View Full Version : I don't know what to do...


SAMSET
02-20-2008, 01:22 AM
edit.

PrincessBlue505
02-20-2008, 01:28 AM
If I was that stressed about it, I'd be going to the store and getting a crap load more of tests. False negatives are more likely than false positives. So if I got one or two more tests saying positive even if others were saying negative, I'd be betting I was preggo. At least then, I could be more certain about it...

*MarineBug420*
02-20-2008, 01:28 AM
Why would he stress out... you love each other...you had unprotected sex so I am assuming he and you both are ready to have a baby if that is what happens even though he is deployed and what not. I think you should deff tell him :D And I also would be buying a crap load of test :teehee

PrincessBlue505
02-20-2008, 01:29 AM
Oh, and it's more accurate with ur first morning urine, so I'd *try to get some sleep and save some of the tests for the morning and take a couple of them then.

*MarineBug420*
02-20-2008, 01:32 AM
Oh, and it's more accurate with ur first morning urine, so I'd *try to get some sleep and save some of the tests for the morning and take a couple of them then.

:tu

redhd21
02-20-2008, 01:34 AM
I say test some more... like was already said

sandykay
02-20-2008, 01:38 AM
Some poeople ovulate while they have AF, so just because it was the beginning of your cycle don't mean you can't be preggo. If you are really worried, go and get another test and pee on it in the morning. If you are worried about how your guy will be, then wait till you know for sure. Good Luck sweetie

mommytobe3421
02-20-2008, 01:46 AM
well first thing i would do like the other ladies said go get more tests and test again, but wait till u know for sure if ur prego or not to tell him

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02-20-2008, 01:50 AM
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KaseyLee
02-20-2008, 03:41 AM
Head to walmart little lady lol ha ha ha jk but really dont stress i know its hard but you could have just had a fluke with a false positive i mean just dont freak out to soon and def tell him but if you are worried it would be to much for him to handle tell him after you have taken a nother home test but i would share it with him for sure :wink good luck girl

coloradokitkat
02-20-2008, 03:48 AM
ok all of these ladies are saying go buy more tests. if you want to keep it in your own home, then definitely go and buy more tests. But when ever I thought I was pregnant, I went straight to the doctor. No tests or anything. Personally, I'd rather pay $25-$35 for a WAY more accurate response at the doctor's office than ~$100 on tests and more tests from the store. There flimsy and are known for false readings. Doctor's offices, while can still be unsure/false, are way more likely to be right than take home tests. But its all up to you :hugs hope everything works out for you :)

PrincessBlue505
02-20-2008, 04:03 AM
At my dr. office before being able to get a referral to an OB, they just did a stick test. They specifically told me the don't do blood tests there and they wouldn't give me one. Then the OB didn't see me until I was 12 weeks along, and it was at that point I was finally given a blood test. And the guy in the lab at my reg dr.'s actually told me their tests sucked and the home ones u buy from the store were better than theirs.

But anyway, I said get more tests if she was that anxious about it because then she wouldn't have to wait to get into the dr. She could do more tests tonight or first thing in the morning when she woke up.

And since she's a GF, I don't know if she has tricare or not through her parents and how civilians do it with testing/getting in to see the dr. Like I said, once I was refered out to a civi OB, they refused to see me until I was 12 weeks along...

TallBlondie82
02-20-2008, 07:15 AM
agree with all the other ladies about taking more tests...i wouldn't mention anything to your db until you know FOR SURE...and i can honestly see how he would stress about it...i mean not in a bad way...I think just not being able to be there for you during this whole thing would make him upset...so i would wait...

But when you know for sure...especially if you are preg...I would tell him asap...I think he would deserve to know ya know?/ let me know if you need anything...

swrlygrl
02-20-2008, 12:13 PM
ok i seriously buy them in bulk. the most accurate reading is first thing in the morning.

But you should go see your doctor if you have insuranc eit will be totally accurate and cost the same as another box of home tests (i think there like 10-15 bucks right).

I wouldn't tell your DB until you know for sure, then tell him ASAP. no need to make him worry if it isn't necessary.

hope the outcome is what you want.

SAMSET
02-20-2008, 12:31 PM
Alright...I took your advice...
I bought two more boxes = 4 tests
Did two in the early morning (8am) and just did the other two at (12pm) THEY WERE ALL NEGATIVE :wow:tu

I've never really heard of false positives with pregnancy tests only false negatives but man am I thankful for false positives and that it wasnt really positive :wowsers

I'm so relieved and still stressed out but I know that will die down soon.

Thanks for all the input I really appreciated it. I'm just thankful that they were all negative. Now I'm assuming my period is just late because I was so stressed out with DB getting here for R&R and then him leaving.

I'm really glad I didn't bring this up to him either. I would have stressed him out for nothing. Whew everything worked out...I'm pretty convinced that 5 negatives and fluke of a positive means I'm NOT pregnant. Now I just want to start my period just to be 100%.

Godders_Girl80
02-20-2008, 12:38 PM
:goodluck getting your period hun. Hubby and I were actually trying to get preggo on R & R and the timing wasn't right so it never happened but right now I amactually glad it didn't happen. Being pregnant is hard....esp the first time. We want to be together when it happens. :yes

SAMSET
02-20-2008, 12:42 PM
Yeah, I mean DB and I want to do things traditionally get married, get established then have children. So now just wouldn't have been the right timing at all. I mean we would have been excited about it, but just like you said, when we do finally get pregnant I want him to be here to experience everything with me. I wouldn't want to do it alone.

TallBlondie82
02-20-2008, 12:57 PM
phew....glad everything worked out hun!!!!

i was thinking about ya!

*MarineBug420*
02-20-2008, 02:31 PM
If you dont get AF soon deff go to the doc and get a blood test just to make sure :D Glad things are working out how you wanted

swrlygrl
02-20-2008, 02:46 PM
phew

WordensWife819
02-20-2008, 02:53 PM
First I would be heading to the store to buy a few more tests! If they come out positive, you'll have a pretty good idea!

Then... I would definately be telling him. Yeah, he prolly does have a lot on his plate, but he prolly should know if you might be preggo. He should know if he's gonna be a daddy! Just let him know that it's gonna be ok and you'll find out for sure soon.

missk
02-20-2008, 03:49 PM
i'd tell him! It took two people to make a baby if you are in fact pregnant. Why should you have to bear all the worrying?

SemperWife
02-20-2008, 04:57 PM
go see a doctor and get a urine test in a doctor's office, just to be sure. Then take things from there.

xMetalAnimeChick
02-20-2008, 05:01 PM
I would go to a doctor and get a blood test done, they are more accurate then the pee pee test and sometimes if you have an infection like and UTI and not know it then that can make a false positive.
I wouldn't tell him until you are sure...don't stress out too much, it will do you no good.
:hug I hope that everything works out for you.