attention, he leaves it up to me (if i need to resolve the issue or him if he needs too) we have to trust eachother to make the best possible choice for our fam.

Does he pick fights on purpose? Because if that's how we resolved them, my Husband would take issue with something at least twice a day! :rofl :rofl

I try to walk away...he tries to follow and keep b***ching!! But eventually we just either agree to disagree or he comes to his senses :wink

I put other.
Sometimes we get heated. Most of the time we talk things out. I have been known to be a baby in disagreements. Luckily, Chuck teaches me a few things about maturity and loves me anyway.

Does he pick fights on purpose? Because if that's how we resolved them, my Husband would take issue with something at least twice a day! :rofl :rofl

:rofl

if it is something that just isn't going to be resolved or we cant' talk calmly about at the moment we walk away for the time being but make a "date" to discuss it later. we also never go to bed angry

if it is something that just isn't going to be resolved or we cant' talk calmly about at the moment we walk away for the time being but make a "date" to discuss it later. we also never go to bed angry

When we went through marriage counseling years ago that is one thing my pastor told us to do....Never go to bed angry. Good thing for DH because I am the type that if I think about it I will think of all the things that he was ever done. SOOOO its best for me to let go.

We talk it out...tell there's nothing left to say.

I refuse to fight... even if I'm really pissed or disagree I just refuse to fight. DH gets mad and he normally walks out. when he comes back we're good tho.

We talk it out. We have never not been able to come to an agreement on anything though...

Haha normally when I'm mad at him I clam up and don't say anything. After he asks, "What's wrong?" WAY more times than he should have to (I've gotten better about coming right out and saying when I'm upset :) ), we talk about it and work it out. :)

usually we'll scream at each other or if he throws a fit, i'll just leave him alone.. and 9/10 we have make up sex and it's like the argument never happened at all

We talk it out, my husband and I have never yelled and screamed at each other. If we can't come to some sort of agreement, we just agree to disagree. No use in being angry at each other because we see things a little differently. We are two different people sharing a life together. I don't expect him to agree with me on every thing. He does not expect it of me either. :D

If it's heated...I usually walk away to get calmed down. NEVER say anything in anger. We then can discuss it calmly.

We try to talk things out - if he gets upset and yells at me I usually end up shutting myself in another room crying until he calms down, then we finish talking it out. Sometimes we just have to leave it - it's really impossible (and silly) to agree on everything

it depends on the situation really... we've done all but yell and scream at each other.

It really depends on what the issue is. With DH's mental health issues it also depends on if his meds are working properly, the time of day, how much sleep he has gotten, etc. lol

We talk it out to the point that we come to a solution we can both live with

:lol All of the above? I will yell and scream, walk away/ignore him, but we always talk it out in the end.

i walk away at times, don't talk to DH or wahst not.. but after a while we talk it out cause I have always been told NEVER GO TO BED ANGRY

I had to put other.
Dh likes to walk away, I like to yell and scream, BUT I never get my way, and he refuses to talk things out.
Honestly, I dont think we ever resolve stuff, it just sits around.

I said "other" because its a combination of yelling and screaming and pouting for a while. Then we eventually talk it out and aplogize.

Talk it out.

Yelling and screaming does nothing but add fuel to the fire. Walking away delays the inevitable. And we have to talk it out in order to find a way to either agree or to agree to disagree.

If I am really steamed about something... I will walk away and go write about it, fork over the letter, and then eventually talk it out.

BUT DB and I don't really disagree much, and we talk everything out. We try to be very patient with each other. Neither one of us likes conflict, so we can usually have a discussion/settlement before we even start "fighting"

i'm really trying to change, so i picked other... most of the time, i'm completely heinous about fights. i yell, i take cheap shots, i bring up issues from the past, basically i play dirty. i KNOW i do this, i hate that i do it, and i'm really trying not to. its really hard for me, once i lose my temper, to keep my mind in control of my emotions.

what seems to help is walking away, taking a short time-out, then returning and talking it out like adults. unfortunately, i still have trouble seeing that when i'm in the moment, and it's prefaced by yelling and general psychoticness.

It depends on how our attitudes are. We are both stuborn people. Most of the time we talk things out but there are times he just gives in or we yell at eachother. He is one of those men that dont vocalize their feelings well. He will either give me everything or fight me. But we do try and work things out calmly.

I'm not sure... we have yet to get in a fight.
But I'd like to think we would talk it out!

Other----
I try to talk it out. He either gets pissed and breaks something, hangs up the phone, or walks away. :( Piss.

other. we talk it out, but we wait a little while to let ourselves calm down. we dont yell and scream, at all. we get attitudey.

Talk it out

I had to say other because I use many of those options depending on the situation.

If the argument is about his mother, we agree to disagree and that is that.

If it is about something that gets me heated I have to walk away at first, then DH will follow me, then I will get MAD and yell and scream, and then after I calm down we talk it out.

Everything else we just talk out without issue.

we keep talking until we find a common ground.