he can have that stupid bitch.
i'm done.
i wanna cry because i feel so stupid for waiting for him.
i knew it was gonna happen though so i cant make myself cry even if i force myself to.
fuck you fuck you fuck you.
eat me, asshole.

OMG girl! Did you just find out something? I'm so sorry! :hugs

OMG girl! Did you just find out something? I'm so sorry! :hugs

:tears yes. i left him a comment and i messed up on it and his myspace comments are hidden and so when i did that whole copy and paste to look at his comments to re edit mine... i saw his page had a bunch of comments from some girl from like 10 minutes ago and so i started reading them cuz they were vulgar.... and so i went to her page and to read his comments and hes over here telling her that when he gets back from boot camp in july if shes going to claim she had a boyfriend like the last time he tried to do something to her (we were on a break but agreed to not see other people) and then he said hes not gonna have a GF when he gets back from a school.

:tears yes. i left him a comment and i messed up on it and his myspace comments are hidden and so when i did that whole copy and paste to look at his comments to re edit mine... i saw his page had a bunch of comments from some girl from like 10 minutes ago and so i started reading them cuz they were vulgar.... and so i went to her page and to read his comments and hes over here telling her that when he gets back from boot camp in july if shes going to claim she had a boyfriend like the last time he tried to do something to her (we were on a break but agreed to not see other people) and then he said hes not gonna have a GF when he gets back from a school.

:hugs. I am SSSOOOOO sorry!!!!

:tears yes. i left him a comment and i messed up on it and his myspace comments are hidden and so when i did that whole copy and paste to look at his comments to re edit mine... i saw his page had a bunch of comments from some girl from like 10 minutes ago and so i started reading them cuz they were vulgar.... and so i went to her page and to read his comments and hes over here telling her that when he gets back from boot camp in july if shes going to claim she had a boyfriend like the last time he tried to do something to her (we were on a break but agreed to not see other people) and then he said hes not gonna have a GF when he gets back from a school.

Wow! I'm so sorry. What an ass. And after being together for three years! :hugs

Awww hon that stinks. I'm so sorry. :hugs

WHAAAAT?!?!

im sorry sweetie!:hugs

UGH!! Men suck...they really do.

I'm so sorry to hear he's done this to you!!

:hugs :hugs :hugs

he claims to have never cheated.. i havent spoke to him today since i read the message... but hes told me before... he called this morning and kept asking me to send me his cell phone. i dont want to send it! i paid for it! i dont want to confront him either cuz i know ill go running back to him like ialways do when he does something like that (this isnt the first time) im seeing a fucking therapist because of him! skdjfsdkjfgsdf... he changed so much after boot camp. on friday he was the most nicest sweetest guy ever. gah. i feel stupid for waiting.

that's bullshit...you don't have to take that...and don't send him SHIT!!! :bigsadhug

:hugehug, don't dare send him that phone. send him a box of poo instead

he claims to have never cheated.. i havent spoke to him today since i read the message... but hes told me before... he called this morning and kept asking me to send me his cell phone. i dont want to send it! i paid for it! i dont want to confront him either cuz i know ill go running back to him like ialways do when he does something like that (this isnt the first time) im seeing a fucking therapist because of him! skdjfsdkjfgsdf... he changed so much after boot camp. on friday he was the most nicest sweetest guy ever. gah. i feel stupid for waiting.

Girl, sounds like you need to run! I know it's hard to break things off but you can't spend the rest of your life not trusting you SO. You deserve to be in a relationship where you can trust your SO and not have these horrible surprises.

:hugehug, don't dare send him that phone. send him a box of poo instead

that's what i would do too

:hugehug:hugehug:hugehug

:hugehug, don't dare send him that phone. send him a box of poo instead

:lol aww thanks that made me laugh

:lol aww thanks that made me laugh

Hell send him a box of F U....Ask your lil chick friend to buy you a phone.

I'm sorry hun :hugs

:hugs I'm so sorry

anyone wanna buy a 2007 mazda3? i cant bear to look at it anymore. :lol its his most prized possesion...

http://a231.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/51/l_786e9b3e43513b01a454618300629346.jpg

I am sorry hun :hugs If there is anything else i can do, let me know

wow hun i am so sorry what a friggen ass

i'm so sorry girl!!! we're here for you!!! big hug! :hug

Girl, sounds like you need to run! I know it's hard to break things off but you can't spend the rest of your life not trusting you SO. You deserve to be in a relationship where you can trust your SO and not have these horrible surprises.

I agree with this!! Don't send him the phone either. :hugs I am so sorry that this is happening to you. You are better off without him!! :hugs You are a strong girl and will make it through this.

