all done cant do it anymore i was way too stressed out i havent officially told him yet but that doesnt matter he apparently doesnt give a rats ass that someone cares and worries i know leaving him now is heartless but there is NOTHING i can do nothing at all he wont talk about anything that has anything to do with life at all eh changes the subject or jsut stops talking he cuts me out for weeks at a time and just doesnt care that his depression is affecting me im still going to be around if he needs someone to talk to but i cant keep doing everything when he doesnt give a shit i dont even need to tell him were done because i jsut got my first text message in two weeks and it means nothing and makes no sense bleh
:S happy valentines day to me

:hugs Awww. Hope you feel better soon. I don't really know what to say. So a hug should suffice for now.

I'm sorry honey, I'm here if you need to talk. :bigsadhug

:hugs I think it is for the best from what I have read from your other posts. He doesn't seem to doing anything and you are doing all the hard work. You can't have a relationship with someone who won't even discuss issues!!

I'm sorry to hear that! It sounds like it was more stress than good that came from the relationship though, and you are worth more than that! He has to want to help himself, even if he has the most supportive people in the world by his side. Keep your chin up dear! Summer is just around the corner, so you can scope out tons of fun guys at the beach! :teehee

i'm sorry to hear about that but i'm glad you're sticking up for yourself and not letting him walk all over you..two weeks without a text? that's :bs

since i cant get the multi quote to work ill reply this way:)

Peekaboo thanks for the hug its greatly appreciated

val thank you i may take you up on that offer right now im just mad and need to be mad kwim? i dont want to put that on anyone else:S

lol Trey you are VERY right thats a good point...yay for san diego boys lol

brittanyjo you are definately right i just got tired and couldnt take it anymore:S

thanks carly

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thanks steph

im mad at him but im still sad today we went to the mall and i realized its the mall we went on our first official date to the movies at and the freaking outback commercial keeps coming on and thats our fav restaurant i swear weve been there a bunch fo times :tears damn i hate this

I am so sorry sweetie...you know what? You can be my valentine :hugs :hugs :hugs

:hugs

I'm sorry
Maybe things will work out
stay strong

:bigsadhug

I am so sorry sweetie...you know what? You can be my valentine :hugs :hugs :hugs

aww thank you thats sweet :)

aww thank you thats sweet :)

Any time :) (L) :glomp

i think its for the best but it still sucks booty:(

i think its for the best but it still sucks booty:(
:( :cheerup

:hugs i'm sorry whatever happens its for the best.

I wish I knew the right words to say that would make you feel better!!! I'm sorry you're going through this though....maybe its for the best. I hope things get better soon!

i think it is for the best i am just too stressed about what hes upset about and how hes doing i forget to even think that i have a life too

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:hugs I'm sorry sweetie!

thank you guys

Sorry hun :hugs to you

Oh, can I be your Valentine too?! I wanna be your Valentine! :D

:hugs It really sucks but sometimes there's nothing else you can do. You can't be in the relationship alone and you deserve to give you just as much as you give them!

I'm sorry hun :hugs

:hugs It really sucks but sometimes there's nothing else you can do. You can't be in the relationship alone and you deserve to give you just as much as you give them!

your right the circumstances suck because i know hes not doing well at all but i cant help if he wont let me so what else can i do hes been dragging me down with him for months now :S

thank you guys

I am so sorry.

:sorrysign i know how hard it is to work and give and not get anything back in return. :hugehug if you ever need to vent i'm here..

I'm sorry kay :sadeyes
I've been in a similar situation... it gets old really quickly...
and as hard as it is.. ending it is really the best option because being 'together' isnt doing ANYone ANY favors.
:hugs

:hugehug

thanks guys i guess were not talking he ignored my phone call today :S awesome :(

:bigsadhug I'm sorry

thank you :)

awww im so sorry...:hugs

thanks

girl im so sorry. if you want to talk im here for you, just pm me.

thank you

:hugs Sorry you have to go through all this. Nothing I can say will help and sorry about that. Sometimes the hardest and best thing to do is to walk away.

But then again you said that he is dealing with depression. Maybe he needs time to help himself before he can even be the man you need him to be.

Hope everything works out for you!

thank you i feel better letting him get through it on his own sucks but he wont let me help so theres nothing i can do

I'm sorry to hear that! It sounds like it was more stress than good that came from the relationship though, and you are worth more than that! He has to want to help himself, even if he has the most supportive people in the world by his side. Keep your chin up dear! Summer is just around the corner, so you can scope out tons of fun guys at the beach! :teehee

I agree.

There is only so much you can do to try to help someone who won't even help themselves. BTDT and it sucks. I believe in the butterfly theory. Letting go is hard but if it's meant to be, that butterfly will come back.

thanks Tawny your right...