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He's married.

He's been home two weeks. He's on terminal leave.

He lied to me. I cannot believe it. I have completely shut down.

Bury myself in work is all I know to do. Try and forget about him because if I don't, I'll get in the car and do something rash like find little ol' Greenwood and meet the family. Which would accomplish nothing. It wouldn't even make me feel any better.

I've emailed him, asking for an explanation but I'm not expecting a response. He knows he's been caught.

I've looked back and there really wasn't any way for me to know there was a problem. He trusted that I would sit and wait like a good little girl. He didn't count on my using my resources. It was only once I started digging that I discovered all the inconsistencies in his story; things I had no way of knowing b/c I was so ignorant to the military.

What a mess.

I love you all and you are all my friends. I intend to stay around to love on all of you - if you'll have me.

:sigh

OMG sweetie. :hugehug :hugs :glomp WTF is going on with men lately. I'm sooo sorry he is such an ass!!! of course you can stay here we (L) you. Uggh i feel sick for you.

OH MY GOSH!! My jaw just dropped when I read this...let me get this straight..you have been waiting for him for over a year...and WHAT...he is married and HOME!!! What they heck? How long has he been married? I am so confused!!! I can't even imagine what you are going through right now!! I am so sorry!! if you need to talk or vent or anything feel free to PM me!! :hugehug Stray strong sweetie!

Oh gosh!! I'm sorry to hear that you were decieved!!! I don't think anyone would want you to leave, especially since you need the support right now!!! So, if its any consulation...I'LL HAVE YOU!

:hugs I am so sorry!! I dont know really have any advices to give you :hugs

UGH. What a lowdown thing for a man to do--and not what you deserve at all. :hugs I am so sorry.

Write a letter to his Wife! Send it, don't send it. Your choice. Get it off your chest. What a horrible thing he has done to you. :hugs

oh my goodness. that's terrible!! :hugs i'm sorry for what you're going through. stay strong.

:shock oh sweetie i'm so sorry :hugs

Wow.



:hugs

wow, what a jerk, some guys are dogs. i'm so sorry :hugs

:shock I am so sorry hun. I can't even imagine what you are feeling right now, but everyone is here for you! :hugs You deserve much much better!!

I don't really know what to say. I can't even imagine. :sadeyes

Jeez...some men can be such dicks. I'm sorry hun :bigsadhug

:grouphug

Thank you, friends.

:hugs im sooo sorry sweetie

WA-oww......I'm just sitting here with my mouth open....this makes no sense to me.....how in the world.....uggh. I am so so so sorry.

I'm so sorry :bigsadhug I know how painful it is to find out you've been lied to. I hope you get some answers. Does his wife know about any of this?

I don't even know what to say. I am so angry for you I could just scream!! How could someone do that???

W H A T ? Ugh, I'm so sorry. :(

You're a better person that I am, I'd be knocking on his door telling his wife in a heartbeat!

Wow
Married?
Wow

OMG Im sorry hun:bigsadhug

oh holy hell ims o sorry :hugs thats not cool

:wowsers That is crazy!!! What an ass to keep you stringing along, and how long was he going to continue this if you hadn't found out?? :hugs

Woahhh, how did you find all of this out. You should write to his wife and let her know. She deserves the truth.

I'm just so angry for you. I hate that he's a liar. We're here for you. :bigsadhug

I am just sitting here in shock! I'm so sorry he did this to you! I can't even imagine! I'm sorry!!!!!

wow! what a pig.......seriously.......

WOW..I can't imagine why someone would do something like that. What an asshole..
Seriously..why!?!? I would definitely write a letter to his wife so she knows..she deserves to know!

:wow

:hugs to you! at least you know you're not with a loser anymore.

I'm so sorry, what a jerk!! :hugs

I'm so sorry. :hugs

W H A T ? Ugh, I'm so sorry. :(

You're a better person that I am, I'd be knocking on his door telling his wife in a heartbeat!



DITTO!!!
I am so sorry! What a freaking a..hole!

:bigsadhug

Stay, we love you! :hugs

What a horrible thing to do to people!

WOW I'm so sorry!

:wowsers OMG!!! I'm so sorry, hun! :bigsadhug

I am SO sorry!! :hugehug

I am so, deeply sorry. :hugs

Unbelieveable. If I may borrow the adjective some of my SOS sisters use...what an ASSHAT. I am soooo sorry to know you are dealing with this and can not even imagine how numb you must feel. Please, please, please stay around. We will support you through it just as you have encouraged us along the way. Better, brighter days ahead, my friend. Sending you lots of :hugehug

:hugs I am so sorry.

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He's married.

He's been home two weeks. He's on terminal leave.

He lied to me. I cannot believe it. I have completely shut down.

Bury myself in work is all I know to do. Try and forget about him because if I don't, I'll get in the car and do something rash like find little ol' Greenwood and meet the family. Which would accomplish nothing. It wouldn't even make me feel any better.

I've emailed him, asking for an explanation but I'm not expecting a response. He knows he's been caught.

I've looked back and there really wasn't any way for me to know there was a problem. He trusted that I would sit and wait like a good little girl. He didn't count on my using my resources. It was only once I started digging that I discovered all the inconsistencies in his story; things I had no way of knowing b/c I was so ignorant to the military.

What a mess.

I love you all and you are all my friends. I intend to stay around to love on all of you - if you'll have me.

:sigh

:eek:wow:wow:wow:wow:wow:wow:wow:wow



WHAT?!!?!?!?!?!?!


OMGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGG!!!!!!!


My jaw has DROPPED!!!

I'm so sorry you're going through this!!!!! OMG!!!! HUGS!!!!