how did you deal with it?

ignore the fits? give in? combo of both? or is there a magical wand I need to purchase? ;)

I hate going out in public, never knowing how she's going to react to things and getting stared at by everyone for her screaming.

what do you do?

when were at home we use time outs or spankings my DH grew up on spankings just outside the pants though so that's what we do I do the timeouts and when were out in public then I just try and ignore it or take them to a private place and have a talk.