:unlove I can't really go into details cause I am at school and I don't wanna look like a fool bawling my eyes out at the computer, but Greg and I are done. I dont really know why I was blind sided by the whole thing. Its been two weeks and I feel like my world is coming to an end. He told me before we hung up that he loves me and can see himself marrying me he just doesn't wanna be with me. I wanna curl up in a ball and die right now. So please pray for me...:unlove

I'm so sorry! He can see himself marrying you, but doesn't want to be with you? I'm so confused. Then again, just about everything having to do with men confuses me.

I wish I could say something to make you feel better. I sure hope it all works out! I'm sending out a big hug your way!

I'm so sorry! He can see himself marrying you, but doesn't want to be with you? I'm so confused. Then again, just about everything having to do with men confuses me.

I wish I could say something to make you feel better. I sure hope it all works out! I'm sending out a big hug your way!

Thanks I need all the hugs i can get. He says that He doesnt want a girlfriend right now in his life. I know for a fact that there is no one else. I think he is scared to get too close to someone cause he doesn't wanna get married. Hes 26. I waitied for his ass when he was in Iraq. What more does he want from me :tears

Yeah, he can see himself marrying you but doesn't wanna be with you.... confuzled one over here! But hang in there and I hope that things work out the best for you!!! :hugs

Yeah, he can see himself marrying you but doesn't wanna be with you.... confuzled one over here! But hang in there and I hope that things work out the best for you!!! :hugs

Thanks. I mean I have faith that either way with or without him God will lead me to the right man. I am just tired of giving my heart to a man and having it broken. :gaah

wow, i am so sorry...kind of came out of nowhere didnt it?

:puzz...guys confuse me.....:hugs

Oh girl... I'm so sorry! :bigsadhug

I am so sorry! I am confused by what he says too but I hope you can be at peace with the decision eventually. Hopefully he will come to his senses

I'm sorry you are going through this!! He will regreat it soon, your a great woman!

:bigsadhug

Thanks. I mean I have faith that either way with or without him God will lead me to the right man. I am just tired of giving my heart to a man and having it broken. :gaah

You are absolutely right and obviously Greg was NOT the right man :hugs

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He sounds REALLY confused! I'm so sorry he's being this way!

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Oh no! I am so sorry. But I think you are an awesome person, and if he doesn't want to be with someone as wonderful as you... well then he's obviously not right in the head right now.

I'm really sorry you're hurting. :bigsadhug

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ugh, sweetie I can't believe he still hasn't called. what a boner. I love you and am here for you!

What is in the military water lately! Geez!!!! :hugs I'm sooooo sorry....I'm in the same boat, PM me if you need an ear that is going through the same.

:hugehug I am sorry you are going through this. :(

:hugs I'm so sorry!
He does sound very confusing, you just have to believe that things will be okay.
we're all here for you.

:hugs I'm sorrry sweetie!

Men.... They amaze & confuse the crap out of me everyday!!!:gaah
I really dont know what your "ex" is thinking..... scared?..maybe.....Stupid?....oh yea!! To let someone like you go.... is VERY stupid. I know I dont know you that well.... but I know you are a great person, and he was very lucky to have you in his life. Any guy would be lucky!!
I pray :pray things work out for you and him, But if not I am sure an AMAZING guy will snag you!!
Chin up girlie, we are here for you!!!:hugs

I'm so sorry..i know this feels like it came outta left field for you....I don't understand it either..how can you want to be with someone and marry them..yet not want to be with them :confuzzle

Men.... They amaze & confuse the crap out of me everyday!!!:gaah
I really dont know what your "ex" is thinking..... scared?..maybe.....Stupid?....oh yea!! To let someone like you go.... is VERY stupid. I know I dont know you that well.... but I know you are a great person, and he was very lucky to have you in his life. Any guy would be lucky!!
I pray :pray things work out for you and him, But if not I am sure an AMAZING guy will snag you!!
Chin up girlie, we are here for you!!!:hugs

what she said!!!!!!!!

:hugs to you sweetie

omg! I'm so sorry hun. :hugs What on earth is he thinking for real??

I hope he gets his head straight. He's probably just scared or something.


PM me if you want to talk o.k.

:puzz...guys confuse me.....:hugs

I know, sometimes i just want kill them. :vent But everything will be ok girly!!! He will realize that he made a stupid choice because he was scared. And you will either take him back, or have moved on to better things. And if he looses you for good he will regret it forever.

You'll be ok. Keep your head up!!:hugs

wow I am sorry...how confusing is that..he loves yous and can see himself marrying you but can't be with you...that doesn't make sense!!! i am soo sorry you have to go through this!

