so not only am i having to deal with this deployment and him being gone and everything. but now im having to deal with his crazy ex girlfriend drama. is like this for anyone else? like its about to drive me insane.

In my opinion, drama isn't something that just happens to people, its something you have to be involved in for it to continue. :dunno

If you don't play a part, the drama often fades away.

Just curious as to why you have any involvement with his ex-girlfriend at all?

Yep...just don't give in to the drama :ignore

just tell her she sucks at life and to leave you two alone!

In my opinion, drama isn't something that just happens to people, its something you have to be involved in for it to continue. :dunno

If you don't play a part, the drama often fades away.

I don't necessarily agree with this. I'm still somewhat in a situation with my psycho ex-roommate where I've been ignoring him completely and he still sends me nasty and threatening text messages. I moved out in mid-november. Sometimes people just keep bringing the drama to you no matter how much you try and avoid it.

Hang in there and good luck with his crazy ex!!

OMG just got over the same deal with my db... except they never dated.. he just got laid twice! lmao

so while hes on deployment she sends him HER FREAKING UNDERWEAR!! & shes stationed at benning with him... and when i defaulted the pic of us kissing (from my sigy) on myspace, she puts one up of him giving her a kiss on the cheek... so i confronted her about it, because you just DONT do that 30 minutes after seeing it on my page!!! lol & she had the freaking nerve to tell me that since shes been with him longer that she gets to talk to him about it first & "will TELL [me] weather or not [I] CAN HAVE HIM" i mean, are you EFFING KIDDING ME?! lol so long story short, fake myspace, she forwards his "breakup email" where hes ripping her a new A**HOLE saying that he didnt break her heart because it was never his & they were never together & werent going to be & peace out!
lol everyone warned me about this psycho chick that stalked him- i just thought it was blown up! haha but im going to benning when he gets back & dealing with her BS! & im staying on base... it has cute little cabins!! EEK! lol and yeah, def gonna have some fun!!!

I don't necessarily agree with this. I'm still somewhat in a situation with my psycho ex-roommate where I've been ignoring him completely and he still sends me nasty and threatening text messages. I moved out in mid-november. Sometimes people just keep bringing the drama to you no matter how much you try and avoid it.

Hang in there and good luck with his crazy ex!!

Change your phone number? :dunno

OMG just got over the same deal with my db... except they never dated.. he just got laid twice! lmao

so while hes on deployment she sends him HER FREAKING UNDERWEAR!! & shes stationed at benning with him... and when i defaulted the pic of us kissing (from my sigy) on myspace, she puts one up of him giving her a kiss on the cheek... so i confronted her about it, because you just DONT do that 30 minutes after seeing it on my page!!! lol & she had the freaking nerve to tell me that since shes been with him longer that she gets to talk to him about it first & "will TELL [me] weather or not [I] CAN HAVE HIM" i mean, are you EFFING KIDDING ME?! lol so long story short, fake myspace, she forwards his "breakup email" where hes ripping her a new A**HOLE saying that he didnt break her heart because it was never his & they were never together & werent going to be & peace out!
lol everyone warned me about this psycho chick that stalked him- i just thought it was blown up! haha but im going to benning when he gets back & dealing with her BS! & im staying on base... it has cute little cabins!! EEK! lol and yeah, def gonna have some fun!!!


:duh This is exactly what I'm talking about. This is a girl from your boyfriends past, why are you even looking at her Myspace or giving her a second thought?

IMO, its up to your boyfriend to put a stop to things with her (its his business), not yours.

just tell her she sucks at life and to leave you two alone!

Tell her she sucks at life? :duh

That's very mature advice.

haha ok my situation though. i had a VERY rocky start with nick. and when we were talking the told me i was the only girl he was talking to and he was talking to two other girls. so we took some time apart and he wouldnt leave me alone calling me sending me messages text messages everything just wouldnt stop.well because of this it made it very hard to get over so we cont. to talk and we started dating and NOW his ex girlfriend from the past who everyone hates and says she is physco sent me a message this morning on myspace that they have beent alking and hanging out when im not around and that there going to get back together in april when the restraining order her mom put up againist him is dropped. so yeah im having a hard time dealing with this because i dont know if she is just saying this stuff to get to me OR if its really true. because of our rocky start it makes me think it could be true. and all he ever talks about is how he needs me to trust him and blah blah. so yeah this is really killingm e because im going to die if i wait for him 7 months thinking that were together and then he comes back home to her. and the thing that hurts is i sat on the phone crying to him one night telling him that if i wasnt what he wanted to tell me now so i could bow out gracefully without having to go thru this deployment but he promised me that marrying me is what he wanted and stuff so i dont know im having a really really bad day..and i cant talk to him to sort it out because of the deployment so yeah this SUCKS

im in the same place as you but his is his ex fiance which she is a pretty mean person but o well cus hes still with me