Well now we can go through this together :hugs

anyone wanna buy a 2007 mazda3? i cant bear to look at it anymore. :lol its his most prized possesion...

http://a231.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/51/l_786e9b3e43513b01a454618300629346.jpg

I'll buy it for a dollar lmao... so sorry he is such an ass...

Im So Sorry!!! :hug

I'm so sorry girl. :hugs

If you really want to send poo I do know there is an actual site that will send it for you haha. I saw it on tv once and found this site but not sure if it's the same place. It would get the job done though. ;)

Click Here (http://www.pooyou.com/products) or Click Here (http://www.poopsenders.com/?gclid=CNfB5Z-yn5ICFQUzgQodnzDnMg)

Well now we can go through this together :hugs Are you going through a break up 2?? am I living in cloud 9 or what? LOL

I'm really sorry hun! Its so difficult to get through and I know its hard to see it now but you will be better off in the end if you stand up and don't take the BS! Good luck!!!

i wish AIM would download faster :sadeyes i'm hurrying it as much as i can so i can talk to you :hugs i love you and you're my favorite and screw that db (douche bag, remember?).

I'm so sorry girl. :hugs

If you really want to send poo I do know there is an actual site that will send it for you haha. I saw it on tv once and found this site but not sure if it's the same place. It would get the job done though. ;)

Click Here (http://www.pooyou.com/products) or Click Here (http://www.poopsenders.com/?gclid=CNfB5Z-yn5ICFQUzgQodnzDnMg)

that is fucking amazing.

I'm sorry hun. :hugs

Here's another one for you.

http://www.momandpoopcompany.com/index.html

Oh hun I am sooo sorry:(

that is fucking amazing.

I like the 2nd one the most. You can send it and the person wont even know who it's from! :lmao You can choose from Gorilla, cow and elephant droppings for the 2nd one hehe. :D Best thing is it's REAL droppings haha.

OMG What a dick!!! He has some nerve to do this to you after all you have done for him (ie two words: his mom!!!) Dont send him the phone and freaking sell the car today!! He doesnt deserve crap.

Well now we can go through this together :hugs

:hugs yay thanks.

I'll buy it for a dollar lmao... so sorry he is such an ass...

lol.... he is an ass. always has been but i always looked past it

I'm so sorry girl. :hugs

If you really want to send poo I do know there is an actual site that will send it for you haha. I saw it on tv once and found this site but not sure if it's the same place. It would get the job done though. ;)

Click Here (http://www.pooyou.com/products) or Click Here (http://www.poopsenders.com/?gclid=CNfB5Z-yn5ICFQUzgQodnzDnMg)

haha that is so awesome!

Are you going through a break up 2?? am I living in cloud 9 or what? LOL

I'm really sorry hun! Its so difficult to get through and I know its hard to see it now but you will be better off in the end if you stand up and don't take the BS! Good luck!!!

we're not going through a break up but i dont want anything to do with him. i have not spoke to him so he has to clue what is up.

i wish AIM would download faster :sadeyes i'm hurrying it as much as i can so i can talk to you :hugs i love you and you're my favorite and screw that db (douche bag, remember?).

yay! im a talking to you! :bliss

I'm sorry hun. :hugs

Here's another one for you.

http://www.momandpoopcompany.com/index.html

haha theres so many sites out there... that is so aweosme

OMG What a dick!!! He has some nerve to do this to you after all you have done for him (ie two words: his mom!!!) Dont send him the phone and freaking sell the car today!! He doesnt deserve crap.

yup i know. i hate him so bad right now.

:sadeyes I'm sorry hun :hugs

i'm so sorry sweetie! :hugehug

:hugs i can't believe that...after everything you've done and waited for him for...:wow

don't send him that phone..

Oh man oh man, I am so sorry. And I agree, don't send the phone!!

ok so like i told andrea (omg its andrea) im starting to not be mad at him anymore. im starting to pretend it didnt happen. please someone knock some sense into me! and tell me im not the only one whose ever talked themselves out of being mad!

don't talk yourself out of being mad...you can calm down and create rational thoughts....but don't forget what you have to do...stand up for yourself and get answers..

ok so like i told andrea (omg its andrea) im starting to not be mad at him anymore. im starting to pretend it didnt happen. please someone knock some sense into me! and tell me im not the only one whose ever talked themselves out of being mad!

oh been there done that girl...and its easy to do...but I think you need to confront him about what you saw...and let him know that you need some time to think and that you are not sure when you will talk to him again...it will be hard at first but keep busy!! I am so sorry!!! :hugs

oh been there done that girl...and its easy to do...but I think you need to confront him about what you saw...and let him know that you need some time to think and that you are not sure when you will talk to him again...it will be hard at first but keep busy!! I am so sorry!!! :hugs

I definitely agree! im so sorry you saw that stuff hun! :hugs :hugs :hugs
but don't let him get the best of you...confront him and get answers out of him. im terribly sorry hun <3

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Im really incredibly sorry that you are going through this...I hope you can find the good in it and move on and find someone who deserves you 100%

I am so sorry that you are going through this!!!!! I can just imagine how painful it must be for you. I vote that you send him the poo though!!!! Hun you have the right to expect him to treat you with respect, he apparently has a difficult time doing it. YOU DESERVE BETTER!!!!

