:unloveso everything seemed like it was fine with me n the bf.he is in a school so we would get to talk often.and then all of a sudden the calls seemed to be coming less and less.so finally i asked him if he ws still commited to our relationship,and he told me yes and we got into a big fight and i havnt talked to him for almost two weeks.well,today i finally got to get onto myspace and i saw that he had updated his profile.and so apparently he is now single,he took all our pix off there and took off everything about me and im not on his top.i know,it sound really dumb cuz its myspace,but im SUPER BUMMED.he ,made me promise to make thing work,and he goes off and pulls this shit?!what the hell?!?!oh my goodness....im....ugg....i dont know what to do.i love him soo much and we had a promising future,now its all gone to shit.and of course he blames it on the military....military stress....i dno....:no

bree

how mature of him...is that his way of breaking up with you!? He could have at least had to decency to call you and tell you things weren't working out! I am so sorry you are going through this!!!

I'm so sorry! Have you tried to call him and talk to him about it?

:hugs :hugs :hugs

:hugehug I am so sorry you are going through this right now. Try to call him and clear it out!

I'm sorry to hear this. You sure do deserve better!

Awwww Bree.. no wonder you've been gone for a while :( Well I hope he's just going through a phase.. I kinda had to deal with that from dh when he got to A-school.... they get this weird schedule... he barely has time to talk to me.. he's tired when he does...and they get a taste of freedom coming off of bootcamp.. I hope he comes around .. try and talk to him so ur not wondering... awwwww... HUG!

I'm so sorry girl!! you deserve better!! i'm here for ya when you need to talk!! feel better!

Awwww Bree.. no wonder you've been gone for a while :( Well I hope he's just going through a phase.. I kinda had to deal with that from dh when he got to A-school.... they get this weird schedule... he barely has time to talk to me.. he's tired when he does...and they get a taste of freedom coming off of bootcamp.. I hope he comes around .. try and talk to him so ur not wondering... awwwww... HUG!


Not picking on you, or trying to burst any bubbles...but lets say he IS just going through a phase...who wants to be with a guy who goes through "phases" where he just edits you out of his life and pretends like it doesn't even matter? :dunno

To me, it wouldn't matter what the excuse was, short of temporary insanity. The OP deserves better.

Not picking on you, or trying to burst any bubbles...but lets say he IS just going through a phase...who wants to be with a guy who goes through "phases" where he just edits you out of his life and pretends like it doesn't even matter? :dunno

To me, it wouldn't matter what the excuse was, short of temporary insanity. The OP deserves better.

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Love is constant. Not for when someone "feels like". There will always be stresses in life. The thing that makes the difference between real love and just a thing is consistency. :yes

Not picking on you, or trying to burst any bubbles...but lets say he IS just going through a phase...who wants to be with a guy who goes through "phases" where he just edits you out of his life and pretends like it doesn't even matter? :dunno

To me, it wouldn't matter what the excuse was, short of temporary insanity. The OP deserves better.

I definitly agree...and even if he would have handled it better it would be more understanding...but to stop talking to you completely and delete your form myspace...what?!?

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Yeah that was pretty immature of him...I'm sorry you have to go through this hun..

Not picking on you, or trying to burst any bubbles...but lets say he IS just going through a phase...who wants to be with a guy who goes through "phases" where he just edits you out of his life and pretends like it doesn't even matter? :dunno

To me, it wouldn't matter what the excuse was, short of temporary insanity. The OP deserves better.

:agree

Not picking on you, or trying to burst any bubbles...but lets say he IS just going through a phase...who wants to be with a guy who goes through "phases" where he just edits you out of his life and pretends like it doesn't even matter? :dunno

To me, it wouldn't matter what the excuse was, short of temporary insanity. The OP deserves better.
I agree...

but if it's really meant to be then u guys will work through this...so hopefully he comes to his senses and apologizes for acting so rashly...

i'm sorry...

God, that is awful. I'm sorry. If he did this to you, then he doesn't deserve you. :bigsadhug

2 weeks? Did you try talking to him in those 2 weeks or did you wait for him to come to you? Maybe you should still try talking to him about it.

If not, he obviously wasn't worth it. A man who goes 2 weeks without talking to his girlfriend when he has the option to, then he's just not worth your time!

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how mature of him...is that his way of breaking up with you!? He could have at least had to decency to call you and tell you things weren't working out! I am so sorry you are going through this!!!

I totally agree...that was very childish of him to do that instead of being a man and talking to you about it...I am sorry!!!

:hugs that sucks so bad... why are guys such jerks... :hugs

wow, that is ridiculous...you deserve better than someone who would do that anyways!!! stress or not! :banghead