haha ok my situation though. i had a VERY rocky start with nick. and when we were talking the told me i was the only girl he was talking to and he was talking to two other girls. so we took some time apart and he wouldnt leave me alone calling me sending me messages text messages everything just wouldnt stop.well because of this it made it very hard to get over so we cont. to talk and we started dating and NOW his ex girlfriend from the past who everyone hates and says she is physco sent me a message this morning on myspace that they have beent alking and hanging out when im not around and that there going to get back together in april when the restraining order her mom put up againist him is dropped. so yeah im having a hard time dealing with this because i dont know if she is just saying this stuff to get to me OR if its really true. because of our rocky start it makes me think it could be true. and all he ever talks about is how he needs me to trust him and blah blah. so yeah this is really killingm e because im going to die if i wait for him 7 months thinking that were together and then he comes back home to her. and the thing that hurts is i sat on the phone crying to him one night telling him that if i wasnt what he wanted to tell me now so i could bow out gracefully without having to go thru this deployment but he promised me that marrying me is what he wanted and stuff so i dont know im having a really really bad day..and i cant talk to him to sort it out because of the deployment so yeah this SUCKS

:hug

Love needs to be built on trust.

As for the Myspace messages, block her. Enough said. Too easy. :dunno I don't follow how she can be saying she's hanging out with your boyfriend when you aren't around, while he's deployed??

How long have you two been together?

:hug

Love needs to be built on trust.

As for the Myspace messages, block her. Enough said. Too easy. :dunno I don't follow how she can be saying she's hanging out with your boyfriend when you aren't around, while he's deployed??

How long have you two been together?


i live in ga his base is in nc and his family lives in SC and thats where she lives. so when he would go home and we werent hanging out shes saying she was hanging out with him.

i live in ga his base is in nc and his family lives in SC and thats where she lives. so when he would go home and we werent hanging out shes saying she was hanging out with him.

I just still say, cut out the drama and focus on trust. :hug

just tell her she sucks at life and to leave you two alone!

LMAO!! I say that too!! hahaha cracked me up.

I don't necessarily agree with this. I'm still somewhat in a situation with my psycho ex-roommate where I've been ignoring him completely and he still sends me nasty and threatening text messages. I moved out in mid-november. Sometimes people just keep bringing the drama to you no matter how much you try and avoid it.

Hang in there and good luck with his crazy ex!!

I agree with this! Sometimes drama finds you, although I have found when I don't respond it does go away a hell of a lot faster!

hah ok you guys dont understand how crazy she is! like seriously nick had a marine ordered restraining order against her. apparently those just dont go away. i talked to his family today and she said that they cant get rid of it. the girl is so freaking crazy that she tried to break up his dad and and his dads girlfriend while nick and the crazy ex were together. she is freaking insane and out of her mind. and she wont leave me alone. nicks dads girlfriend told me today that img oing to have to threaten her with a retraining order to make her go away and if she doesnt ill have to follow thru with it. how freaking awesome.

Tell her she sucks at life? :duh

That's very mature advice.

wow, IT WAS A JOKE NOT ACTUAL ADVICE!

hah ok you guys dont understand how crazy she is! like seriously nick had a marine ordered restraining order against her. apparently those just dont go away. i talked to his family today and she said that they cant get rid of it. the girl is so freaking crazy that she tried to break up his dad and and his dads girlfriend while nick and the crazy ex were together. she is freaking insane and out of her mind. and she wont leave me alone. nicks dads girlfriend told me today that img oing to have to threaten her with a retraining order to make her go away and if she doesnt ill have to follow thru with it. how freaking awesome.


Clearly, she is not mentally stable. What happened to the restraining order? Is it still in place? If need be, you should think about getting one for yourself if you feel threatened. I know how it is dealing with crazy exes and it isn't fun and can really disrupt your lives. I really hope she can take the hint and realize that her deseperate attempts for attention will not get a reaction

wow, IT WAS A JOKE NOT ACTUAL ADVICE!


haha i def took your advice mature or not. i think maturity was thrown out the door along time ago when she started all this mess. it old her to get a life and stay out of mine. i dont feel threatend by her. but with nick being gone its hard to hear this stuff even though i know shes crazy. its like his my rock and if i have a problem i turn to him. well with him being gone its hard dealing with all of this. but his family has def picked up the slack and they assured me i had nothing to worry about but still iw ished she would just leave me alone. shes trying to talkt o my ex boyfriend and stuff its so freaking crazy!

DF dated this psycho stripper and she threatened me on myspace and stalked me online. All of this came out while he was in the field. During deployment a TON of other stuff came out VERY similar to the beginning of your relationship and it is incredibly hard to get over. You are doing the best you can, don't ever forget that. She sounds like she should be fit for a straight jacket. Crazy wench!

DF dated this psycho stripper and she threatened me on myspace and stalked me online. All of this came out while he was in the field. During deployment a TON of other stuff came out VERY similar to the beginning of your relationship and it is incredibly hard to get over. You are doing the best you can, don't ever forget that. She sounds like she should be fit for a straight jacket. Crazy wench!


haha oh gosh a crazy stripper ex girl i feel bad for you i know that could not have been an easy situation. yeah it is very hard to get over like i just want to scream and punch but then again its like i do trust him even given the past and with his family saying that im the one he wants to be wtih and they know it so i just idk. im staying strong. i promised him that i would wait for him and thats what im gonig to do. and if i end up getting played and hurt then ill just have to deal with it.