So i just ogt back form my OB appoinmet..the baby looks great..and ever since DH has been home my contractions have stopped..although i am losing my muscus plug..but she said not to worry about it..I asked her if i could be induced early..since i'm due the day DH is suppose to leave for deployment (but it's still subject to change..if it does though it'll be earlier) and they said that they will not induce me..so now i have to have this baby all alone...my mom and dad are going to be in Italy the entire month of May and the rest of my family well lets just say they aren't around...so now i have no idea what i'm going to do with DD and i have to have this baby all alone..I know women do it everyday and i got myself into this..i'm not looking for pitty i'm just really depresed right now..and i'm worried because i had really bad post partum with Rose but i had Matt to help keep me stabel..now who am i going to have to help me?? i'm just scared of what will happen.....

I'm soooooo sorry.... Is there a friend that will be on Stand By???
Wish I could be there for you.
I haven't had children yet, but I don't think I'd like to do it alone!
I'm so very sorry!
But you're strong and you can do it!

You know I will help you as much as I can. Hopefully you will just have her a few weeks early and then everything will be ok. Just hang in there everything will work itself out.

:hugs I'm sorry you are going to have to do this alone, but there are resources available to you! Check out Operation Special Delivery, they provide a free labor coach (called a doula) for you so you have support and comfort during labor.

http://www.operationspecialdelivery.com/

I am so sorry. Do you have any friends around that could help with your dd while you are in the hospital? You should go to that other website that the other person posted to see what help you could get through them. I wish you the best of luck with everything.

:hugs I have been down that same road girl. Keep talking to your doctor about it or make an appointment with one of the other ones. There are some very understanding ob's there, don't give up just yet.

If you need anything just let me know :)

I'm having to do the exact same thing sweetie. I worry about getting to the hospital, HOW am I going to get to the hospital. Will labor start in a very dramatic way where I CANT drive myself to the hospital and if I have to call 911...how will I get home?

I'm being induced on Monday but I still worry that I won't make it until then...

I know exactly what you're feeling. It's hell, and stressful. But, my mom keeps reminding me that we as women have an inner well of strength that we call upon in times like this...and we ALWAYS make it through just fine. That's what makes us amazing! :hugs

PM me if you want to, hun.

yeah, im in that same boat as well... i totally feel for you!! Dh will be gone and as of right now none of my family can fly to germany...so not only will i be delivering my baby with no support system, I'll be thousands of miles away from everyone i know... but hey, the way i see it, if anyone can do it, a military wife can, eh?

Thanks soo much ladies!!!!!!! i really appreciate all the support!!! got me all teary eyed!!

If i could be there with you I would be .... ( hugs )

Are you sure there not going to let your DH stay back...there letting my DH stay back for 10 days starting at my due date

:hugs I'm sure it will be ok!

Are you sure there not going to let your DH stay back...there letting my DH stay back for 10 days starting at my due date

Nope they sure won't....they HAVE to have him they say...he's one of the main people...probably because they're shop is undermaned..i mean we're transfering to shore duty during cruise and at first he wasn't even suppose to go but now they're keeping him for as long as they can(5 months)...assholes!!!!

My daughter was going to be induced a week early and DH was going to fly home from leave well she came a week earlier.
I used www.operationbabyblanket.com they are great and helped me when he was gone and I was preggos.

Good luck with everything!
I know what you're going thru and I hope it all works out!
:hugs

Good luck! :hug :hug You have us to keep you stable, right?

I will :pray for you that she comes a week early...I wish I could be more help :hugs