That doesnt make sense, he is crazy and insecure about his life. Honestly if he isnt all about marrying you or being with you then he is stupid and you deserve better. That comment from him is awful more than I just cant right now but you want to and yet you dont well what is it buddie. Girlie he doesnt even know what he just did. You grab a friend and watch a movie and eat ice cream and make plans for this weekend. You deserve fun and relaxation not crud and confusion. You deserve someone who is ready for the real world. Maybe in time he will realize he is ready for the future but in the mean time have fun with you and focus on the one who really matters, YOU!!
K

:hugehug sorry sweetie

:hugs :hugs :hugs :hugs i don't know what to say to make you feel better right now, chances are nothing much will help but time. im so sorry you're going through this!! hang in there! :hugs :hugs :hugs :hugs

Oh wow!! I'm so sorry to hear about this! HUGS HUGS HUGS!!!

Thanks ladies for all the advice. I know in the future him and I will definitely meet again. I know he will NEVER and he knows this, he will NEVER have another woman love him as much as I have. I loved that Man till he couldn't see straight. I am debating sending him his V-day present anyways and I started a book with letters i wrote him but never sent him when he was in Iraq and when we broke up. its a book of our whole relationship :( I am so tempted to send it all to him with no warning...Bastard :grumpy

I feel really bad for you. I hope you find some happiness for yourself and quickly. I'd like to see the day coming where he wakes up and comes to his senses only to find you have moved on and found love elsewhere. Who is he to say he could see himself marrying you but not being with you? Obviously, he has no concept of marriage if he treats a potential wife of his like this. What a trust-destroying statement he just made. Very good luck to you, sweetie.

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well that really makes no sense but :hugs :hugs :hugs im here if you want to talk and im so sorry HIS LOSS!

that's terrible, girl. believe it or not, I had an ex say almost exactly the same thing to me. I don't know why they think it makes any sense. I hope you feel better sooner rather than later and I am sorry he has put you through this pain :hugs

Men are crazy. My ex did the exact same thing. The last thing he said to me was "I love you." and then just stopped talking to me, completely out of the blue. When we finally did talk again he said he just wanted to focus on the army and didn't want to do the long disatance thing while in Iraq.
I hope your DB is just having a momentary loss of sanity and will snap out of it. Hugs to you!

I am so sorry!! If I can do anything for you, please don't hesitate to PM me! I'll be praying for you girl!!!

Oh Sweetie, I am so sorry :tears
What is going on with some of these guys lately? I have read so much heartache in the past few weeks it breaks my heart for you all. :no

I'm so sorry! He can see himself marrying you, but doesn't want to be with you? I'm so confused. Then again, just about everything having to do with men confuses me.

I wish I could say something to make you feel better. I sure hope it all works out! I'm sending out a big hug your way!

I have to agree. I hope that everything works out for you the way you want it too. I am so sorry.

:hugs I'm sorry

:hugs Find me on YIM anytime!

i am in the same boat baby.. :hug

im sorry.

i know how you feel. i just got done talking to him.. and all he can say is "he doesnt know"

so i dk.

men are so stupid.. lets just turn lesbian.. lol

i am in the same boat baby.. :hug

im sorry.

i know how you feel. i just got done talking to him.. and all he can say is "he doesnt know"

so i dk.

men are so stupid.. lets just turn lesbian.. lol

I told my mom thats why most women do it! I mean shit women understand women a lot better than men understand women LOL But I would never LOL I love certain aspects about a man lol. Damn tho I just wish these boys would shape up!!!!! :depressed:suspect:no

:spank them all

Thanks ladies for all the advice. I know in the future him and I will definitely meet again. I know he will NEVER and he knows this, he will NEVER have another woman love him as much as I have. I loved that Man till he couldn't see straight. I am debating sending him his V-day present anyways and I started a book with letters i wrote him but never sent him when he was in Iraq and when we broke up. its a book of our whole relationship :( I am so tempted to send it all to him with no warning...Bastard :grumpy


do it baby!

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i'm so sorry hun!!!

Oh MAN! WTF is wrong with these guys?! They are just so... I don't even know what they are. Im so sorry, Sweetie. I KNOW exactly how you feel! :tears

:hugehug's Im here if you need me!

:hugs I'm soo sorry sweetie. Things happen for a reason. You'll be ok

this month is CRAZY...

Men are insane.
I am SO sorry, hon. :hugs

:bigsadhug

Thanks Ladies. Today is going to be a hard one :( But I can do it ::brushes self off and stands up straight with chin up::

You sure can honey!! You're going to make it through this!! We all heart you here!

:sigh I wish this would get easier already :sigh

I'm so sorry :( i hope you start feeling better as soon as possible! you are definitely in my prayers

im sorry, that really sucks.

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I Just saw this, I am so sorry! :hugs