I am SO sorry!! :hugehug!!

Oh my.. Im SOOOO sorry! I feel so bad for you. This is horrid. I HAVE been in your shoes, and my heart aches for you. Please stay strong. Your a beautiful and wonderful person. You can do SOOOO much better. Were here for you, while your walking through the valley... Cheering you on.. Rooting for you.. and if we could carry you through this, we would. Hang in there, your in my thoughts. :hugehug

wow holy crap hun i am SO sorry i found out traivs was doing the same thing and dropped him but we werent together for that long still i kinda sorta know how you feel
PS i totally want a mazda 3 lol :P
:hugs if you want o talk im around:)

Hmm well go back n read what u wrote the first time u posted babe, b/c that will make u mad all over again. And tell him u need to think and have time to yourself. The other ladies are correct this will be hard, and u will want to take him back. Do not do that, you will only regret it later on.

And send him poo.

Sell the car to runawaylove or sell it on craig's list. :lmao

:hugs girlie stay strong

:tears yes. i left him a comment and i messed up on it and his myspace comments are hidden and so when i did that whole copy and paste to look at his comments to re edit mine... i saw his page had a bunch of comments from some girl from like 10 minutes ago and so i started reading them cuz they were vulgar.... and so i went to her page and to read his comments and hes over here telling her that when he gets back from boot camp in july if shes going to claim she had a boyfriend like the last time he tried to do something to her (we were on a break but agreed to not see other people) and then he said hes not gonna have a GF when he gets back from a school.
emmers!! :spank his ass. WTF

OMG ERICA!!!!!!!!!

what happened!?!?! i ammm soo sorry :bigsadhug

did he break up with you!!!!?????

PM me!!!

I hope everything gets better 4 u...:)

That Blows!!! These damn MEN!!!!! make you sick sometimes! You deserve better if you're not happy Ok!!!! Love ya!!

guys really can be quite the assholes. dont worry, im somewhat in the same boat that you are. i thought that my guy was completely perfect and about a month ago his ex gf found my aol screen name and messaged me and scanned and sent me a 3 page letter that he had recently sent her that was VERY VERY deep. no need for examples but it absolutely crushed me. we still talk and i still havent fully forgiven him yet. once trust is broken its hard to get back...considering im in pennsylvania and hes in colorado. everything happens for a reason everyone tells me but sometimes its just so hard to understand. if you need anything you can message me! stay strong babe!

ok so like i told andrea (omg its andrea) im starting to not be mad at him anymore. im starting to pretend it didnt happen. please someone knock some sense into me! and tell me im not the only one whose ever talked themselves out of being mad!

Sweetie stay strong! You said this isn't the first time, and in my experience guys like this don't change. I spent 8 long years before finally getting over my ex. He could be so charismatic, but manipulating. REMEMBER!! You are better than this, you deserve better than this!! And if he doesn't treat you like the princess you are, then move on and find your prince.

Then when he sees how happy you are without him, you can smile and hold up your chin and think, "Yeah, dick head, you fucked up!"

Im so sorry sweetie!:hugs

1. dont get unmad this needs to be dealt with if you keep putting it away thats why you see a therapist
2. dont send him the phone
3. send him the pile of poo
4. also send a fuck you
5. he's not worth your time
6. you can find someone else dont settle
7. kick him in the baby maker and tell him what a peice of shit he is

FOLLOW THEM!!

Oh, I'm soooo sorry! I'm with a few of the other ladies here....when you find yourself starting to forgive him (before confronting him), re-read your original post.

And whoever found the poo sites....I love them!!!

You deserver so much more and better.. The guy not only went behind your back with another girl. He also disrespect you!!! YOU BETTER NOT SEND THE PHONE!!! He can fucking get one himself. What a wanker. Everytime you feel like letting go and pretending that it never happen, think of what he wrote to that girl and how he treated you. That should be enough fuel for the fire in you.

Stay strong sweetie, you owe it to yourself to stay mad at him. What he did was fucked up! You deserve more.. so much more! If you forgive him, you will never forgive yourself. Don't be trampled on! Stay mad! He deserves it!

wowwww what a piece of shittt.....im sryy<333333

What a DICK!!!!!!!!! You deserve way better than this!!! Good luck on finding the right person for you!!!! Love ya!!

Wow sweetie, I haven't talked to ya in awhile......what the hell happened??? :wow