just got off the phone from having the "don't get married till you're out of school speech" again. She says DB needs time to adjust after coming home without having me to worry about. And she doesn't want me to have to support him....wtf?? Someone who's supported himself since he was 18 is going to let me support him....doubt it!

It's like she's punishing me for wanting to do the right thing i.e. not moving in together b/f marriage. (not that i think that's wrong, but she does) I told her that. She just thinks we should keep dating because "we haven't been dating that long because he hasn't been on U.S. soil" WTF???

Just doesn't get it :no

been there... my mom does the same things.

actually there right now... my mom keeps giving me the "don't rush to get married" speech too. i'm sorry chica. i know how much it sucks. :hugs PM me if u ever need to chat!

I understand my mom was giving me the wait speech but then finally was just like you have to make your own life. Hopefully your mom can come to realize that too. I am sorry you have to deal with that. :hugs

Don't let your mom's reservations and fears dictate your relationship. Your mom needs to trust that you are a responsible woman capable of making mature decisions. Don't get me wrong, moms usually know what's best...so consider her reasoning, but don't let her opinion be the ultimate deciding factor.

Best wishes to you.